SCRIPTURE RELEVANT TO SEX
  REMEMBER it is NEVER what we think
     but ALWAYS what God thinks
     that matters in the spiritual world.
         Make SURE you yourself have READ God's Words in Scripture.
          Make SURE you have used the concordance with the Bible.
           Make SURE you have ASKED the Holy Spirit to counsel you.
       Anyone who contradicts God's words and heart are believing his own wrong ideas or lies of the devil.
                       If you become aware of a discrepancy between your thoughts and God's,
              immediately repent, and ask God's help to turn away from sinning in thought or deeds.
              Other help can be found, at a local church or Christian counseling center.  Take a look at the following -
               Baptism of water    DELIVERANCE from INIQUITY    Healing Marriages    communion    Intimacy with God    Healing Self Image
              A majority of sexual problems are INHERITED, result from confusing LUST with LOVE, SIN resulting in addictions,
                     and/or not recognizing that true self image is a mirror/reflection of God's adoration of them.

Abortion

Psalm 106;37-38    They sacrificed their sons and their daughters unto devils and shed innocent blood, even the blood of their sons and of their daughters, whom they sacrificed.

Abortion
 http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/sex.html
    Source: Judaism 101

Jewish law not only permits, but in some circumstances requires abortion.
Where the mother's life is in jeopardy because of the unborn child, abortion is mandatory.
An unborn child has the status of "potential human life" until the majority of the body has emerged from the mother. Potential human life is valuable, and may not be terminated casually, but it does not have as much value as a life in existence. The Talmud makes no bones about this: it says quite bluntly that if the fetus threatens the life of the mother, you cut it up within her body and remove it limb by limb if necessary, because its life is not as valuable as hers. But once the greater part of the body has emerged, you cannot take its life to save the mother's, because you cannot choose between one human life and another.

Butaud, Carla The Spirit of Abortion Part 1 + The Spirit of Abortion Part 2  + deliverance ministry - audio excellent
An invisible spirit assaulting us with unnatural/irrational thoughts, feelings, fears, torments and/or nightmares. Often resulting from contemplated, attempted or actual abortions by self, parent or ancestors.
http://www.lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/audio/ministry.htm

Abstinence/Separation
Problems concerning MARRIAGE &/or birth control by rhythm method.

1st Corinthians 7:1-9 TPNT  1It is good for a man not to touch a woman, 2but because of the temptation of immoralities, let each have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 
3The husband must continually surrender his obligation to his wife; likewise also the wife to her husband.  4The wife does not have the power over her own body, but the husband does.  Likewise also, the husband does not have the power over his own body but the wife does.  5You must continually not deprive one another, except from agreement for a time, so that you could devote yourselves to prayer.  Then you should again be continuing relations (intimacy/intercourse) the same way, so that Satan could not test you through your lack of self-control.  6I say this by concession, not by command. 
7For I want all men to be even as myself (single); but each has his own gift from God, one in this manner, and another in that.  
8I say for the unmarried and for the widows; it is good for them if they would remain (single/celibate) as I. 
9But if they do not have self-control, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to be tested.    (Scripture is continued in Divorce/Separation below.)

Adultery

Leviticus 20:10 NIV    If a man commits adultery with another man's wife, with the wife of his neighbor, both the adulterer and the adulteress must be put to death. 

Numbers 5:11-27 NIV    Then the Lord said to Moses, "Speak to the Israelites and say to them, 'If a man's wife goes astray and is unfaithful to him by sleeping with another man and this is hidden from her husband and her impurity is undetected (since there is no witness against her and she has not been caught in the act), and if feelings (a spirit) of jealousy come over her husband and he suspects his wife and she is impure - or if he is jealous (has a spirit of jealousy) and suspects her even though she is NOT impure -  then she is to take his wife to the priest (rabbi).  He must also take an offering of a 19th of an epah of barley flour on her behalf.  He must not pour oil on it or put incense on it, because t is a grain offering for jealousy, a reminder offering to draw attention to guilt.  The priest shall bring her and have her stand before the Lord.  Then he shall take some holy water in a clay jar and put some dust from the tabernacle floor into the water.  After the priest has had the woman stand before the Lord, he shall loosen her hair and place in her hands the reminder offering, the grain offering for jealousy, while he himself holds the bitter water that brings a curse.  The priest shall put the woman under oath and say to her, 'If no other man has slept with you and you have NOT gone astray and become impure while married to your husband, may this bitter water that brings a curse NOT harm you.  If you have gone astray while married to your husband and you have defiled  yourself by sleeping with a man other than your husband and you have defiled yourself by sleeping with a man other than your husband' - Here the priest is to put the woman under this curse of the oath - "May the Lord curse your people to curse and denounce you when he caused your thigh to waste sway and your abdomen to swell.  May this water that brings a curse enter your  body  so that your abdomen swells and your  thigh wastes away.'  Then the woman is to say, 'Amen.  So be it.'  The priest is to write these curses on a scroll and then wash them off into the bitter water.  He shall have the woman drink the bitter water that brings a curse.  This water will enter her and cause bitter suffering.  The priest is to take from her hands the grain offering for jealousy, wave it before the Lord and bring it to the altar.  The priest is then to take a handful of the grain offering as a memorial offering and burn it on the  altar.  After that he is to have the woman  drink the water.  If she has defiled herself and been unfaithful to her husband, then when she is made to drink the water that brings a curse, it will go into her and cause bitter suffering.  Her abdomen will swell and her thigh waste away.  She will become accursed among her people.  If however, the woman has NOT defiled herself and is free from impurity, she will be cleared of guilt and able to have children. This  then is the law of jealousy when a woman goes astray and defiles herself while married to her husband or when feelings of jealousy come over a man because he suspects his wife.  The priest is to have her stand before the Lord and is to apply this entire law to her.  The husband will be innocent of any wrongdoing, but the woman will bear the consequences of her sin."

Deuteronomy 22:21-22 KJVer    21They shall bring out the damsel to the door of their father's house and the men of her city shall stone her with stone (so) that she die, because she has wrought folly in Israel to play the whore in her father's house.  So (thus), you shall put evil away from among you.  22If a man be found lying with a woman married to a husband, then they shall both die, both the man that lay with the woman and the woman.  So, you shall put away evil from Israel. 

Job 24:15,18 KJVer    15The eye of the adulterer waits for the twilight, saying, "No eye shall see me and disguises his face.  18He is swift as the waters.  Their portion is cursed in the earth.

Proverbs 6:32 Amplified    Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks heart and understanding (moral principle and prudence).  He who does it is destroying his own life.

Jeremiah 13:26-27 NIV    I will pull your skirts over your face that your shame may be seen, your adulteries and lustful neighings, your shameless prostitution!  I have seen your detestable acts on the hills and in the fields.

Matthew 19:8-9 KJVer    He (Jesus) says, "Moses because of the hardness of your hearts permitted you to put away (divorce) your wives; but from the beginning it was not so.  I say to you, 'Whoever shall put away his wife, except for fornication (any premeditated/deliberate sexual immorality), and shall marry another, commits adultery.  Whoever marries her who is put away, commits adultery."

Mark 8:38 TPNT    "Whoever would be ashamed of Me and My words in this adulterous and sinful generation, then the Son of Man will be ashamed of him, when He would come in the glory of His Father with the holy angels."
Mark 9:42 TPNT    "Whoever would cause one of the least of these who believe in Me to sin, it is better for him if a millstone turned by a donkey were placed around his neck and he were cast into the sea."

Luke 17:1-2 TPNT    1He said to His disciples, "It is impossible for the stumbling blocks not to come, but woe to the one through whom they come.  2It is better for him if a millstone were placed around his neck and he was thrown into the sea than that he could cause one of the least of these to sin."   

John 8:4,7,10-11 KJVer    4"Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.  Moses in the law commanded that such should be stoned.  What do you say?" 
7When they continued asking Him, He lifted up Himself and said, "He that is without sin among you, let him 1st cast a stone at her." 
10When Jesus had lifted up Himself and saw none but the woman, He said, "Woman, where are your accusers?  Has no man condemned you?"  11She said, "No man, Lord."  Jesus said, "Neither do I condemn you.  Go and sin no more."

1st Corinthians 6:9-10JVer    Know not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?  Be not deceived.  Neither fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, the effeminate, abusers of themselves with man, thieves, the covetous, drunkards, revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God (, unless they repent).
1st Corinthians 6:16 KJV    "Do you not know that he who (fornicates/commits adultery) is joined to (has sexual relations with) a harlot (prostitute/mistress/concubine) is 1 body with her.  'The 2,' He says (in Genesis 2:24), 'shall become 1 flesh'" (enabling evil spirits to transfer between them = Scriptural insight).

Galatians 5:19-21 KJVer    The works of the flesh are manifest, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, reveling, and the like, of which I told you before.  They who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of  God.

2nd Timothy 3:6 TPNT    These are those who worm their way into homes and carry away idle women who are overwhelmed with sins, being led on by various desires.

Hebrews 13:4 KJVer    The undefiled marriage bed is honorable, but whoremongers (fornicators) and adulterers God will judge.

                                                                       Bastard

Deuteronomy 23:2 KJV    A bastard (illegitimate child/half-breed/Gentile & Jewish mix/offspring of a forbidden marriage) shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord.  He shall (be excommunicated) not enter into the congregation of the Lord, even (down) to his 10th generation (descendants).

Bastard Spirit

Bestiality

Exodus 22:19 TNAB    Whoever lies with an animal shall surely be put to death.  

Leviticus 20:15-16 NIV     15If a man has sexual relations with an animal, he must be put to death and you must kill the animal.  16If a woman approaches an animal to have sexual relations with it, kill both the woman and the animal.  They must be put to death.  Their blood will be on their own heads.

Deuteronomy 27:21 KJV    Cursed is he who lies with any animal.

MacNutt, Francis       
http://www.hispeople-ght.org.za/sermons/sermons%202002/How%20To%20Cast%20Out%20Demons.html

"I witnessed the most bizarre manifestations of a curse I had ever encountered. There were three adolescent children in that family, and all three of them were like animals in behaviour. None of us could get near these children; they acted like frightened animals. They would leap about the room and across the furniture with the agility of monkeys. They would not use a bathroom, and the house reeked of the odours of urine and excrement. They were running in and out of the house the entire time we were there. I looked into the back yard and there was a children’s swing-set upon which they would do their acrobatics, and they drank from a plastic wading pool by lapping water into their mouths with their hands. None of them could talk, but could only make squealing noises. What a pathetic sight! What could have caused such a condition in these children?
The father of the children was not there, but I was ale to talk with the mother. I asked her if there has been any bestiality in the family. She shared with me that her husband was obsessed with bestiality and continued to practice it regularly. He had even persuaded his wife to lie carnally with dogs while he watched. These poor children were suffering in their bodies and lives the curse of their parent’s sins."

Divorce

Matthew 19:8-9 KJVer    He (Jesus) says, "Moses because of the hardness of your hearts permitted you to put away (divorce) your wives; but from the beginning it was not so.  I say to you, 'Whoever shall put away his wife, except for fornication (any premeditated/deliberate sexual immorality), and shall marry another, commits adultery.  Whoever marries her [who is put away (divorced)] commits adultery."

1st Corinthians 7:10-24, 39 NIV    10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord says), "A wife must not separate from her husband.  11If she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.  A husband must not divorce his wife."  (See "separation" below.)

                                                  Family relationship problems  

Lack of intimacy can happen in in-law relationships, where you expect one thing and they another.  For instance, the grandparents may never visit because they are never invited.  The parents are angry that the grandparents are not doting on their kids with presents, bank accounts, and babysitting, while seldom extending the scepter of open arms unless by a rare supervised appointment.   Neither side takes the initiate to override the "unwritten" offense, while the grandchildren grown up not or seldom being blessed by their grandparents, at least during a huge formative portion of their lives. 
Just remember, if it is NOT in scripture, then in all liklihood, it is NOT true, relevant, pertinent, useful, holy. Be courageous.  Life flies by quickly.  Blessings to you and all your relationships.  (This is just the tip of the iceberg.  Ask the Holy Spirit to enlighten/counsel you.  He will.)
Malachi 4:6  He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the hearts of the children to their fathers, lest I come and strike the earth with a curse.

                                                                        Fantasy
                                                                     Imagination

Proverbs 23:7 NKJV    For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.

Regarding one having a problem with his/her mate fantasizing and not dealing with reality, in ministry it was suggested that the person making up the marriage bed in the morning pray over the bed and anoint it with oil each day. 
2nd, since the 2 become 1 flesh, at least spiritually, one should be able to bind and loose as though he were the other person.
And if it is an evil spirit one is binding, it can readily be done in the spirit, as there is no time or distance to impede the prayer
according to Kenneth E Hagin in I Believe in Visions www.rhema.org .  If one is the husband, then he atomically is a covering for the wife; that in itself is excellent spiritual authority with demons.  Christ is the covering for both of them.

Dickerman, Don                   When Pigs Move In                              http://www.dondickerman.net
Dickerman in Appendix lists 37 Biblical Curses, Grouping of Various Evil Spirits by function/assignment, and 60 Symptoms of Demonic Attack.
Chapter 4  How Do Demons Access Believers? 
"Gateways to our life are often controlled by other people and other circumstances prior to birth and in our early childhood."
Even "children...have received demons from cartoons...They fantasize.  This can invite demons."

