The SOUL contains the mind, memories, thinking, and emotions, those things which make up our personality.  The human consists of 3 parts = body, spirit, and SOUL.  The soul and body are the human parts.  The spirit is the God part.  When one speaks of a broken spirit, he traditionally means a wounded soul.  When we say we have a broken heart, we do not mean we have a broken organ in the body.  Rather, we really mean an emotional reaction of the mind/soul.  When the soul/personality/emotion/perception/mind is damaged, a spiritual ambulance is needed.

Joyce Meyer is one of this generations best tutors on recognizing damaging emotions and teaching us how to deny their control of us by putting them under the feet of Jesus.  She turns on the light bulb to the idea that we rely on emotions to be the rudder to our spiritual and intellectual truth.  If we feel guilt or shame, for instance, we think we need to share our truth (regardless of the need/readiness/maturity for/of another to know).  For instance, if we had an abortion, we might from time to time feel the need to confess that to our doctor, mate, children and counselor, even though we had been to confession and asked God for forgiveness.  In other words, we allow, our accuser, Satan who condemns us daily before God, to dictate daily how we will respond to his accusations and finger pointing, rather than to respond to God's word in scripture that God remembers our sin no more.  Why is it that we remember, Satan remembers, but God does not remember?  Moral.  If we do not reject Satan's words and we do not embrace God's words, regardless of how we feel, then we will continue to be Satan's puppet, until we begin to act on God's word and not on our feelings, which often lie to us.  There are 2 truths, Satin's or God's.  People who are the children of God, who once were emotional basket cases, need to begin to walk in baby steps into emotional maturity.  For instance, when a newborn baby is born, most parents will say, "I love you.  You are beautiful."  Satan on the other hand will say in one's head, "I love you, BUT (and continue to number the negative/wrong items/hopes dashed) "  It is imperative to borrow God's glasses and to reject Satan's eye glasses.  Daily, hourly, weekly, yearly.

One of the major tricks of the enemy is to barrage us with thoughts which are tied into emotions,  especially negative emotions, and in particular emotions which "attack" self.  Notice the word attack.  Right away we notice that an attack is not a thing, but a live entity, whether a person or a spirit.  When we are not "overcome" by a flood of emotions, often associated with past flashbacks, rather than right now, then from time to time, we can stop, look at, and filter out unwanted harmful thoughts and ideas that do not contribute to our present well being.

In the case of abortions or miscarriages, if there has not been a funeral or if the child has not been named, then it is recommended that a healing mass be said for the deceased child/fetus/glob.  A majority of mothers and even fathers have found immediate peace of mind after doing this, or at least having a healing mass done in their behalf. Father John Hampsch is a favorite contact for this. www.claretiantapesministy.org

Believe it or not, that is only part of God's viewpoint.  Conception out of wedlock or even legal conception during a time of violence (drunkenness/rape/drugs) creates trauma to a fetus.  (Check out Kathi Oat's testimony on CD below.)  In addition, violence to a fetus can occur at or during birth due to unnatural medical intervention. www.thechildren'sbread.net

The Lord's prayer says forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.  It also says forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  It is not only what we do, but what we neglect to do.  It is not only what others do, but what others neglect to do.  This is the second danger related to emotions.  For instance, if we feel that God has neglected to: show up, give us a green light, or heal us, we consider Him to be angry, absent, disinterested, or divorced from us.  That is another lie from the Enemy.  Never rely on feelings; rather, rely on the word of God.  Our perception of God's presence or absence is not truth.  God says in scripture, "I will never leave you, nor forsake you."  We may feel forsaken.  We may feel abandoned.  Never never rely on feelings as truth.  What is truth?  Whatever scripture says is truth.  Never rely solely on what a pastor, doctor, or any individual says.  Always read scripture for yourself to verify the facts of God, the final authority.