Meyer, Joyce                       I Dare You                            book                     www.joycemeyer.org
Pray sincerely.  Believe/trust simply.  The "sanctified" imagination was created by God to allow man the ability to do dry runs and eventually to actually participate with Him in spiritual/supernatural feats. 
When the imagination is used for self gratification or with the enemy for evil, then one is in sin.  An example of evil would be pornography and lust (rather than love).  Fantasy is a silent and/or spoken thing visualized in the mind.  Much of the sexual fantasy recommenced by sex therapists is an abhorrence to God, a perversion!  For instance, one could pretend/visualize he is having sex with Marilyn Monroe while actually having intercourse with his wife.
Helpful inventions can originate as fantasy, but in reality are ideas from God.  Some ideas from God are perverted for evil.  Then there are ideas from the enemy. 

Fornication
(any sexual activity outside of marriage)

Deuteronomy 22:23-29 KJVer      23If in the city a man find and lay with a damsel who is a virgin betrothed to a husband (fiancé), 24then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city and stone them until they die, because the damsel in the city did not cry out and because the man has humbled his neighbor's wife (fiancée).  So (thus), you will put away evil from among you.  25If a man forces (rapes) a betrothed damsel in the field and lie with her, then the man only shall die.   26To the damsel you shall do nothing.  There is no sin worthy of her death.  27If the betrothed damsel cried in the field, there was none to save her. 28If a man lay with a virgin who is not betrothed and is found (out/discovered), 29then the man who lay with her shall give the damsel's father 50 shekels of silver.  She shall be(come) his wife, because he has humbled her, he may not put her away all his days (life). 

Romans 3:28-32 KJVer   28God gave them over to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient, 29being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness, full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity, whisperer, 30backbiters, haters of God, spiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful, 32who knowing the judgment of God...commit such things worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them.

1st Corinthians 5:1 KJVer    There is fornication among you.  Such fornication as is not so much as (even named) among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife.
1st Corinthians 6:9-10JVer    Know not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?  Be not deceived.  Neither fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, the effeminate, abuses of themselves with man, thieves, the covetous, drunkards, revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God (, unless they repent).
1st Corinthians 6:15 TPNT (Christians/Messianic Jews), do you not know that your bodies are members of Messiah (God's son Jesus)?  So then, could the members of Messiah be members of a prostitute (forbidden/ illicit sexual relationship)?  God forbid!
1st Corinthians 6:16 KJV    Do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (prostitute/mistress) is 1 body with her.  "The 2," He says, "shall become 1 flesh."
1st Corinthians 6:18 KJVer    Flee fornication.  Every sin that a man does is outside the  body; but he  that commits fornication sins against his own body.
1st Corinthians 6:19 KJVer    Know not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost Who is in you, Who you have of God;  you are not your own?
1st Corinthians 7:1 KJVer    It is good for a man NOT to touch a woman.  Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own  wife.  Let every woman have her own husband.

Galatians 5:19-21 KJVer    The works of the flesh are manifest, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, reveling, and the like, of which I told you before.  They who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

Ephesians 5:3 KJVer    Fornication, all uncleanness or covetousness be not once named among you.

2nd Timothy 3:6 TPNT    These are those who worm their way into homes and carry away idle women who are overwhelmed with sins, being led on by various desires.

Hebrews 13:4 KJVer    The undefiled marriage bed is honorable, but whoremongers (fornicators) and adulterers God will judge.

Revelation 22:14-15 KJVer    Blessed are they that do His commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life and may enter in through the gates into the city.  Outside are the dogs (sodomites), sorcerers, whoremongers (sexual perverts), murderers, idolaters, and whosoever loves (lusts/rapes/kisses) and makes a lie (deceit/victim).  (Spiritual insight = Jesus was betrayed with a kiss.)

Eckhardt, John    Flee Fornication (6 Cds)        http://www.impactnetwork.net

Ehambe, Lufile    How to recognize demonic spirits    http://www.cintlc.org/audios/demonicspirits.htm
http://www.cintlc.org/media/DemonSpirits1.mp3 
Lufile believes demons have NO bodies and can oppress &/or inhabit, whereas fallen angels can manifest.
Christians break God's heart when they continually love and commit fornication.

Hinn, Benny      5/18-19/2007 Uganda Mandela National Stadium crusade 6/4/7   6/5/7  6/6/7  6/7/7  6/8/7  6/11/7   6/12/7   6/13/7   6/14/7  6/15/7   webcast  At African crusade (highlighted in red) the Holy Spirit prompted Benny Hinn to pray for the baptism of the Holy Spirit after praying for salvation, due to the spiritual hunger of the crowd, and due to the necessity of having extra Holy Spirit power to deal with life issues that one in his own human power can never accomplish.  At this crusade 2 healings occurred in an unmarried couple living together.  Benny admonished them to immediately quit living together and to immediately get married.

Kelley, Earthquake    book #1122 "Bound to Lose, Destined to Win"   http://earthquakekelleyministries.org/books/ 
Chapter 12 Gateway to Hell "There is a principality spirit (erzulie) that has authority to dispatch other demonic spirits once unmarried sex has opened a gate to hell."

                                                                   Homosexuality
                                                          HOMOSEXUAL neurosis or ideation

Genesis 19:5,12 NIV    5They called out to Lot, "Where are the men (God's angels) who came to you tonight?  Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them."
12The 2 men (angels of God) said to Lot, "...We are going to destroy this place.  The outcry to the Lord against its people is so great that He has sent us to destroy it."

Leviticus 18:20-21 NIV  The Lord said, "The outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is so great and their sin (of homosexuality) so grievous that I will go down and see if what they have done is as bad as the outcry that has reached me.  If not, I will know."
Leviticus 18:22 KJV    You shall not lie with man-kind as with woman-kind; it is an abomination.

Proverbs 6:12-14 KJV    A worthless person, a wicked man, is the one who walks with a false mouth, who winks with his eyes, who signals with his feet, who points with his fingers, who with perversity in his heart devises evil continually.

Romans 1:24,26-28 KJVer    24God gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodies between themselves...26God  gave them up to vile affections, for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature.  27Likewise, the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another, men with men working that which is unseemly, receiving in themselves (in their own bodies and personalities) that recompense (consequence) of their error.  28Even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over  to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient.
Romans 3:24-32 KJVer    24God gave them up to uncleanness through lusts of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodies between themselves...26for this cause God gave them up to vile affections.  Even their women did change the natural use (of sex) into that which is against nature.  27Likewise men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one (man) toward another.  Men with men working that which is unseemly, receiving in themselves that recompense of their error...28God gave them over to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient,
29being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness, full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity, whisperer, 30backbiters, haters of God, spiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful, 32who knowing the judgment of God...commit such things worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them.

1st Corinthians 6:9-10JVer    Know not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?  Be not deceived.  Neither fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, the effeminate, abuses of themselves with man, thieves, the covetous, drunkards, revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God (, unless they repent).
1st Corinthians 6:11JVer    Such were some of you (before), but (when) you were washed (by the blood of Christ and the baptism of water), you were sanctified; you were justified in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and the (Holy) Spirit of our God.

Ephesians 5:11    Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, rebuke and expose them.
Ephesians 5:12 NAS    It is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret.

2nd Peter 2:4-8 NKJV    God did not spare the angels who sinned, but cast them down to  hell and  delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved for judgment; (God) did not spare the ancient word, but (only) saved Noah, 1 of 8 people, a preacher of righteousness, bringing the flood on the world of the ungodly; (God) turned the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah into ashes, condemned to destruction, an example to those who afterward would live ungodly (having sex with angels and producing offspring who were giants); and (God) delivered righteous Lot, who was oppressed by the filthy (homosexual) conduct of the wicked; (for that righteous man, dwelling among them, tormented his righteous soul from day to day by seeing and hearing their lawless deeds).

Jude 6-7 NKJV    The angels who did not keep their proper domain, but left their own abode, He has reserved in everlasting chains under darkness for the judgment of the great day.  Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them in similar manner gave themselves over to (homosexual) sexual immorality and went after strange flesh, set forth (a consequence) an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.

Jeffress, Robert   HELL? YES and Other Outrageous Truths You Can Still Believe!    http://www.ptv.org “Homosexuality is perversion”

Batts, Cheryl  Spirit of Arrested Development + deliverance ministry  http://www.lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/audio/ministry.htm

                                                                         Impotency

Hosea 2:1,17 TNAB    The word of the Lord that came to Hosea, the son of Beeri, in the days of Uzziah, Jotham, Ahax, Hezekiah, kings of Judah, and in the days of Jeroboam, son of Joash, king of Israel...
"There I will give her the vineyards she had and the valley of Anchor as a door of hope.  She shall respond there as in the days of her youth, when she came up from the land of Egypt."

                                                                            Incest

Genesis 19:31-38 KJVer    31The firstborn said to the younger, "Our father is old.  There is not a man in the earth to come in to us after the man of all the earth.  32Come, let us make our father drink wine.  We will lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father."  33They made their father drink wine that night.  The firstborn went in and lay with her father.  He perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.  34It came to ass on the morrow that the firstborn said to the younger, "Behold, I lay last night with my father.  Let us make him drink wine this night also.  Go in and lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father."  35They made their father drink wine that night also.  The younger arose and lay with him.  He perceived not when she lay down   nor when she arose.  36Thus both the daughters of Lot were with child of their father.  37The firstborn bore a son and called his name Moab, the father of the Moabites.  38The younger also bore a son and balled his name Benammi, the father of the children of Ammon.
Genesis 38:8-10 KJVer   Judah said to Onan, "Go in to your brother's wife, marry her, and raise up seed (heirs) to (for) your brother.  Onan knew that the seed (offspring) should not be his (heirs).  It came to pass when he went in to his brother's wife, that he spilled it (the sperm) on the ground, lest he should give seed (offspring) to his brother.  The thing which he did displeased the Lord; therefore He slew him.
[Spiritual insight = Old Testament spiritual rules (BEFORE Moses and Israel written law) encouraged populating the earth.]

Leviticus 18:6-17 NKJV   6"None of you shall approach any near of kin to uncover their nakedness.  I am the Lord.  7The nakedness of your father or the nakedness of your mother you shall not uncover.  She is your mother; you shall not uncover her nakedness.  8The nakedness of your father's wife you shall not uncover (nor disgrace).  It is your father's nakedness.  9The nakedness of your sister, the daughter of your father or mother, whether she is born at home or abroad, you shall not uncover.  10The nakedness of your son's daughter you shall not uncover...11The nakedness of your father's wife's daughter, begotten of your father, your sister, you shall not uncover. 12You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's sister.  She is your father's near kinswoman.  13You shall not uncover the nakedness of your mother's sister.  She is your father's near kinswoman.  14You shall not uncover the nakedness of your father's brother.  You shall not approach his wife.  She is your aunt.  15You shall not uncover the nakedness of your daughter in law.  She is your son's wife.  You shall not uncover her nakedness.  16You shall not uncover the nakedness of your brother's wife.  It is your brother's nakedness.  17You shall not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter. Neither shall you take her son's daughter or her daughter's daughter, to uncover her nakedness.  They are near kinswomen.  It it wickedness. (Spiritual insight = Nursing/medical care is not incest, a sexual act.  Discuss any concerns regarding personal care of your relative/family member with your rabbi.)
Leviticus 20:11-14 NIV  11If a man sleeps with his father's wife, he has dishonored his father.  Both the man and the woman must be put to death.  Their blood will be on their own heads.  12If a man sleeps with his daughter-in-law, both of them must be put to death.  What they have done is a perversion.  Their blood will be on their own heads.  13If a man lies with a man, as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what  is detestable.  They must be put to death.  Their blood will be on their own heads.  14If a man marries both a woman and her mother, it is wicked.  Both he and they must be burned in the fire, so that no wickedness will be among you.
Leviticus 20:17-21 NIV     17If a man marries his sister, the daughter of either his father or his mother, and they have sexual relations, it is a disgrace.  They must be cut off before the eyes of their people.  He has dishonored his sister and will be held responsible.  18If a man lies with a woman during her monthly period and has sexual relations with her, he has exposed the source of her flow and she has also uncovered it.  Both of them must be cut off from their people.  19Do not have sexual relations with the sister of either your mother or your father, for that would dishonor a close relative.  Both of you will be held responsible.  20If a man sleeps with his aunt, he has dishonored his uncle.  They will be held responsible.  They will die childless. 21If a man marries his brother's wife, it is an act of impurity.  He has dishonored his brother.  They will be childless. 

Deuteronomy 22:30 KJVer    A man shall not take his father's wife, nor discover (uncover) his father's skirt (nakedness).   
Deuteronomy 25:5-10 KJVer    5If brethren dwell together (live as a couple) and one of them die and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry a stranger.  Her husband's brother shall go in to her, take her as a wife, and perform the duty of a husband.  6The firstborn which she bears shall succeed in the name of his brother who is dead, that his name be not put out of Israel.  7If the man not take (refuses) his brother's wife, then his brother's wife shall come to him in the presence of the elders  and say, "My husband's brother refuses to raise up to his brother a name in Israel.  He will not perform the (conjugal) duty of my husband's brother."  8Then the elders of his city shall call and speak to him (to see) if he (continues) to stand to it and say, "I like not to take her."  9Then the brother's wife (may) come to him in the presence of the elders, loose his shoe from off his foot, spit in his face, and say, "So shall it be done to that man who will not build up his brother's house."  10His (blemished) name shall be called (known in) Israel (as), the house of him (the family) that has his shoe loosed (of the unsandaled). [continuation of Genesis 38 above]
Deuteronomy 27:20-21,23 NIV     20Cursed is the man who sleeps with his father's wife, for he dishonors his father's bed...21Cursed is the an who sleeps with his sister, the daughter of his father or the daughter of his mother...23Cursed is the man who sleeps with his mother-in-law

                                                           Intimacy problems

If it is NOT in scripture then it is probably a custom, a lie of Satan, or even a misperception/lack of communication. 
When married, either mate (he/she) can/should initiate sexual intimacy, rather than pine away, and wake up some day as a senior citizen with a lack of sexual fulfillment/missed opportunities, all over the head of someone else's rules, or rules that you perceived to be boundaries, but were not!
Some couples set aside ongoing date nights.  Some have agreed cues to allow the other to know he/she is ready for intimacy.  Some women are advised to pray over their marriage beds when making them.  Ask the Holy Spirit to be your marriage counselor!

Late Marriage/Wanting a Mate

Marriage Prayer Points    http://www.refugeofrighteousness.com/articles/41/1/Marriage-Prayer-Points/Page1.html
                                    http://www.mfmhouston.com/125.htm

Lesbianism

Romans 1:24,26-28 KJVer    24God gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodies between themselves.  26God  gave them up to vile affections, for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature.  27Likewise, the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another, men with men working that which is unseemly, receiving in themselves that recompense of their error.  28Even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over  to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient.
Romans 3:24,26-32 KJVer    24God gave them up to uncleanness through lusts of their own hearts to dishonor their own bodies between themselves...26for this cause God gave them up to vile affections.  Even their women did change the natural use (of sex) into that which is against nature.  27Likewise men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one (man) toward another.  Men with men working that which is unseemly, receiving in themselves that recompense of their error...28God gave them over to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient, 29being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness, full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity, whisperer, 30backbiters, haters of God, spiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful, 32who knowing the judgment of God...commit such things worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them.

Batts, Cheryl  Spirit of Arrested Development + deliverance ministry  http://www.lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/audio/ministry.htm

                                                                            Lust
                                                                    antonym for love
                                                               takes rather than gives

Saint Antony      http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/basis/VITA-ANTONY.html       "The dragon could not even thus overthrow Antony, but saw himself thrust out of his heart, gnashing his teeth as it is written, and as it were beside himself, he appeared to Antony like a black boy, taking a visible shape [17a] in accordance with the colour of his mind. And cringing to him, as it were, he plied him with thoughts no longer, for guileful as he was, he had been worsted, but at last spoke in human voice and said, 'Many I deceived, many I cast down; but now attacking thee and thy labours as I had many others, I proved weak.' When Antony asked, Who art thou who speakest thus with me ? he answered with a lamentable voice, 'I am the friend of whoredom, and have taken upon me incitements which lead to it against the young. I am called the spirit of lust. How many have I deceived who wished to live soberly, how many are the chaste whom by my incitements I have over-persuaded! I am he on account of whom also the prophet reproves those who have fallen, saying [17b], "Ye have been caused to err by the spirit of whoredom." For by me they have been tripped up. I am he who have so often troubled thee and have so often been overthrown by thee.' But Antony having given thanks to the Lord, with good courage said to him, ' Thou art very despicable then, for thou art black-hearted and weak as a child. Henceforth I shall have no trouble from thee [18], "for the Lord is my helper, and I shall look down on mine enemies."' Having heard this, the black one straightway fled."

                                                          Masturbation/Wet Dreams
         
Genesis 38:8-10 KJVer   Judah said to Onan, "Go in to your brother's wife, marry her, and raise up seed (heirs) to (for) your brother.  Onan knew that the seed (offspring) should not be his (heirs).  It came to pass when he went in to his brother's wife, that he spilled it (the sperm) on the ground, lest he should give seed (offspring) to his brother.  The thing which he did displeased the Lord; therefore He slew him.
[Spiritual insight = Old Testament spiritual rules (BEFORE Moses and Israel written law) encouraged populating the earth.]

Deuteronomy 23:10 KJVer    Any man that is not clean by reason of uncleanness (nocturnal emission/wet dreams) that chances him by night, then shall he go abroad out of the camp.  He shall not come inside the camp.  When evening comes on, he shall wash himself with water.  When the sun is down, he shall come into the camp again. (Spiritual insight = Man's sperm is sacred to God.)
 
                                                                           Marriage

Genesis 1:28 KJVer    God said to them (Adam and Eve), "Be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth.  
Genesis 2:18-25 KJVer    18God said, "It is not good that man should be alone.  I will make him a help meet (helpmate/helper suitable) for him. 19Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every fowl of the air.  (He) brought them to Adam to see what he would call them.  Whatever Adam called every living creature, that was the name.  20Adam gave names to all cattle, fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field.  There was not found a help meet for Adam.  21The Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept.  He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh .  22The rib which the Lord God had taken from man, He made a woman and brought her to the man.   23Adam said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.  She shall be called woman,  because she was taken out of man."  24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cling to his wife.  They shall be one flesh. 25They were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.    

Deuteronomy 7:3-4 KJVer    Neither shall you make marriages with them (the Gentiles who have other gods).  Your daughter you shall not give to his son; nor his daughter shall you take to your son, for they will turn away your son from following Me that they may serve other gods.  The anger of the Lord will be kindled against you and suddenly destroy you.

Hosea 2:21-23 TNAB (Hosea 2:19-21 NIV)   "I will espouse (betroth) you to Me forever (permanently).  I will espouse you in right (righteousness) and in justice, in love and in mercy (compassion).  I will espouse you in fidelity (faithfulness), and you shall know the Lord.  On that day I will respond," says the Lord. "I will respond to the heavens, and they shall respond to the earth."

Tobit 6:18 NAB (Catholic) Do not be afraid, for she was set apart for you before the world existed.
Tobit 7:11 NAB (Catholic) Your marriage to her has been decided in heaven.

Matthew 19:4-6 KJVer    He answered, "Have you not read, that He Who made them at the beginning made them male and female and said, 'For this cause shall a man leave father and mother and shall cling to his wife; the 2 shall become 1 flesh?'  They are no more 2 but 1 flesh.  What God has joined together, let no man put asunder!"

Luke 18:4 KJV    Everyone who exalts himself shall be abased.

John 2:1-11 KJVer    There was a marriage in Cana of Galilee.  The mother of Jesus was there.  Both Jesus and His disciples were called to the marriage.  When they wanted wine, the mother of Jesus said to Him, "They have no wine." Jesus said, "Woman, what have I to do with you?  My hour has not yet come."  His mother said to the servants, "Do what He says."  There 6 water pots of stone, after the manner of (for the purpose of) purifying the Jews, containing 2 or 3 firkins (gallons) apiece (each).  Jesus said, "Fill the water pots with water."  The filled them up to the brim.  He said to them, "Draw (it) out now and bear (it) to the governor (manager) of the feast."  They bore (took) it.  When the ruler of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, he knew not where it was (came from).  The servants  which drew the water knew.  The governor of the feast called the bridegroom saying, "Every man at the beginning sets forth good wine.  When the men have drunk well (a lot), then (he serves) the worse (wine).  But you have get the good wine until now (last). This beginning (1st) of miracles Jesus did in Cana of Galilee and manifested forth His glory.  His disciples believed on Him.  (Spiritual insight = Jesus approves of marriage between a man and a woman.)

Acts 5:1-9 KJVer    A certain man named Ananias with Sapphira his wife sold a possession, kept back part of the price (his wife also being privy to it) brought a certain part, and laid it at the apostles' feet.  Peter said, "Ananias, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Ghost to keep back part of the land price?  While it remained, was it not your own?  After it was sold, was it not in your own power?  why have you conceived this thing in your heart?  You have not lied to men, but to God."  Ananias hearing these words fell down and gave up the ghost (died).  The young men arose, wound him up, carried him out and buried him.  It was about 3 hours after when his wife, not knowing what was done, come in.  Peter answered to (asked) her, "Tell me whether you sold the land for so much?"  She said, "Yes."  Peter said, "How is it that you have agreed together (with your mate) to tempt the (Holy) Spirit of the Lord?  Behold, the feet of them who have buried your husband are at the door and shall carry you out (dead too).
Acts 5:29 KJVer    Peter and the other apostles said, "We ought to obey God rather than men."

1st Corinthians 7:1-9 NIV   1"It is good for a man not to marry, 2but since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.  3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife and likewise the wife to her husband.  4The wife's body does not belong to her alone, but also to her husband.  In the same way, the husband's body  does not belong to him alone, but also to his wife.  5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.  Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.  6I (Paul) say this as a concession, not as a command.  7I wish that all men were as I am.  But each man has his own  gift from God.   One has this gift.  Another has that."
8Now to the unmarried and widows, I say, "It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.  9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry.  It is better to marry than to burn with passion."
1st Corinthians 11:9 KJVer    Neither was the man created for the woman, but the woman for the man.

2nd Corinthians 6:14 KJV    Be not unequally yoked together (engaged/promised/contracted/bound) with (to) unbelievers (in the Trinity/God/Jesus Christ/Holy Spirit).  What fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness?  What communion has light with darkness?

Galatians 5:19-21 KJVer    The works of the flesh are manifest, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, reveling, and the like, of which I told you before.  They who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of  God.

Ephesians 4:26-27 KJVer  Be angry and sin not.  Do not let the sun down down upon your wrath.  Neither give place to the devil.
Ephesians 4:31-32 KJVer    Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, malice, clamor and evil speaking be put away from you.  Be tenderhearted, kind, and forgiving to one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you.
Ephesians 5:23-33 KJV    The husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.  He is the Savior of the body.  Therefore, as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in  every thing.  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for it that He might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that He might present it to Himself a glorious church, not having spot, wrinkle, or any such thing.  I  should be holy and without blemish.  So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.  He that loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever yet hated his own flesh.  He nourishes and cherishes it, even as (does) the Lord (nourish and cherish) the church.  We are members of His body, flesh and bones.  For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife.  The 2 shall become 1 flesh.  This is a great mystery; I speak concerning the church.  Nevertheless, let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself;  wife see that you reverence your husband. (Spiritual insight = Marriage is a triangle, with the Lord above as the head.)

1st Thessalonians 4:3 KJVer    This is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain from fornication (porneia).

Hebrews 13:4 KJVer    The undefiled marriage bed is honorable, but whoremongers (fornicators) and adulterers God will judge.

1st Peter 3:7 KJVer    You husbands...give honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, as being hers together of the  grace of life, that your prayers be not hindered.

1st John 1:9 KJVer    If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Revelation 22:14-15 KJVer    14Blessed are they that do His commandments (wash their robes), that they may have right to the tree of life and may enter in through the gates into the city.  15Outside are the dogs (sodomites), sorcerers (practice magic), whoremongers (sexually immoral), murderers, idolaters, and whosoever loves (kisses/betrays) and makes a lie (falsehood).     (Spiritual insight = Judas used a kiss to betray Jesus.)

                                                         Marriage Breaking Spirits 

Jasinski, Jozef     http://jesusdelivers.com/index.php/marriage-breaking-spirits
From Demolishing the Hosts of Hell - Every Christian's Job, by Win Worley
(Page 6,7&8) WRW Publications.
"When I demanded that the (demonic) ruler of Oral Sex manifest, a cackling laugh came forth and he informed me that he was an exceedingly powerful spirit and had had this 'fool' for all these years and by no means would he come out! He declared that he and (an evil spirit of) Homosexuality had this 'stupid bastard' bound and they would never release him...I even arranged for him to have a gay roommate in the service and had guys approach him at work...For years we had him hooked good on Masturbation and tortured him regularly with that...Deliverance eventually dislodged them.
Oral Sex spirits lodge in the lips, tongue, taste buds, jaws, mouth and the throat. They are also in the sex organs. After dealing with many spirits of perversion, we know that they can enter through the eyes, the ears or participation, active or passive. In one case, a friend of mine was delivering a woman who had been introduced and forced into oral sex by an uncle when she was only 5 or 6 years of age. As she grew up she continued this with her dates. At her deliverance large gobs of slimy material were vomited which reeked
with the strong odor of male semen."

                                                                   MASTURBATION   
                                                                          http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/sex.html        Source: Judaism 101

Jewish law clearly prohibits male masturbation. This law is derived from the story of Onan (Gen. 38:8-10), who practiced coitus interruptus as a means of birth control to avoid fathering a child for his deceased brother. G-d killed Onan for this sin. Although Onan's act was not truly masturbation, Jewish law takes a very broad view of the acts prohibited by this passage, and forbids any act of ha-sh'cha'tat zerah (destruction of the seed), that is, ejaculation outside of the vagina. In fact, the prohibition is so strict that one passage in the Talmud states, "in the case of a man, the hand that reaches below the navel should be chopped off." (Niddah 13a)
The issue is somewhat less clear for women. Obviously, spilling the seed is not going to happen in female masturbation, and there is no explicit Torah prohibition against female masturbation. Nevertheless, Judaism generally frowns upon female masterbation as "impure thoughts."