We are never good enough to get healed.  We are never good enough to do or be anything.  The only currency in God's kingdom is faith and obedience.  It is God who is the doer.  So let us begin in baby steps to be obedient in this matter of trusting what He says in scripture.  Let us begin to read scripture every day, even one paragraph at a time.  Scripture is food for our soul.  It will grow us up.  It will help us to acquire spiritual muscle.  Let us go to church every week.  Let us pray every day, even if it is one word, Jesus, or the Lord's prayer.  Let us find a prayer partner with flesh on.  Jesus is our intercessor.  He will also pray with us.  Blessings.

Father Robert DeGrandis in The Ten Commandments of Prayer recommends that we pray in tongues to allow the Holy Spirit to minister to the root cause (such as deep emotional problems) of physical ailments. Any one who has been baptized in the Holy Spirit can pray for himself or for another this way, using tongues (another language; sometimes called the language of angels; a second known language, but unknown to the speaker).

With emotions, we find that they are layered like the peel of an onion.  Each level brings tears.  Each level needs to be dealt with.  Eventually, there will be a root cause, which also will need to be dealt with.  Otherwise our emotions will be bi-polar, up and down, tossed like a salad.  Father DeGrandis in The Gift of Miracles contends that "if a root cause is not healed, an illness can return."  On the way to recovery it is OK to work with counselors, pastors, therapists, psychiatrists, doctors, nutritionists, and orthomolecular modalities; just do not omit Doctor Jesus, for He is the key ingredient in the recipe of life.  Many physical and mental healings are progressive, step by step, as we mature emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually.

Negative emotions (such as fear to run in front of a car, or anger such as Christ had one day at the local temple) are normal human, often healthy, reactions to life.  However, "excessive, ongoing " negative emotions are a curious thing.  They can be called bad feelings, heavy weights, or oppressions because they manifest themselves as not only mental anguish and fogging/shutting down of the mind, but also as physical pressure, forcing some to be bedridden.  Emotions that hinder are from our enemy, Satan.  We do not need to think/believe/accept that our emotions are us. We have legal permission from Christ to reject them, because He healed all our infirmities 2000 years ago.  Unless we, like a sponge, absorb His word day and night, we will not realize, experience in our lifetime, that He has already provided a sound mind for us, regardless of what the medical community says. 

It may be normal to experience/feel emotions.  There may be a genetic/biochemical disorder.  However any so called normal "negative" experience/reaction may in fact be the consequence of the fall of Adam, rather than "God's normal" when He first created Adam.  For instance, there was no fear on the earth, until Adam sinned.

There is physical pain but also emotional pain.  One can have a broken leg or a broken heart.  We can have a broken relationship between us and a friend, relative, or God.  Not only may we be lonely, empty, longing, but also burdened down with an invisible hole in our heart full of emotional puss.  Scripture says not to take communion until we have reconciled with a brother who has something against us.  However, we may be the injured party.  In that case we need to forgive and give our hurts to God before we take communion, even if we feel that wound is from God or from His not protecting us.  Scripture says many are sick and die because they take communion without first forgiving.  We need to forgive the trinity - God, self, others.  Once our conscience is clean, then it is time to tell the accuser in our mind to get lost, as we have fulfilled the demands of God, as best we know how. 

Chiropractor John Miller contends that many "get sick and die after taking communion" because they do not appreciate that Jesus took away their sins in His blood and their diseases in His body on the cross 2000 years ago.  Scripture says that on the cross Jesus became our sin, our infirmity, our scapegoat.
If we do not appropriate what He did on the cross when we take communion, or if we take communion and do not understand the significance, then we insult God and miss free His blessing.  It is our own fault if we do not believe and receive, not His fault.  God allowed His own son to to killed instead of us, so that we might be healed in mind, body and spirit.  The rest is up to us.  There is nothing left for Him to do.  The doing is now up to us.  So what if it is in baby steps.  We then are headed in the right direction.

There are emotions resulting, not from what we do, not from what has been done to us, not from our circumstances, but from what we have inherited.  A good example of this is depression.  Often manic depression is inherited from one generation to the next.  If you see this is your family, you can realize right away that your "disease" is NOT your fault.  However, it is our fault, once we realize that it is inherited and we then do nothing about it.  Then at that point we are in agreement with the disease and are guilty, for not only are we keeping it, but possibly passing it on to the next generation, if we have or will have children.  Therefore, it is imperative to come against this illness IN THE NAME OF JESUS.
At such time we find the root cause of any illness or of any emotion that is creating havoc in our lives, then we need to root it out by prayer, fasting, communion, in addition to any medical, pastoral, family, or community supports necessary to keep us a content, safe, functioning and contributing member of society.     www.claretiantapesministy.org = Catholic    www.pleasantvalleychurch.net  = Protestant

Negative emotions can be like empty boxes, one inside another, smaller and smaller, pile upon pile.  We open the box expecting to find the prize, only to find another box.  The Spirits behind those negative emotions are like that.  If we see Bitterness, then there might also be self bitterness, anger, unforgiveness, resentment, hate, etc. hiding beneath, inside the next box.  When we pop the head off a dandelion to prevent it from going to seed, we neglect to get at the root, so in fact, the weed is there to bloom another day.  If we go to erase a folder on the computer, we can't until we have first deleted all the files in the folder.  So it is with getting rid of hindering emotions and hindering evil spirits.  These spirits are not us; they pretend that they are us.  Once we realize or recognize WHO they are and not WHAT they are, we can go to confession to get rid of those evil roots of - unforgiveness, etc.  That is why most psychiatrists and psychologists fail.  There is no recognition of sin on our part.  No recognition of sin on our ancestor's part.  No recognition of demonic activity in the affairs of human kind.  Even most Christian counselors and pastors fail here.  It is no wonder that God's people are still sick.  They need Dr Jesus in the flesh.  If miracles took place yesterday, then they should take place today, and everyday.

The other red flag is the disease we or our family members have.  Many diseases, especially medically incurable inherited diseases, may be rooted in a particular negative emotion, sin, demon, or nest of evil spirits.  When we, like a broken record, repeat over and over again, therapist to therapist, doctor to doctor, or to ourselves each night at bedtime, like a mantra, then the body actually relives the past as though it were happening today.  All the body's fight or flight juices get pumping. Our body starts to produce antibodies or have other negative reactions, that may eventually trigger a disease specific to our problem or our response to our problem.  Jesus told us not to go to bed angry. Otherwise, instead of us having a disease, the disease will have us.  It is spelled dis-ease.  Jesus was not just a parent or teacher patting us on the head.  He was also speaking as doctor and counselor.  Satan is an opportunist.  He never respects our rights.  He can act without our written consent. 

It is imperative to have an intimate relationship with Jesus.  We do NOT have to be perfect, but we do need to be available.   We have seen the auto sticker, "Have you hugged your child today?"  Give Jesus a morning kiss and a bedtime hug.  Apologize daily for any sin that comes to mind, immediately.  Any relationship will squeak unless it is well oiled with (TLC) tender loving care plus time. 