COMMENTARY  Masturbation (touching own private parts) and petting (touching another's private parts with your hands) is mostly indirectly spoken of in scripture.  One would need to ask the rabbis regarding oral law.  It seems that an accident or self-discovery is not considered premeditated nor a habit.  The issue seems to be more what a mate is depriving his/her mate of
(a matter of omission/failure, rather than commission).  Often masturbation is a symptom of loneliness and social/dating/ mating character or psychiatric issues.  Even masturbating during observing hard/soft porn is both self serving (self gratifying) and addictive.

Grazi, MD, Richard V. + Wolowelsky, PhD, Joel B.    www.jlaw.com/Articles/semen.html  
masturbation to collect sperm for medical use
The Use of Cryopreserved Sperm and Pre-embryos In "Contemporary" Jewish Law and Ethics

Eckhardt, John    Manifestations of Rejection    deliverance CD#2    www.impactnetwork.net
Discusses Noah & Phil Gibson's book Excuse Me, Your'e Rejection Is Showing section Sexual Gratification (pg.49) on need for deliverance of demons of masturbation and rejection.

Porn

Crosse, Clay                                 I  Surrender All    Clay and Renee Crosse: Broken by pornography (9/11/05)
Lubben, Shelly                              Former porn star    www.myspace.com/shelleylubben  
                                                   Ex Porn Star tells the hardcore truth about porn.    
                                                   http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.channel&ChannelID=42789016

Prostitution/Prostitute

Proverbs 4:23-27 TLB    Above all else, guard your affections, for they influence everything else in your life.  Spurn the careless kiss of a prostitute.  Stay far from her.  Look straight ahead.  Don't even turn your head to look.  Watch your step.  Stick to the path and be safe.  Don't sidetrack.  Pull back your foot from danger.

Lubben, Shelly                               Former star           www.myspace.com/shelleylubben 

Rape

Genesis 9:20-27 NIV Hebrew-Greek Key Word study Bible
20Noah, a man of the soil, proceeded to plant a vineyard.  21When he drank some of its wine, he became drunk and lay uncovered inside his tent.  22Ham, the father of Canaan, saw his father's nakedness (uncovering/violation by his grandson) and told his 2 brothers outside.  23But Shem and Japheth took a garment and laid it across their shoulders; then they walked in backward and covered (protected/shielded/ hid) their father's nakedness (reputation/family secret).  Their faces were turned the other way, so that they would not see their father's nakedness.  24When Noah awoke from his wine and found out (learned/ knew intimately, as with a mate) what his (Ham's) youngest son had done to him, 25he said, "Cursed be Canaan!"
[Footnote – “The Hebrew word used here for ‘nakedness’ erwah means ‘shameful nakedness’ and is often used to describe immoral  sexual behavior. A different word eyrom is used to describe simple nakedness or bareness…The fact that the curse was directed upon Ham’s son Canaan may indicate that he was somehow involved.”]

Exodus 23:I6 TNAB    If a man entices a virgin, who is not betrothed, and lies with her, he shall surely pay the bride-price for her to be his wife.

Rape
by an alien or demon
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Genesis 6:1-2 KJV    1It came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born to them 2that the sons of God (evil spirits/defrocked angels/aliens) saw the daughters of men, that they were beautiful; they took wives for themselves of all whom they chose.

Holliday, Pat    Under Sea Mysteries      Listen!  http://patholliday.com/channelz.m3u

Kelley, Earthquake    book #1122 "Bound to Lose, Destined to Win"   http://earthquakekelleyministries.org/books/ 
Chapter 12 Gateway to Hell          When "a pedophile...possessed with this (hydra) spirit...attack(s)...(a)...child; unless she accepts Christ and receives deliverance, she will likely suffer with multiple personalities when she grows up" due to transference of the hydra spirit.
"Incubus and succubus are 2 demonic spirits that rape people." 
They do not need bodies, so if you recognize (perceive) one, rebuke, "command it to leave in Jesus' name."

Separation/Divorce

Matthew 19:8-9 KJVer    He (Jesus) says, "Moses because of the hardness of your hearts permitted you to put away (divorce) your wives; but from the beginning it was not so.  I say to you, 'Whoever shall put away his wife, except for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery.  Whoever marries her who is put away, commits adultery."

1st Corinthians 7:10-24, 39 NIV    10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord says), "A wife must not separate from her husband.  11If she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.  A husband must not divorce his wife."
12To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord), "If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.  13If a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.  14The unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband.  Otherwise your children would be unclean.  As it is; they are holy.  15If the unbeliever leaves, let him do so.  A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances.  God has called us to live in peace.  16How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband?  How do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
17Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to him and to which God has called him.  This is the rule I lay down in all the churches.  Was a man already  circumcised when he was called (to Jesus)?  He should not become circumcised.  18Was a man uncircumcised when he was called?  He should not be circumcised.  19Circumcision is nothing and un-circumcision is nothing.  Keeping God's commands is what counts.  20Each one  should remain in the situation which he was in when God called him.  21Were you a slave when you were called?  Don't let it trouble you; although if you can gain your freedom, do so.  22He who was a slave when he was called by the Lord is the Lord's freedman.  Similarly, he who was a free man when he was called is Christ's slave.  23You were bought at a price. Do not become slaves of men.  24Brothers, Each man, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation God called him to.
39A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives.  If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.  It is my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is.  I think that I too have the (mind/heart/thoughts/the Holy) Spirit of God.

Sex during Menstruation

Leviticus 20:18 ASV    If a man who lies with a menstrous (menstrating) woman and uncovers her nakedness, he has laid bare her flow and she has exposed the flow of her blood.  Thus, both of them shall be cut off from among their people.

Ezekiel 36:17 NIV   "Son of man,...their conduct was like a woman's monthly uncleanness in My sight.

Niddah: The Hebrew/Jewish/Kosher Laws of Sexual Separation During Menstruation
   http://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/sex.html
Source: Judaism 101   or   http://www.jewfaq.org/

An area of Jewish sexual practices is the law of niddah, separation of husband and wife during the woman's menstrual period. These laws are also known as taharat ha-mishpachah, family purity. Few people outside of the Orthodox community are even aware that these laws exist, which is unfortunate, because these laws provide many undeniable benefits. The laws of niddah are not deliberately kept secret; they are simply unknown because most non-Orthodox Jews do not continue their religious education beyond bar mitzvah, and these laws address subjects that are not really suitable for discussion with children under the age of 13.
According to the Torah, a man is forbidden from having sexual intercourse with a niddah, that is, a menstruating woman. The law of niddah is the only law of ritual purity that continues to be observed to day. At one time, a large portion of Jewish law revolved around questions of ritual purity and impurity. All of the other laws had significance in the time of the Temple, but are not applicable today.
The time of separation begins at the first sign of blood and ends in the evening of the woman's seventh "clean day." This separation lasts a minimum of 12 days. The rabbis broadened this prohibition, maintaining that a man may not even touch his wife or sleep in the same bed as her during this time. Weddings must be scheduled carefully, so that the woman is not in a state of niddah on her wedding night.
At the end of the period of niddah, as soon as possible after nightfall after the seventh clean day, the woman must immerse herself in a kosher mikvah, a ritual pool. The mikvah was traditionally used to cleanse a person of various forms of ritual impurity. Today, it is used almost exclusively for this purpose and as part of the ritual of conversion. It is important to note that the purpose of the mikvah is solely ritual purification, not physical cleanliness; in fact, immersion in the mikvah is not valid unless the woman is thoroughly bathed before immersion. The mikvah is such an important part of traditional Jewish ritual life that a new community will build a mikvah before they build a synagogue. The Torah does not specify the reason for the laws of niddah, but this period of abstention has both physical and psychological benefits.
The fertility benefits of this practice are obvious and undeniable. In fact, it is remarkable how closely these laws parallel the advice given by medical professionals today. When couples are having trouble conceiving, modern medical professionals routinely advise them to abstain from sex during the two weeks around a woman's period (to increase the man's sperm count at a time when conception is not possible), and to have sex on alternate nights during the remaining two weeks.
In addition, women who have sexual intercourse during their menstrual period are more vulnerable to a variety of vaginal infections, as well as increased risk of cervical cancer.
But the benefits that the rabbis have always emphasized are the psychological ones, not the physical ones. The rabbis noted that a two-week period of abstention every month forces a couple to build a non-sexual bond as well as a sexual one. It helps to build the couple's desire for one another, making intercourse in the remaining two weeks more special. It also gives both partners a chance to rest, without feeling sexually inadequate. They also emphasized the value of self-discipline in a drive as fundamental as the sexual drive.
                                                                                                           Birth Control
In principle, birth control is permitted, so long as the couple is committed to eventually fulfilling the mitzvah to be fruitful and multiply (which, at a minimum, consists of having two children, one of each gender).
The issue in birth control is not whether it is permitted, but what method is permitted. It is well-established that methods that destroy the seed or block the passage of the seed are not permitted, thus condoms are not permitted for birth control. However, the pill is well-recognized as an acceptable form of birth control under Jewish law. I have also heard some say that a condom would be permitted under Jewish law to prevent the transmission of AIDS or similar diseases, because preserving the life of the uninfected spouse takes priority; however, I am not certain how authoritative this view is. If this is an issue for you, you should consult a competent rabbinic authority.

                                                        Sodomy = Anal and/or Oral Sex
                      (not natural-not of nature-especially homosexual sex as practiced in Sodom)

Judges 19:22-24 TNAB    22As they were enjoying themselves, suddenly certain perverted (Benjamin tribe) men of the  of the city (Gibeah) surrounded the house and beat on he door.  They spoke to the master of the house, the old man, saying,  "Bring out the man (a Levite) who came to your house, that we may know him carnally (sexually)!"  23The  master of the house went out to them and said, "No my brethren.  I beg you, do not act so wickedly.  Seeing this man has come into my house, do not commit this outrage.  24Look, here is my virgin daughter and the man's concubine (other wife).  Let me bring them out now.  Humble them, and do with them as you please, but to this man do no such vile thing.  
Judges 20:5 TNAB    The men of Gibeah rose against me and surrounded the house at night because of me.  They intended to kill (sodomize/rape/molest/murder/victimize) me, but instead they ravished (raped) my concubine, so that she died.

1st Kings 14:24 TNAB    There were also perverted persons in the land.  They did according to all the abominations (sodomy and prostitution in religious rituals) of the nations which the Lord had cast out  before the children of Israel. 
1st Kings 15:11-12 TNAB   11Asa did what was right in the eyes of the Lord and did as his father David.  12He banished the perverted persons from the land.  He removed all the idols that his fathers had made.
1st Kings 22:46 TNAB  The rest of the perverted persons, who remained in the days of his father Asa, he (Jehoshaphat) banished from the land.

2nd Kings22:1 TNAB   Josiah was 8 years old when he became king.  He reigned 31 years in Jerusalem.
2nd Kings23:7 TNAB    He tore down the ritual booths of the perverted persons that were in the house of the Lord, where women wove hangings for the wooden image. 

Romans 1:21-27 NIV    21Their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.  22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools...24God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.  25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie...26God gave them over to shameful lusts.  Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.  27In the same way men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another.  Men committed indecent acts with other men and receive in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
Romans 1:28 TPNT    Since they did not see fit (refused) to have true knowledge of (acknowledge) God, God gave them over into an unrighteous mind, to do shameful things.
   
1st Corinthians 6:9 NIV    Do not be deceived.  Neither sexually immoral, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, homosexual offenders, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, slanderers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.

SOUL MATE/TIE

Dickerman, Don                   When Pigs Move In                              http://www.dondickerman.net
Dickerman in Appendix lists 37 Biblical Curses, Grouping of Various Evil Spirits by function/assignment, and 60 Symptoms of Demonic Attack.
Chapter 4  How Do Demons Access Believers?  "Sex outside of (or before) marriage cannot only open doors for demons, but it can also create a soul tie that gives them permission to stay until that curse is broken."  This soul tie affects the individual, his mate, plus his seed, until broken, because it concerns both a demon and a curse."

Frankena, Martin    Free Indeed - Healing & Deliverance seminar CD 4/21/2007 session 2    www.revivalconnections.org
Emphasis on spiritually terminating/cutting/loosing unholy soul ties, especially from each prior sexual relationship prior to marriage.  Each sexual relationship is a covenant relationship, legal or not, right or wrong.  It is a spiritual law that the 2 become 1 flesh during intercourse.  That is why it is imperative for each person to repent and put under the blood of Christ all prior relationships, especially those forbidden by God in the Bible.  Ask God to remove permanently from you anything deposited from another during any/each prior relationship.  Never recite pornographic details; God already knows the particulars.  Ask God to redeposit [back into you (or if bad then under the feet of Jesus)] anything taken from you during any prior relationship. It might be innocence, virginity, trust, freedom to love, which one can name, if one is aware.   Such transparency/repentance/prayers/ proclamations free one to pursue intimacy in his/her marriage.  One can also pray for God to bless his/her marriage. 