Joyce Meyer reminds us that step number one is to take Jesus as our savior, for without the help of His Holy Spirit, the human flesh will be impotent to do what it needs to do.  She reminds us that feeling negative emotions is temptation and not a sin; but following our emotions is a sin.  She says that those who follow/obey their negative feelings/temptations never have a life worth living/victory.  She believes that spiritual maturity is not possible until one learns to live beyond our feelings.  She also warns us that war begins when Jesus, our helper, comes into our heart.  For then the war begins between what we feel and what we need to do, regardless of what we feel.  She reminds us that only 2 made it out of the desert into the promised land, even though God protected both the Old Testament people and their clothes for 40 years.  However, victorious Christians want new clothes, not just clothes that never wear out, meaning - we want/need to grow up in Christ and not live the same old/same old boring unfruitful life.  We do NOT want to be stuck with the same old issues day in and day out, the same old battles day in and day out.  We need to "bite the bullet", meaning that we have to deny the carrot our negative emotions yell for.  We must NOT continue to say yes to comforting our wounds/fears/insecurities/tears, but rather do what we know needs to be done, regardless of how we feel.  Feelings should NOT be our thermometer of life.  Instead, God's word in scripture is our boss.  A dirty house is our boss; we need to clean the house.  A bill/invoice is our boss; we need to work 5 days a week.  Our mate is angry; we need to kiss him/her.  Our child smells; we need to change the diaper.  Our family is hungry; we need to cook supper.  Feelings must NEVER run our lives.  Feelings can be our enemy and can be DANGEROUS.  They can lie to us and tell us we are not saved, after we have repented and asked Jesus to live in our hearts.  NEVER rely on feelings.  Only rely on the word of God.  God never lies.  Satan always lies.  Satan gets his foot into the door of our lives through our feelings, especially the negative  emotions.

Joyce reminds us of Watchman Nee To-sheng's (of Foochow, Fukien Province, South China) saying, "When your emotions get stirred up, your mind may be deceived and conscience may be denied the normal course of action."

Joyce encourages us to take a break, a "frequent" one second or one minute "time out", to SMILE at someone or to PRAISE God, regardless of:  how we feel, how we feel about smiling, or how we feel about praising.

Benny Hinn's Fresh Manna 2004 CDs www.bennyhinn.org  teach that when we acknowledge Jesus as our savior and lord, He implants, like a tooth, His spirit into us.  That spirit is newborn.  It is a person.  It is alive.  It needs to be fed spiritually.  It needs to grow.  That spirit is housed in a body, our body.  Our body is not a person.  Our body is a house.  Hinn teaches that the soul is the connection between the body and the spirit.  The soul houses the mind, emotions and intellect.  However, spiritual insight and spiritual comprehension is NOT in the soul, but in the spirit.  It is the spirit that will go to heaven.  The soul follows whichever is stronger, the spirit or the body.  As the spirit grows up it can surpass the soul/body in maturity.  Then the soul can follow the leadings of the spirit more easily. Thus, there is hope for all of us.  If each of us is an emotional basket case from time to time, no worry!  There is hope.  Remember to feed your spirit.  Remember, God's spirit in you is the real you.

Kunneman, Hank - The Revealer of Secrets - www.lohchurch.org   www.orm.org  Omaha, Nebraska, USA
Subtitle -There Is a God in Heaven Who Wants You to Know His Secrets - Learn to Hear Them
Chapter 7 - Prophets: God's Prepared Gift to the Church -
"There are 3 physical locations where Elijah went that represent his season of hiding...(#1)
Cherith (1Kings 17:3)...Many great men of God received their preparation in a wilderness, including Elijah...In this secret place of preparation...you learn to prophesy (declare) to your destiny and to maintain your relationship with God, regardless of how dry you feel.  You learn how NOT to base your life on feeling, but upon His promised destiny for you.

Charles R Solomon in his brochure The Wheel and Line, A Guide to Freedom Through the Cross (from GFI Headquarters, Denver, Colorado, USA) diagrams the human as 3 parts: body, spirit and soul, with the soul containing 3 parts: personality (inferiority, insecurity, inadequacy, guilt, worry, doubt, fear), mind (fantasy, paranoia, obsessive thoughts, schizophrenia), and emotions (depression, anxiety). 
Obviously this diagram concentrates on the negative, character or sin issues.

John Maxwell instructs businessmen to perform better using the following scriptural principles.
Choose/think/decide
Believe
Expect
Attitude change
Behavior change
Performance change
Life change
Each of the above will evolve into the next, if we focus on that one goal,
while daily managing our emotions that attempt to sabotage that one goal.