Heijstek, Kees     Practical guide deliverance ministry    SAMPLE PRAYER for "Breaking the occult"
http://www.aliveministries-sa.org/freedownloads/completelistofdownloads.html
"Lord forgive me for I have had unconsciously occult influences out of the friendship with my last girlfriend (boyfriend). I reject / disconnect here and now all the influences of the occult objects and any possible soul ties with this woman (man) in the name of Jesus. I will remove all attributes I received from her (him), knowing there is an occult influence from Buddhism from her (his) ancestors. As someone who is delivered from the power of darkness and transferred into the kingdom of God's beloved son, I remove all demonic ties and burdens that are passed on to me by this relation and attributes in the mighty name of Jesus. I acknowledge and proclaim that there is only one true and living God (Ex.20 :2-3), The great I AM, THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES."

Moore, Beth 11/18/2009 To Know and Be Known   http://www.lifetoday.tv/qt/2009/11/91104.htm
Wednesdays with Beth archives http://www.lifetoday.org/site/PageServer?pagename=bth_media
Life Today archives http://www.lifetoday.org/site/PageServer?pagename=tel_USCalendar
Beth, says, "NO, NO, NO" to cathartically" fessing up" to one's partner of past sexual partners and exploits,
as understood or perhaps misunderstood by many counselors and counselees. 
The bottom line is that once our sins are confessed, they are under the blood and forgotten by Jesus. 
If one particular area is still full of spiritual or emotional puss then perhaps that part of the soul is broken
or fragmented and needs ministry. 
See Ana Mendez ministry www.voiceofthelight.com  regarding healing of a broken/fragmented heart.

TRANSGENDER - TRANSSEXUAL - SEXUAL IDENTITY ISSUES

Deuteronomy 22:5 KJVer    The woman shall not wear that which pertains to a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment (to mock or change one's sexual identity); for all that do so are abomination to the Lord your God. 

Batts, Cheryl  Spirit of Arrested Development + deliverance ministry  http://www.lakehamiltonbiblecamp.com/audio/ministry.htm

Kelley, Earthquake    Order book #1122 "Bound to Lose, Destined to Win"   http://earthquakekelleyministries.org/books/ 
Chapter 12 Gateway to Hell "The bisexual spirit (dantolien) is directly connected to the occult...If they have sexual relations with somebody who is involved in the occult, this spirit can attach itself to them through transference of spirits."

Unmarried and Widows/Widowers

1st Corinthians 6:18-20 NIV    Flee from sexual immorality.  All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.  Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, Who is in you, Whom you have received from God?  You are not your own.  You were bought at a price.  Therefore honor God with your body.
1st Corinthians 7:1-2 NIV    1"It is good for a man not to marry, 2but since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 
1st Corinthians 7:7-9 NIV  7I wish that all men were as I am.  But each man has his own gift from God.  One has this gift.  Another has that."  8Now to the unmarried and widows, I say, "It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.  9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry.  It is better to marry than to burn with passion."
1st Corinthians 7:25-38 NIV
25Now about virgins.  I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord's mercy is trustworthy.  26Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are.  Are you married?  do not seek a divorce.  27Are you unmarried?  Do not look for a wife.  28If you do marry, you have not sinned.  If a virgin marries, she has not sinned.  Those who marry will face many troubles in this life.  I want to pare you this.  29What I mean, brothers, is that the time is short.  From now on those who have wives should live as if they had none.  30Those who mourn, (live) as if they did not.  Those who are happy, (live) as if they were not.  Those who buy something, (live) as if they were not theirs to keep.  31Those who use the things of the world, (live) as if not engrossed in them.  This world in its present form is passing away.  32I would like you to be free from concern.  An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs -how he can please the Lord.  33A married man is concerned about the affairs of this world - how he can please his wife. 34His interests are divided.  An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs.  Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit.  A married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world - how she can please her husband.  35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live a in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.  36If anyone thinks he is acting improperly toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if she is getting along in years, and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants.  He is not sinning.  They should get married.  37The man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion, but has control over his own will, and who had  made up his mind not to marry the virgin - this man also does the right thing.  38So then, he who marries the virgin does the right thing, but he who does not marry her does even better.

VIRGINITY

Hayes, Norvel    Know Your Enemy    www.nhm.cc
Chapter 4 The Devil Must Obey You  "He said, 'Thank you for obeying the 16th chapter...of Mark.  Thank you for obeying the Bible, for praying for that girl and setting her free (from promiscuity).  She stands before Me now as clean and pure as an angel of heaven.'"

Who Has the Final Say

Romans 3:2-3 TPNT  3So what if some failed to believe (God's words in scripture)?  Will their unbelief cancel the faithfulness of God?  4May it not be!  But God must be true, even if every man is a liar (Psalm 116:11), just as it has been written, 'So that you would be declared righteous (or not) by your words and you will be victorious (or not) when you are being judged.'  (Psalm 51:4, Matthew 12:37)

PUBLICATIONS

Banks, Bill                            Deliverance from Childlessness
Volume 4 in series Power for Deliverance
Impact Books, 137 W Jefferson, Kirkwood, Missouri, USA 63122
Part 3 Roots of Darkness - Underlying Spiritual Roots & Doorways itemizes 45 sexual conditions that may have spirits called by the same name, such as the spirit of/causing lesbianism. A lesbian or homosexual may have a butch (male) or effeminate (female). 
Bank  shares the story of a 26 year old male who on occasion dressed as a woman.  The morning after his pastor commanded a transvestite spirit to come out, the boy for the 1st time in his life could/had to shave, never having had hair on his face before! 
Leviticus 20 mentions sins requiring the death penalty.  One of these sins is having sex during menstruation!  Even though you or your mate may still be alive, having sex during menstruation could result in a curse such as childlessness, miscarriage, stillbirth, etc.
Banks, Bill and Banks, Sue     Ministering to Abortion's Aftermath

Burt, Arthur                           Around the World in 88 Years    www.arthurburt.com
Chapter 5 The Button  "Job said, 'I made a covenant with mine  eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?' (Job 31:1)  Jesus said, 'Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.' (Matthew 5:28)  It took me years to learn the difference between looking upon a woman with lust and looking upon a woman with appreciation of her beauty...God told me, 'Stop fighting Me and begin inviting Me into the situation.  Watch Me work in you instead of fighting to prove you can do something.  Without Me, you can do nothing.'"
"I  was foolish enough to believe that now, because I was married, I was safe from involvement with the woman...It is a strange situation when you know that somebody is in love with you, even though you are not in love with her.  Every time your eyes meet, it can feed your pride...The devil rode piggyback on my emotions...At what point does heavenly love  turn to something earthly?  Many have crashed to disaster at this point - where spiritual affinity between a man and a woman changes into earthly love or something that seem like it...I was confused and didn't know how to handle it...The only deliverance that really works is when God takes the want away.  Deliverance must be for the glory of God.  Many people fail to get deliverance, because they want it for their own convenience."

Clark, Randy  There Is More  Chapter 12 shares healing of rape.  Tammy Ferguson was delivered of 2 demons which entered her during her trauma at age 16 (as revealed by God to John Gordon). www.globalawakening.com

D'Andrea, Molly                   Set Free                                         www.setfreeif.org
True Accounts of Those Who Have Been Liberated from Pornography, Sexual Addiction, Masturbation, Rape, Molestation, Incest, Lesbianism and Homosexuality 
Set Free if You Want to Be, Inc.

Duncan, John  Deliverance from Homosexuality - My True Story  booklet   
Hope Ministries, Plainview, Texas, USA  806-296-6927  
It is imperative that fathers be affectionate towards their sons, not cold.  Do not name/ nick-name your son after a homosexual relative.  Do not tell your son that he has any of the negative characteristics of a particular homosexual.  This is a curse.  "Boys are NOT born homosexuals.  They are born with rejection, which turns them into homosexuals."  A doctor may tell you, "I can never cure you;" however, Doctor Jesus can heal you.  John's problem was, "I had never accepted the Lord into my life.  I had never been born again.  I really did not think I could be saved...that was why nothing was working" to fix/cure him. "Deliverance was necessary before I could ever accept the Lord into my life.  I thought I had committed the unpardonable sin; that I had blasphemed the Holy Spirit...First I experienced deliverance, then salvation, and then the baptism in the Holy Spirit."  In 1970 under the wings of Frank and Ida May Hammond plus Jimmy Low (a Spirit-filled Baptist Plainview, Texas pastor), John had subsequent deliverance ministry. ("Multiple personalities of schizophrenia"/rejection/rebellion were identified and removed).  Most "all homosexual have multiple personalities...When a person changes his name he is rejecting his true identity, and he opens himself up to different personalities."  Be aware, after you are set free by God, "The devil doesn't  give up quickly or easily...Often an evil thought comes to mind, but one must realize that such a thought is not his (your own) thought, but rather the devil is planting it there.  These fiery darts can be rebuked by saying, 'Hey, devil, that is not my thought; so I  give it back to you.  I don't want it.'  The devil will use every tool he has to try to condemn you and make you feel guilty, because he know this will stop you from trying to help anybody else.  A Christian MUST learn to rebuke the devil...Rebuke the demon in Jesus' Name and demand that it leave...Ignore these emissaries of the devil...Realize that God is going to do something great."
A common lie is, "If I marry her, that will cure my (homosexual) problem." 
The truth is that Jesus will cure both homosexuality and AIDS.

Eckhardt, John                        Marine Demons    
http://www.arsenalbooks.com/prodinfo.asp?number=1883927285
http://www.impactnetwork.net
Marine/water evil "spirits of lust and perversion can often take the form of frogs."

Fryling, Alice                        Spiritual Compatibility in Dating                booklet      www.ivpress.com

Gray, Tim & Martin, Curtis    Boys to Men - The Transforming Power of Virtue            www.lhla.org
Catholic book, cassettes or CD.

Hammond, Frank D                       Repercussions from Sexual Sins          www.thechildrensbread.net
Sexual sins give demons a legal permit to affect the individual, family, church, and relationship with Christ
Hammond, Frank D                       Soul Ties                                           www.thechildrensbread.net
Frank warns us that unhealthy demonic soul ties are formed with each intimate (fornication/adultery/sodomy/fantasy) sexual encounter we have outside of (before or during) marriage.  We need to discontinue, repent of each individual incident/relationship, and destroy all mementos, if any memory/relationship continues to interfere with one's marriage, life, or relationship with God.
Hammond, Frank & Marzullo, Frank            The Tales of 2 Franks         www.thechildrensbread.net
This booklet shares that an evil spirit of sexual lust can gain entrance through fantasy lust. 
It also addresses the incubus (evil male sexual spirit) and the succubus (evil female sexual spirit), showing that one needs to renounce any such spirit (if present in him/her), repent, command it to leave, and reject any future attempts to return.  Any remaining medical issues can be prayed for after any deliverance.
Authors address abortion and incest saying to (bind and) command out the root causes, Baal and Molech abortion spirits, Chemosh and Milcom incest spirits (originating from the offspring of Lot's 2 daughters. See Genesis 9 above.)
Hammond, Frank & Ida Mae            Kingdom Living for the Family       www.thechildrensbread.net
Chapter 2 Warfare points out that unconfessed/non repentance of bestiality can cause a family curse of mental illness.  This sin is forgivable!  Be reminded that one can confess his/her ancestors sins and then cut off the curses, in the name of Jesus.

Hammond, Michelle M                                                 http://michellehammond.com/books/index.html
Lots of books for the single, especially the single female.

Harfouche, Robin                            From Hollywood to Heaven    www.globalrevival.com
Christian Harfouche Ministries, Pensacola, Florida, USA
Autobiography of deliverance from the New Age religion and generational witchcraft.  Book gives insight into workings of the supernatural dimension from the perspective of God's enemy/counterfeiter/traitor/ deceiver/lier.  It is really NOT important that we understand evil, for God's Holy Spirit will instruct us.  Additionally, spiritual things are not understood with the mind, but rather with the spirit.  Thirdly, demonic books and objects can contaminate/contain demons/evil and need to be destroyed by such as fire. 
Chapter 9 Inside the New Age  "At the moment he kissed me, I had felt my spirit guide (invisible evil spirit) enter me.  It was a forcible entry, as if she had wanted to kiss Brian through me....He looked up at me.  'I wasn't kissing you, Robin.  It wasn't you.'...'I saw Marilyn Monroe.  It wasn't your face, Robin.  It wasn't you.'"  "I was furious with Marilyn.  She had invaded me, used me without permission...It was becoming uncomfortably clear that Marilyn and I were in a power struggle for my mind - and my soul."
Harfouche, Robin                            Healing of the Female Spirit            www.globalrevival.com
Chapter 5 The Spirit of Lust section "A spirit of lust comes on women...Normally it's because they've been violated.  It comes on them at a young age.  When a woman has a spirit of lust on her, she can walk into a room, and the men in the room who are attracted to that spirit will jerk their heads off their necks noticing her.  She doesn't  even have to be gorgeous...Women with a spirit of lust are driven from one relationship to another and never satisfied.  Why?  A door was opened at one time in their life, and it created a wedge there.  That spirit goes in and out, stealing, devouring and ravaging that beautiful woman, time after time.  She needs deliverance from the spirit of lust.  She may not be possessed, but she can be tormented by that insatiable devil.  It's a sprit that follows her and causes her untold heartache and anguish...The Holy Spirit" will "love you into freedom."
Chapter 7 section Jesus Invented Sex "One of the biggest counseling issues is dealing with married couples who had relations before they got married.  They got married, but they brought the ways of the world into that marriage into that marriage bed...They have flashbacks.  They see images.  They have thoughts...intruders from the past...leftovers from relationships that haven't been cut off in the realm of the Spirit.  It's a soulish attachment."
"The moment that you made Jesus Lord, there was a line drawn in the Spirit.  From that point - all the way back - everything that's ever happened to your life is covered by the blood of Jesus."
Chapter 9 section Soul Ties   "When 2 human being are joined in a sexual act there is a link between them.  Those 2 individuals become one flesh.  If this happens outside of the covenant of marriage, a soul tie is formed.  Soul ties open the door for continued promiscuous  relationships, self-esteem issues and repeated victimization...God will only reveal to you what you can handle...Once you see it, it's revealed...Flee...Let it go.  Let Him (God/Jesus) come in.  Don't try to understand."
Chapter 9 section The Truth about Physical Manifestations                  "Your own mouth will set you free...
A manifestation is NOT proof that a supernatural transaction has taken place.  The proof is that the Word of God says it's true...You believe it, and then you receive it...It's a done deal.  Don't wait for a voice to thunder out of the sky or for angels to sing.  Allow God to heal you."
Chapter 9 section Closing the Door  "You don't have to have a devil cast out of you!  All you need is a revelation.  That's all...I want you to pinpoint the moment in your lie when you lost your innocence, whenever that was.  Just think about it.  The power of God is going to come on you.  It may have been in the backseat of a Buick.  Wherever it was, remember it.  Now lift up your hands and say this, 'I believe the Word.  Be it unto me according to Your Word.  Thank You Lord that I am free!'    (You can) Pray in tongues...Let the Holy Ghost seal it in your heart."