Most all hurts are due to unforgiven sin committed by self, to self, by others, to others.  Jesus died allowing those sins to be forgiven.  Lack of forgiveness allows the pus of the sin to remain and fester.

Salvation is based on fact NOT feeling.  Salvation of spirit is based on fact, God's truth.  Salvation of the mind/psychiatric-well-being is based on fact, God's truth.  Salvation of the body/healing is based on fact, God's truth.  NEVER rely or base one's opinion/reality upon feelings, but upon only what God says in scripture.  It does NOT matter how we react to others or feel about them; neither does it matter what others think of us.  It does matter what God thinks.  It does matter that we rely only on His opinions/thoughts revealed in scripture.  If God loves us, then nothing else counts.  Not even what we think/feel about ourselves.  Everything that does not agree with God is a lie or error.
When one operates from any perspective, other than God's, it is as though he were hobbling along in life with one leg tied to the Holy Spirit's leg, neither one making much progress.

Danger

Bob Jones shared with Paul Keith Davis that there may be a curse imposed upon a congregation by teachers who unknowingly speak from a wounded soul.  The result is an open door to a religious spirit (whose purpose is to sabotage the church fellowship with gossip, bitterness and jealousy). www.bobjones.org/bio_bob.htm
 Bob Jones prophecy from  www.whitedoveministries.org      Fireside Chat with Bob Jones March 2005 on the wounded soul

Satan wants to keep us as victims with a victim mentality.  We need to change from victims to victors in the name of Jesus Christ.   Wright, Henry    www.pleasantvalleychurch.net    main@pleasantvalleychurch.net    

Science and Research

3/4/05 Wall Street Journal's Science Journal editorial shares with us the hypothesis that newly discovered "mirror neurons" may be ingredients that allow us to empathize.  Not only that, "mirror neurons" may be the missing link in autism.

New England Laborers' Health & Safety Fund 3/21/05 newsletter has an editorial titled Sudden Emotional Stress Can Cause "Broken Heart" Syndrome.  The emphasis is that emotional trauma may cause heart attack symptoms.  Broken heart syndrome is stress cardiomyopathy or heart muscle tissue disease.  It is caused when the adrenaline and other stress hormones create a fight or flight response in the body. www.nelhsf.com

Conventional views
regarding emotions

kqed.org/quest  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PFqzYoKkCc recognizing emotions u tube - recommended
Eckman Group book review http://www.expotv.com/videos/reviews/4/55/EmotionsRevealed2CSecondEdition3A/208045
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_emotions
Aristotle's List of Emotions http://spot.colorado.edu/~hauserg/ArEmotList.htm
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/list-of-human-emotions.html Includes insecurity under sadness
http://www.mytherapistnc.org/emotions.htm alphabetized without subcategories
e-mail and texting typed emotions http://www.sharpened.net/glossary/emoticons.php
Mark Pettinelli     The Psychology Of Emotions, Feelings and Thoughts   http://cnx.org/content/m14358/latest/
http://www.scribd.com/doc/6042038/emotions-vs-feelings
Neuropeptides, the Molecules of Emotions   http://www.healthstresswellness.com/index.asp?pgid=72
"The field of psycho-neuro-immunology (PNI) explores the links between mind and body with regard to the immune system. Since nerve supply extends to all the components of the immune system (e.g. lymph nodes, thymus gland, and spleen), the nervous system with its head office inside the brain, will necessarily influence the immune system directly. Stress and depression can suppress the activity of lymphocytes, the white blood cells that are the body’s first line of defense against cancer and invading organisms. Diseases of the immune system include HIV/aids, cancer, allergies, arthritis, infections, the auto-immune disorders such as ulcerative colitis, multiple sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis, and many other conditions that are a consequence of either a under- or an over-active immune system. Cells in the immune system are responsive to all 90 neuropeptides, that are triggered by our thoughts and emotions.
Neuropeptides cause chemical changes in the body that can improve or weaken the immune system. Once immune cells receive the stress response alarm, they undergo changes and begin to produce powerful chemicals. These substances allow the cells to regulate their own growth and behavior, enlist the help of other immune cells, and direct these to the areas of invasion or other trouble spots...
The brain produces its own neurotransmitters, the endogenous opiates (e.g. beta-endorphin). These chemicals are produced in the brain in response to a variety of stimuli. Endorphins were discovered in 1975."