Hinson, Michael                        To Heal the Heart                                  www.tohealtheheart.com  
Subtitle = Live Life to the Fullest                                                           www.hinsonministries.com
Chapter 9 The Truth about Covenants  In addition to the Passover covenant, Hinson contends there are only 3 blood "covenants" - (1) Old Testament covenant sealed with circumcision (and regular sacramental blood sacrifices), (2) New Testament covenant sealed with the blood of Christ on the cross (and regular sacramental wine/communion), (3) and the marriage contract (sealed with the hymen being torn during intercourse). 
The marriage contract is the only one representing the union between Christ and His bride.
Matthew 19:4-6 NIV  "Haven't you read, that at the beginning, the Creator made them male and female and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife;  the 2 will become 1 flesh'?   So they are no longer 2, but 1.  Therefore, what God has joined together, let man not separate."
1st Corinthians 6:16  "Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body?  For it is said, "The 2 will become 1 flesh." (This is a spiritual law/truth/principle. ANY sexual union results in joining the participants.)
Any sexual violation of the marriage contract results in harm to 3+ people!  Because sexual intercourse/ intimacy results in 2 becoming 1 flesh, violation of the marriage contract can result in sexually transmitted disease, demons (nightmares/fears/terrors) being transferred, and even stronghold (character defects/new traits not normal to your own previous identity/hang-ups) transference between individuals; the same issues/dangers that one would have with a blood transfusion or organ transplant!  Homosexuality/lesbianism/fornication/etc have moral/legal/medical problems, but adultery seems to have a greater problem due to contract violation, and doubly so because it is a blood contract.  This may be of NO concern to you, but it IS of concern to God.  Do not hide under a fig leaf; do not hide under the bed; do not hide under guilt; rather, flee into His arms.
Father, God, I renounce each ungodly marriage covenant I made/created when I participated in sexual intercourse with ______________,   ________________,   _________________ , _______________ ,
______________,   ______________,   _______________ , _______________, and ______________ .
I repent and will not continue.  Each was sin.  I place each forbidden sexual relationship on the cross.  Separate the sin from me. Forgive me. In the name of Jesus, I dissolve each ungodly marriage covenant.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I reject/refuse/reverse/bind/break off of me every single ungodly thing that was transferred to me and command each and any evil to never return.  Thank You, Father God.  I commit/recommit myself toYou and to Jesus as my savior.  I ask You to baptize me in Your Holy Spirit.  Fill me up with Yourself, so much so, that I will not need to look elsewhere for love or comfort, nor will I be vulnerable to victimizers. Father, how awesome You are. Again, thanks. Amen.

Holliday, Pat  Under Sea Mysteries  Listen!  http://patholliday.com/channelz.m3u  Recognize sexual demons.

Kelley, Earthquake    book #1122 Bound to Lose, Destined to Win   http://earthquakekelleyministries.org/books/    Chapter 2 - A Curse of Voodoo - There are "names and assigned duties of the spirits that attach themselves to people who engage in sexual relationships outside of marriage."  "Erzulie" is "the main principality that rules over any king of sexual perversion...Some voodoo practitioners pray to this spirit, beat drums, go into a trance, and have sexual relations with people all night long - and sometimes all week long."  "The Fox spirit...causes separation and division."
Chapter 3 - Turning Around and Turning Back  - "Most of the girls I knew who became prostitutes were lacking a father figure.  They were looking for a man to be their daddy...
People who hire prostitutes or engage in prostitution can become possessed by many demonic spirits.  And when the spirit that causes hate possesses them, a customer will think nothing of strangling a prostitute to death."
(Satan works in secret/in the dark.  Exposing the enemy brings freedom.  In Jesus' name, bind those spirits and loose yourself from them.)
Chapter 4 A Trip to Hell - "Since the house had been used as a brothel, we had to do some serious spiritual warfare after we moved in.  The place was full of demonic spirits."
Chapter 7 This Is Paradise - Earthquake was taken by God to visit heaven's paradise where he saw his son Scott and others he recognized, plus aborted children.  God is tremendously wounded by abortions, because man has prevented the destinies planned for these children.  God laments, "Instead of saying baby, they call it a fetus.  Instead of saying sin, they call it a disease...Warn doctors who claim to be Christians but perform abortions that they are terrorists against the unborn."
Chapter 12 Gateway to Hell "Incubus and succubus are 2 demonic spirits that rape people...The spirits themselves are capable of raping a person without using a human's body to do so.  One night I  saw the (female) succubus spirit enter our bedroom.  It was clothed in a red dress and wore long red fingernails...I commanded it to leave in the name of Jesus and it vanished."     Incubus and Succubus Demons - Real Invisible Sexual Attacks!   www.demonbuster.com/incubus.html 
http://groups.msn.com/UFOsTheHiddenTruth/ufofallen7.msnw   http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Shadowlands/6583/abduct050.html
"Today society tells us that homosexuality is normal and that people are born that way.  That is a lie of the enemy; homosexuality is caused by attacks of demon spirits...Hurt (is) the door (that) opens to another spirit called atarroth adder or crown of snakes (which) can also cause migraine headaches...The enemy delights in tormenting...and planting thoughts in his mind that he must be homosexual...Demonic spirits within homosexuals recognize these same spirits in other people." For deliverance/freedom continuously declare, "You mountain of homosexuality, you will not have my child/me.  You will come down, in the name of Jesus.  The blood of Jesus has made us/me free, and I declare freedom for my child/me through the precious blood of Jesus.  My child/I will/do accept Christ and serve/will serve the Lord."
"Spirits...attach themselves to people who have sexual relations outside of marriage...This opens a gateway to hell."
There is a principality spirit (erzulie) that has authority to dispatch other demonic spirits once unmarried sex has opened a gate to hell...In 1993 I was this spirit materialize in the visible realm...These spirits to gain a foothold...will start with the weakest person."
"The bisexual spirit (dantolien) is directly connected to the occult...If they have sexual relations with somebody who is involved in the occult, this spirit can attach itself to them through transference of spirits."
Gomorra, a spirit that affects the brain, often comes through sexual activity outside of marriage...Gomorra affects people who have no medical reason for losing their memory.  This spirit causes people to perceive themselves as ugly.  To feel better about themselves, they have sexual relations with anybody who shows them attention...Gomorra causes people to...have multiple plastic surgeries...dress like a teenager...validate himself by impregnating several girls...God destroyed the perverted cities of Sodom and Gomorrah...Until a person deals with gomorra on the brain, that individual will (in all likelihood) never benefit from a church service or learn anything from the word of God."
"Lower battalions are spirits that attack your blood with all sorts of blood-related diseases, such as AIDS...They bring death to the flesh...Know the connection between illicit sexual activity and blood diseases."
"Upper battalions attack organs - the heart, liver, kidneys, and so forth." due to past habitual sexual activity outside of marriage." (Perhaps now one can begin to see why our spiritual forefathers such as rabbis/Job confessed both their sins and the sins of their congregation/family/ancestors.)
"Fornix is a spirit that causes people to become cold-hearted.  When 2 people first engage in illicit sexual relations, they think they are so much in love.  But if cold-heartedness works its way into their soul, that same love they thought they had for each other turns into detachment or even cruelty.  People who develop cold-heartedness typically place the blame... on the other person...His/her heart has closed and it happened when he/she opened a portal to hell...It can grow to the point that one person commits murder against the other."
"Skyx is the spirit that causes jealousy and hatred.  Most people...in witchcraft believe that hatred comes from spirits that reside around the skyx river, or the river of hate.  Witches teach that this river is the lake of fire in hell itself. Jealousy can eat away at someone's soul until hatred becomes...intense."
"The hydra head spirit is one of the most difficult to deal with...Each (of its 7-9 separate) head has its own unique personality and voice...This is the spirit that causes multiple personalities. Alternative Help for Psychiatric and Brain Problems  "Demonic spirits have...sensors...The spirit within them will identify another person who is possessed by a hydra head spirit.  The 2 of them gravitate.  When they engage in illicit sex... the number of spirits in both of them multiplies...These hydra head spirits will keep a viselike grip on this person when they try to come to Christ...The  Bible says that from the belly shall flow rivers of living water...Demonic spirits attach themselves to a person's belly...because the demonic spirits want to occupy the place that the Holy Spirit should hold."
Christ did NOT die in vain.  He is open for business 24/7 for you and for me.  He already defeated every enemy 2,000 years ago.  We just need to take note and avail ourselves of His free services.  Repent, forgive, renounce, reject, rejoice.

Lamsa, George M  Idioms In the Bible Explained & A Key to the Original Gospels  www.harpercollins.com
The Birth of Jesus section teaches us that Aramaic protocol/unwritten law dictates that only when the dowry/bride price is "paid in full" can the marriage be legal/consummated, with the exception that if a child bride is procured, she will not consummate her marriage until the age of 12.
Matthew 1:18 KJV The birth of Jesus Christ was in this way, while Mary His mother was bought for a price (Makhirta) for Joseph, before he knew her (had intercourse with her), she was found pregnant through the Holy Spirit. Aramaic Scripture from New Testament
Aramaic protocol is that when the marriage is consummated, the bloodied sheets are witnessed by 2 elderly women and then kept as a token of her virginity before marriage.
Deuteronomy 22:15 KJV  The father of the damsel and her mother take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate.
For Joseph to divorce Mary secretly, he would have had to ask Mary's parents to accept the dowry back on the grounds that she was not a virgin.  Then he would have had to procure an annulment on grounds less criminal than adultery, for adultery required stoning to death; the first stone to be thrown is by a relative.  If Mary were still single, she would not likely have been able to convince others of (1) her angelic visions and/or of (2) her not having had relations with a man.
Matthew 1:18 KJV  Joseph, her husband, was a quiet (God fearing) man and did not let it be known, thinking to divorce her secretly.  While he was meditating over this, the angel of God appeared to him in a dream and  said, "Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take your wife Mary."

Lew, Mike                             Victims No Longer   
Subtitle = Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse
Mike Lew is a secular psychotherapist, co-director of The Next Step Counseling and Training Center, Newton Centre, Massachusetts, USA

MacNutt, Francis                   Deliverance from Evil Spirits                             www.christianhealingmin.org
Chapter 3 What Is the Evidence of Human Experience? gives insight into the fact that 2/3 of the world population interacts with both evil and good spirits.  
Additionally, MacNutt cites 2 incidents/case studies where El Duende and other Incubi (evil male spirits) have been reported to sexually accost females.
Chapter 8 Curse-like Judgments and Ties that Bind section Sexual Ties insist that premarital counseling (pre-cana classes) needs to incorporate repentance, rejection, and breaking of each premarital full sexual/physical/psychological relationship/bond/tie.  Pray to be set free of all past lovers; pray for God to bless them.  Then pray for God's Holy Spirit to bless you individually and to bless your marriage.
1st Corinthians 6:16 KJV    "Do you not know that he who (fornicates/commits adultery) is joined to a harlot (prostitute) is 1 body with her.  'The 2,' He says, 'shall become 1 flesh.'"
MacNutt cites Tommy Tyson stating that Jesus needs to sever EACH previous sexual liaison, or a permanent bond will remain until it is broken by some sort of deliverance prayer.  These uncut bonds will create spiritual confusion and marriage bedfellows.
Chapter 8 section Judgment of Parents and Authority Figures shares a case history of Jesus' intervention in the life of a transvestite (from Rita Bennett's 1993 fall newsletter In Touch and Emotionally Free.  It shows how innocent speech can create sexual identity psychiatric problems.  This warns us to speak only what God speaks.  Words can convey spiritual power for good or evil (such as a curse/hex/spell) beyond mere human utterance.)

Mendez-Ferrell, Ana                                    Iniquity                                      www.anamendez.org
Subtitle/caption = Discover and destroy the major hindrance stopping you from entering the glorious manifestations of God. 
Chapter 4 The Operation and Manifestation of Iniquity Iniquity Produces Spiritual Deafness -
Iniquity and Grievance - "People, who have been rejected, appear to attract more and more rejection.  Partly because they are trapped in nets of iniquity and because of a spiritual law in operation.  This law will continue until iniquity is removed from their lineage...People who have been abused in some way, either incestuously or psychological, become victims of injustice.  As if they wear a bull's eye on their back.  In the case of incest (sexual relations with a family member), iniquity is so strong that it attracts many kinds of curses, such as those described in Deuteronomy 28. 
The abused person must forgive and ask for forgiveness for the sins of his ancestors.  Many similar cases exist in the family lineages, which were the very root cause that influenced the father or family member to commit this aberration...Repent before God.  This is the first step, but this will not remove the seed in iniquity you have sown against yourself.  Ask forgiveness from those you have harmed.  You must do something good for them to attempt to undo the evil that you have caused."
Iniquity and the Spirit of Fornication - "Idolatry is the beginning of a series of sins, directed by the spirit of fornication... Where there is or has been idolatry, the spirit of fornication is loosed...General repentance is superficial, but the root and essence of the problem is left untreated.  Sooner or later sexual sins will manifest.  Fornication is not only physical, but also a condition of the heart infected with iniquity.  This hinders people from knowing God intimately...
The solution is to...write a detailed list of idols adored by themselves or family members.  You must make a note of the pacts made with such images or spirits, and promises or gifts made.  Ask God to forgive you and your ancestors for this (each) iniquity and command it to be uprooted from you lives.  In addition, you must identify all situation in which you had sexuality interaction outside of marriage, such as fornication, pornography, masturbation, incest, adultery, etc.  It is important to be specific...
If they shall confess their iniquity and the iniquity of their fathers, with their trespass which they trespassed against Me...and they then accept the punishment of their iniquity...then I will remember My covenant...Leviticus 26:40-42...
Blessings as well as curses are spiritual laws, searching for places which to attach themselves...
The curse causeless shall not come. Proverbs 26:2"

Morrow, Father Thomas         Christian Courtship in an Oversexed World                    www.lhla.org
Catholic book on dating.

Prince, Derek                       Rules of Engagement                    www.derekprince.com
Chapter 16 Angelic Intervention in Human Lives warns females to be aware that in addition to holy angels present in our lives, there are also evil angels, many of which seek to have intercourse with us or our children. Be sure to read this chapter! (Also refer to The Tales of 2 Franks above.)

Savard, Liberty                     Breaking the Power of Unmet Needs, Unhealed Hurts, Unresolved Issues in Your Life   Chapter 4 Wrong Behaviors, Word Curses, and Generational Bondages                                  www.libertysavard.com
Section Generational-Bondage Thinking indicates that, "Some generational-bondage thinking can  be induced by transference of spirits, but...most passing on of such thought patterns come through...ordinary format....likely to be the result of the daily exposure."
Section Christian Families in Bondage suggests  that, "Spiritual generational bondage does occur, and it can even be passed from a non-believing generation to a Christian generation, if no one identifies and breaks the cycle....The doors of access to spirits which were previously opened by...prior acts of fornication would (not be closed by marriage, but) only be closed through 1) Repentance...2) Prayer, both individually and together...binding...their minds to the mind of Christ, 3)Dismantling their soul's areas of control...by loosing their strongholds, and 4)Loosing...all soul-ties formed through the (each) previous acts of fornication (adultery/homosexuality/sodomy/bestiality/etc).   "Spiritual generational bondage" such as promiscuity can be "passed down to children from" Christian/born again parents who unwittingly give wrong (evil) spirits access to their descendents, who could have been shielded by one knowledgeable parent. In other words, our children can inherit our demons, unless we get rid of (exterminate) them.    healing 1st in heaven 2nd on earth

Sumrall, Lester                   60 Things God Said About Sex           http://www.impactchristianbooks.com
Sumrall, Lester Frank         Is adultery an unforgivable sin?         www.amazon.com
Sumrall, Lester Frank         Witch Doctor                                    www.lesea.com
Pg 62 states that 2 evil spirits are adultery and sodomy.

Yoder, Dr Rebecca Brown              Prepare for War                                 www.harvestwarriors.com
According to Dr Brown-Yoder, sodomy/rape can occur not only from individuals and demons, but also from human spirits of witches/Satanists/occult practitioners, especially at night during sleep, when individuals believe they are having nightmares.  One may obtain resolution by commanding (out loud), in the name of Jesus Christ, that all demons afflicting his spirit to leave, and subsequently asking the Lord to permanently sever any "demonic" link between his soul and his spirit, according to Hebrews 4:12.   In addition, one also needs to renounce any inherited demons or demonic link + continue to rebuke out loud (in the name of Jesus) if/when any unholy spirit returns and tries to assault us.

Walters, Kathie                               Living in the Supernatural         www.goodnews.netministries.org
Chapter 8 The Judgments of the Lord Are True says there is a "spirit of adultery".
Walters, Kathie                               Parenting by the Spirit               www.goodnews.netministries.org
Chapter 12 Allowing Them to Choose  ""You (dad) can be her beau until she meets Mr. Right.  She doesn't have to date around to find somebody.  God already has someone just right for her.   She only needs that one special person.  It is unnecessary for her to have numerous boyfriends to try out.  Those situations can tend to mess up her emotions.... Encourage your son to wait for the Lord to send him his princess.  Encourage him to look to the Lord and Wait."

Worley, Win     Demolishing the Hosts of Hell - Every Christian's Job       pg 61 gives deliverance suggestions
http://www.jesusdelivers.com/index.php/marriage-breaking-spirits         regarding marriage braking spirits pages 5-8 are as follow:
"Marital relationships are often broken or marred by the work of evil spirits which commonly work in the husband. Because of wrong information and erroneous conditioning in our society, he will lust after his wife.
This lust expresses itself in a strong masculine sex drive with selfishness and a brutal indifference to the sensitivity of the wife and her feelings and needs. A woman senses this lust and is offended by it, often feeling her husband has approached her as if she were a harlot to be exploited and used for his pleasure. As one wife expressed it, "There are times when I feel like a spittoon."
Such an encounter leaves the wife wounded and unsatisfied, often feeling unclean and unvalued by her spouse. This can bring a distaste and repulsion in her toward sexual contact with her mate. This in turn generates frustration and anger in the passionately aroused husband. He is mad to feel inadequate by her rejection (active or passive) and yet his approach often makes it almost impossible for her to respond warmly. Too often the only time there seems to be any tenderness toward or interest in her is in the bedroom. No woman can stomach this repeatedly.
Men must be reprogrammed to love, not lust after, their wives. Love does not rule out the strong sexual desires or fulfillment of them in marriage, but does refine and sweeten them so that the maximum satisfaction and benefit can come to each partner in the union. Women must never use the bedroom as a time for bargaining or airing of grievances. There is time for this, but it is not when the husband is romantic and aroused with desire for relations with his wife. If she presses such things on him at such a time, one of two things will happen. He may quickly accede to her every demand in order to have his way in bed. However, repeated episodes of this nature will build up a deep resentment against her for doing this to him. On the other hand he may begin to develop an aversion for sex - with her - because of the emotional price he has to pay. Woe to the woman who puts her man through these gymnastics in order to consummate a sexual relationship. He may find he can do without her nicely or find a substitute in another person, his work or some other outlet. Males are equipped with a very strong sex drive but if a woman thwarts him repeatedly on various pretexts, she will live to regret it.
A wound to the male vanity in the area of sexual adequancy or potency is very difficult to heal and even more difficult to live with. Many women have discovered that it would have been far simpler to have accommodated their spouses more often rather than to face the results of their repeated refusals and rebuffs which created deep frustrations and anger in the husbands. Because sex is such a mental thing, the real meaning of the sex act can easily be destroyed for the male. It then becomes nothing more than a physical release of pressure, much like urination. This can trigger dangerous dissatisfaction and restlessness in a male and has contributed to marital discord and breakup. No wonder the Bible admonishes older women to teach the younger to love their husbands. (Titus 2:3-5). Unfortunately many of the older females have damaged their own marriages by sexual rationing to their husbands and what they teach the young will not help.
Man must learn to bridle and control his sex impulses and not expect his wife to satisfy him always, regardless of cost to the wife. He must learn to pace and practice abstinence for the benefit and blessing of the wife. Mutual happiness is the goal, not unbridled satisfaction of one partner at the expense of the other. Many men enter marriage like spoiled brats who have always had their way. They have never denied themselves sexual pleasure whenever they desired it, either through sexual relationships or masturbation. They must recognize this as childish selfishness and work to satisfy and please their mate rather than themselves.
Many men force their wives into oral, anal and other sexual perversions. What they do not realize is that this gives openings for spirits to enter, setting them up for homosexuality. In this realm, what a woman can do, a man can do better, because he understands male anatomy and responses and can be quick to comply. These practices can cause a man to fall into the snare of perversion when the situation is right. The same is true of a woman and lesbianism.
Fear of Homosexuality is a driving one in many American men, primarily because most have at some time in their life had homosexual contacts. They fear falling into the snare and therefore throw up a great facade of hatred of anything resembling homosexuality. One man in his thirties I dealt with recently, while in the fifth and sixth grades, was introduced to new erotic pleasures by some older buddies. Mutual masturbation led to oral sex. After he finally broke off the practices, he was left with a fiercely demanding habit of masturbation. He had no further homosexual experiences, but became exceedingly heterosexual, plunging into many affairs, which often involved oral sex with the women.
When he married, he and his wife experimented with many forms of sexual gratification detailed in the sex manuals, including oral sex. After they were both saved, by mutual consent they dropped all such things and settled into a satisfying sex life without any of the former overtones of perversion. He came to me seeking release from a terrible foreboding sense of fear which tormented and upset him. It was vague and he could not analyze exactly what it was. As I prayed with him, the Lord said it was Oral Sex and a deep-seated terror of being a homosexual. When I questioned him about his area he told me of his encounters as a youngster.
When I demanded that the ruler of Oral Sex manifest, a cackling laugh came forth and he informed me that he was an exceedingly powerful spirit and had had this "fool" for all these years and by no means would he come out! He declared that he and Homosexuality had this "stupid bastard" bound and they would never release him. I pointed out that the man had had no homosexual contacts since he was a young teen and also that he was very happily married.
The demon snarled, "I know it! That lousy bitch, we would have gotten him a lot of times if she hadn't been so damned loving and met his needs. But we still have him... and he doesn't even know it." Then angrily, "That fool! He has fought so against us. I tried to get him to look at the other guys in the showers and locker rooms. Damn him, he just won't cooperate, just goes home to that bitch he married. I even arranged for him to have a gay roommate in the service and had guys approach him at work. The idiot! He could have such fun if he would just listen. I hate his damned guts, and I hate your too, Worley. We'll still get him though. We've got our hooks in him and have made him so miserable and the dummy doesn't even know where it is coming from. For years we had him hooked good on Masturbation and tortured him regularly with that, but he got control over that. Damn him! We'll get him back though and wear him down.
Let him climb. We will shoot him down eventually for we are all still here." Deliverance eventually dislodged them. Oral Sex spirits lodge in the lips, tongue, taste buds, jaws, mouth and the throat. They are also in the sex organs. After dealing with many spirits of perversion, we know that they can enter through the eyes, the ears or participation, active or passive. In one case, a friend of mine was delivering a woman who had been introduced and forced into oral sex by an uncle when she was only 5 or 6 years of age. As she grew up she continued this with her dates. At her deliverance large gobs of slimy material were vomited which reeked with the strong odor of male semen."

Periodicals/News

Leon, Dr Carlos A    El Duende and Other Incubi    2/1975 Archives of General Psychiatry vol 32
Pages 155-162 discuss 2 incidents/case studies where El Duende and other Incubi (evil male spirits/demons) have been reported to sexually accost females. One case reported the El Duende to look somewhat like a leprechaun/gremlin with a pot-belly, dark complexion, large white teeth and dressed in black and red, a large tall hat, plus pointed boots.

X rated religion article says Heeb magazine is using centerfold and other illustrations in a current sex issue described as the new Jew review of the Old Testament.  It is hard pornography and anit-Semitism.  10/15/05 www.nypost.com

Vachss, Attorney Andrew             Editorials on sexual child abuse    http://www.vachss.com/av_dispatches.html

Valentine, Gemma             How to Become Single after Divorce    Oct-Dec/2007 Grace Envoy magazine
www.foundationofgracebos.org  "Abstinence is for the body to be cleansed from spirits that were transferred during sexual activity outside of the covenant of marriage, or due to infidelity during marriage, or for a period of purification and consecration of the body before marriage...For a person to remarry after divorce, the (minimum) accepted sabbatical rest is one year...The healing process may take longer." 
Sexual strongholds need to be broken; then "there will be no sexual fantasies.  You could look at...the opposite sex or the same sex and don't feel anything (immoral/seductive/forbidden/selfish)."

Audio Visual

Frankena, Martin    Free Indeed - Healing & Deliverance seminar CD 4/21/2007 session 2    www.revivalconnections.org
Emphasis on spiritually terminating/cutting/loosing unholy soul ties, especially from each prior relationship prior to marriage.

Web Sites

Amen, Dr Daniel  http://www.creativityatwork.com/articlesContent/Brain/amen-optimize-brain.html
"Winnifred B. Cutler, PhD and colleagues at the University of Pennsylvania and later at Stanford University it was found that regular sexual contact had an important impact on physical and emotional well being of women. Sexual contact with a partner at least once a week led to more fertile, regular menstrual cycles, shorter menses, delayed menopause, increased estrogen levels, and delayed aging. Brain imaging studies at UCLA have shown that decreased estrogen levels are associated with overall decreased brain activity and poor memory. Enhancing estrogen levels for women through regular sexual activity enhances overall brain activity and improves memory.
...Orgasm was not as important as the fact that sex was with another person. Intimacy and emotional bonding may be the most influential factors in the positive aspects of sex. As a psychiatrist I have seen many people withhold sex as a way to show hurt, anger, or disappointment. Dr. Cutler's research suggests that this is self-defeating behavior. The more you withhold the worse it may be for you. Appropriate sex is one of the keys to the brain's fountain of youth."

Brown, Tom                        Free CD on Sex: What's OK, What's not.  http://www.tbm.org/sex_whats_okay.htm
1-Is everything okay so long as both spouses agree?
2-Is oral sex okay?
3-Is role playing okay?
4-Is anal sex okay?
5-Is watching pornography with your spouse okay?
6-Is birth control okay?
7-Is birth control okay?
8-Is hand stimulation okay?
9-Is sex during menstrual okay?
Offer is only for those aged 18 or over.
Brown, Tom        Homosexuality - It's Cause and Cure    http://www.tbm.org/homosexuality_cause_cure.htm      

Carothers, Merlin                                     Secret Sins                      http://www.foundationofpraise.org/secretsins.html

Copeland, Kenneth    www.kcm.org
Listen to archived week of TV programming (especially 9/9/2008) on NOT dating but waiting for mate of God's choice.

Fordham    http://www.fordhamedu/halsall/basis/columba-e.html    Chapter 16 of Medevial Sourcebook - by Adaman on St Columba
St Columba required a penitent, who had committed incest (fratricide), to do 12 years penance and never to return to Scotia (Ireland).  The fellow did not follow through and subsequently was killed by his enemies.

Dobbins, Dr Richard - Naples, Florida, USA Christian psychologist, founder of EMERGE Ministries in Akron, Ohio, USA Talking to Your Children About Sex  3/12/2009
www.bennyhinn.org/media/2009-3-12.asx   (DOB 1928) excellent      Union with God is one's highest joy.  Sex education begins when one can talk and is ongoing.   "Satan builds his strongholds in the secrets of our lives and enforces them by silence.  When we break the silence we break the strongholds. James 5:16"  Satan's Strongholds
Next we need to claim our innocence plus reclaim/reestablish/guard our "virginity".  Sexual molestation is something done to you and not your fault.  Before one entrusts his deep issues to another, he can test him with less intimate issues. (Confession and subsequent communion may be necessary for healing.)  Dr Dobbins is a proponent of sacramental communion, recommended in his book At the Table of the Lord  to relieve guilt , anger, fear, and depression and to reconcile oneself with family/mate/God.
Salvation (being born again/having a personal relationship with Jesus) is the beginning of sanctification and the beginning of healing, not necessarily a cure, the same way that a marriage does not fix a personality disorder. "Christian married love is a persistent effort on the part of two people to create for each other the circumstances in which each can become the person God intended him or her to be, a better person than he or she could become alone."  Christian Married Love http://www.drdobbins.com/contactus.asp     Pain Of Changing    5/25/2008 - PARENTS FIRST Kit Ready   editorials at  http://www.drdobbins.com/guidelines.asp
(Strongholds are typically mind problems that often need to be dealt with medical doses of forgiveness/repentance/deliverance and hugs, for beginners.)
[Be reminded that a born-again counselor is not necessarily a baptized in the Holy Spirit counselor. 
There can be a difference, the same way there can be a difference between a psychologist and a psychiatrist or a difference between a Christian counselor and a secular/gentile counselor.  However scripture reveals that God can use even a donkey to speak His words into our life.]
http://pentecostalevangel.ag.org/Conversations2007/4844_Dobbins.cfm

www.dondickerman.net   deliverance and prison ministry in Texas, USA

Harfouche, Robin  went from New Age & Hollywood actress & dancer to wheelchair cripple  Order book #1112 "From Hollywood to Heaven"  LISTEN to 8/20-24/2007 Sid Roth Radio Broadcast #1553 by clicking onto archives  http://www.sidroth.org/  
Christian Harfouche Ministries, Pensacola, Florida, USA       Rape/abuse prayer requests prayer@globalrevival.com 
web address = http://globalrevival.e3server.com/chm.asp?ID=28
Monday radio broadcast shares that some individuals can separate themselves from abuse/violence/rape by allowing their mind and/or spirit to depart to another location.
In addition to contributing to mental/emotional problems, soul ties can also contribute to, or be the result of, a spiritual problem, relevant to current AND/or past/inherited/ancestral relationships.  Soul Ties #1023 CD/cassette or mini book #B-96667

http://www.lifetoday.org Fort Worth, TX  James and Betty Robison  TV Broadcast 7/3/2007 interview with
Hunter, Joan Homosexual destruction of a marriage  Quicktime, Flash, MP3, Download, Transcript 

http://www.lifefocus.tv/    Betrayal of the Heart  10/2007 broadcasts  or DVD#LF101    
The enticing and dangerous roller coaster ride of adultery. 
Also see My Husband's Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me by Anne Bercht
TV show Oprah and 7 Cheating Husbands     Book excerpts at  www.trafford.com/robots/04-1147.html

More on sexual attacks by demons.   Jinn and Jinnees   http://www.logoschristian.org/ 
If you are being attacked in a dream or in person by a demon, devil, incubus, succubus, Satan, unclean spirit, unclean bird or alien, immediately cry out the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. 
Also, plead the Blood of the Lamb of God.
If you can think clearly, say the following,
"The Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth rebuke you.
The Lord Adonai rebuke you.
I claim the Blood of the Lamb, the shed Blood of the Lord Jesus Christ, that you leave.
In the Name of Jesus get out!"
Repeat until it leaves. It will leave.
If you don't have the courage or if you are more asleep than awake, just scream, "Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus..." Repeat for effect. This will absolutely work.

McGreevey, James                        homosexual autobiography     http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,196451,00.html
Former New Jersey Governor James E McGreevey advocates "be yourself"; do not live a lie. 
McGreevey has published a 2006 memoir on his gay lifestyle.
The spiritual problem is believing "the lie" that one's identity can be "our/any choice" contrary to what God says in scripture!
A second spiritual problem is believing that our sexual activity can violate any spiritual law as long as we are sincere, that our conscience is clear, that we are respectful/kind/considerate/compassionate to our same sex partner (at the expense of mate/kids/family/job), because God would approve our "being truthful".  This generation often "blames" sexual choice/identity/ practice on biology rather than on rape/environment/biochemical disease/demons/sin.   

My Jewish Learning http://www.myjewishlearning.com/life/Sex_and_Sexuality.shtml
Rabbinical and other denominational opinions do NOT always agree with scripture, unfortunately.

O'Brien, Michael     Pornography Testimony    Read Michael O'Brien's story here    Watch video now   
website =  Something About Us    Billy Graham TV = http://billygraham.org/TV_Index.asp?QR=163

Rainey, Dennis    Romance & Sex in Marriage radio broadcasts   http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.3204387/ 

When the Holy Ghost shows up at the wedding ceremony - http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=xdRmrgIimhI

Wiess, Dr Douglas   http://www.drdougweiss.com/    Heart to Heart Counseling Center,
Colorado Springs, Colorado, USA
Wiess, Dr Douglas   http://www.drdougweiss.com/Resource.html 
Wiess, Dr Douglas   http://www.drdougweiss.com/Counseling.html   specializes in pornography and sexual intimacy issues
At a Joni Lamb women's conference Doug said regarding remarriage that he considers the blood of Jesus Christ to be bigger than any law in the Bible.  If a divorced person who has committed adultery wants to remarry, the Bible forbids it on 2 counts.  However, Doug contends that if one repents and permanently has clean sexual hands, he/she can remarry.  He insists that there should be NO sexual SECRETS during dating/mating.  This would especially apply during the engagement/marriage time.  Doug says one needs to be sexually accountable to another couple who will accompany them physically and/or spiritually as a mentor/counselor.  There should be NO petting/porn/leading-the-date-on/self gratification.  Doug says that all sexual temptations/sins should be confessed/exposed to couple/individual who has agreed to be one's task master/keeper of purity.  For instance, one can phone the counselor if temptation arises while one is traveling.  When married, the mate can share temptations to his/her husband/wife or with another individual, who has agreed to hold his/her feet to the fire.  Basically, the only other person allowed in an intimate encounter is God, not porn/fantasy/etc; 3 is a crowd.  Finally the 2 must agree in advance as to which sexual acts will be allowed; no compromises.  Also plan in advance which are to be intimate times/days.
(Commentary = Normally ANYTHING which contradicts the Bible is a lie of Satan, so beware. 
Pray fervently and get counsel. 
One help = If one has turmoil, turmoil is of the enemy; peace is of God.)  Be reminded that Christians should marry Christians.
This is God's FIRST choice.

                             Web Sites Relevant to promiscuous bipolar/psychotic behavior

Ohadinia, Dr Sina  cached text  A hormone called vasopressin may encourage pair-bonding in prairie voles.  A group of University of Emroy researchers noticed that promiscuous voles have fewer vasopressin (V1a) receptors, in a bit of their forebrain called the ventral pallidum region.
To prove vasopressin has a "taming" effect, the researchers gave meadow voles extra V1a receptors in the ventral pallidum region of their brains.
After the V1a receptor gene was introduced, each male meadow vole fixated on one female, choosing to mate with only her - even when other females tried to tempt them!
Researchers think that when the voles have sex, the "hormone vasopressin" is released. This hormone is then "picked up" by the V1a receptors in the ventral forebrain, which in turn triggers a neural "reward system".  When the voles mate, vasopressin activates the reward centre, encouraging the male voles to pay attention to whom they are mating with.  Cached    http://brainworld.blogspot.com

NAFE    cache of http://www.namiwisconsin.org/library/resourceguide/mentalillness_bipolar.cfm 
People with mania often go on spending sprees, become promiscuous, drive recklessly, or abuse drugs and alcohol (without realizing that these behaviors are, for them, abnormal). Thus, the sexual acting out is NOT a personal/ethical/moral/demonic problem or character flaw, but rather a medical problem, according to NAFE.

Carrie Fisher    http://www.newsweek.com/id/176160    
"The insurance companies...don't cover you for a physical illness and a mental illness. You have to pick. Obviously you're going to pick a heart medication over a mental-illness one. That's asking people to make a tough choice. I once said to my doctor, "The symptoms of mania are sexual promiscuity, excessive spending and substance abuse, which sounds like a terrific weekend in Vegas." To my shrink I said, "What do you mean shopping is one of the symptoms? Do you have to have money to be manic depressive?" She said you know those people in the streets with shopping carts full of trash? They're shopping."

Sexual Abuse

SALTS                   Open Hearts Ministry, Kalamazoo, Michigan, USA        www.ohmin.org
Survivors of Abuse Leadership Training weekly Seminars
Based on therapist Dr Dan Allender's The Wounded Heart  The Wounded Heart Workbook   The Wounded Heart CD Seminar
Discusses "soul deadening form of abuse...Book reaches deep into the wounded heart...exploring the secret lament of the soul damaged by sexual abuse - and laying hold of the hope buried there by the One" Who is healer/doctor/husband/lover.
Other Allender books =  Bold Love   The Cry of the Soul   http://www.thepathlesschosen.com/main.html

Sanford, Doris                                        I Can't Talk About It
Children's book and cassette about incest.
Heart to Heart, 2105 SE Adams, Milwaukie, Oregon 97222

Commentary #1

Acts 15:1-2,11,19  TNAB    1Some men came down to Antioch from Judea and began to teach the brothers,"Unless you are circumcised according to Mosaic practice, you cannot be saved."  2This created dissension and much controversy...11James spoke up, "(Jewish/Messianic) Brothers, listen to me...19It is my judgment, therefore, that we ought not to cause God's Gentile converts any difficulties.  20We should merely write to them to abstain from anything contaminated by idols, from illicit sexual union (unchastity/fornication/sexual immorality), from the meat of strangled animals, and from eating blood."

Commentary #2

"Bear/bare backing" =
having anal sex without condoms - prevalent in homosexual relationships, especially under the influence of drugs.

Blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is unforgivable; it includes the refusal to accept Jesus Christ as savior.
All other sins are forgivable.
Jesus Christ came to love us back to Himself.
Never quit on yourself, nor on God.

All sexual experiences are "real" according to your perception, because you are real and God loves you.
However, He does not accept forbidden sexual acts, which need to be repented of and abandoned.
The real self is not the self which disobeys scripture.  A homosexual/lesbian/etc is a false identity/lie of Satan, our enemy, the deceiver since Adam and Eve.  Satin wants us to believe a lie and believe it to be right, when it is wrong/sin, preventing us to enter into heaven/intimacy with God.