                                                              Paranormal
                                               non Judeo-Christian theories

SCRIPTURE

Joshua 1:5 NIV    "No one will be able to stand up against you all the days of your life.  As I was with Moses, so I will be with you.  I will never leave you nor forsake you."

Nehemiah 8:10 KJV    This day is holy unto our Lord; neither be sorry, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.
Nehemiah 9:17b NIV    You are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to answer and abounding in love.  Therefore you did not desert them.

Psalms 3:3    You, O Lord, are a shield for me, my glory and lifter up of my head.
Psalm 4:4 NIV    In your anger do not sin.  When you are on your beds, search your hearts and be  silent.
Psalm 27:10 NIV    (Even) Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will receive (take) me.
Psalm 30:2-3 KJV    O, Lord my God, I cried unto You, and You healed me.  O Lord, You brought up my soul from the grave.  (Also a prophecy about Jesus)
Psalm 30:11-12 KJV    You turned my mourning into dancing.  You put off my sackcloth and girded me with gladness...May my glory (my soul) sing praise to You and not be silent.  O Lord my God, I will give You thanks for ever.
Psalm 34:18 KJV    The Lord is near to them that are of a broken heart and saves such as be of a contrite spirit.
Psalm 51:12 NIV    Restore  to me the joy of Your salvation.
Psalm 69:19-20 KJVer    You (Father God) have known My reproach, shame, and dishonor.  Reproach has broken My heart.  I am full of heaviness.  I (David/Jesus) looked for some to take pity, but there was none.  For comforters, I found none.
Psalm 123 NIV    I lift up my eyes to You,  to You Whose throne is in heaven...Our eyes look to the Lord our God, till He shows us His mercy.  Have mercy on us,  O Lord, have mercy on us, for we have endured much contempt.  We have endured much ridicule from the proud, much contempt from the arrogant.

Proverbs 15:13 KJV    A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance, but a spirit is broken (wounded/smitten) by a sorrow of heart.  (Spiritual insight = Unconfessed/unforgiven sin can wound the spirit.)
Proverbs 17:22 KJV    A merry heart  does good like medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones.
Proverbs 18:14 KJV    The (human) spirit (fortitude) of a man will sustain his infirmity, but who can bear a wounded spirit?  (Spiritual insight = Only Doctor Jesus can heal the wounded spirit/heart.)

Isaiah 25:8 KJV   The Lord God will wipe away tears from off all faces, and the rebuke of His people shall He take away.                  
Isaiah 26:3    You (God) will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in You.
Isaiah 40:1-2 KJVer    "Comfort you, comfort you, My people," says your God.  "Speak comfortably (tenderly) to Jerusalem and cry to her, that her WARFARE  is accomplished, that her iniquity is pardoned; she has received of the Lord's hand double for all her sins.
Isaiah 53:10-11 NIV    It was the Lord's will to crush (bruise) Him (the Messiah) and cause Him (grief) to suffer (as a substitute, in our place).  Though the Lord makes His life (soul) a guilt (sin) offering (required under Old Testament law), He will see His (spiritual) offspring (seed) and prolong His days.  The will of the Lord will prosper in His hand.  After the suffering (travail) of His soul (person/life), He will see the light of life and be satisfied.  By His knowledge My Righteous Servant will justify many.  He will bear their iniquities (when they repent/apologize to God/renounce their sins). See
2nd Corinthians 5:21 KNVer   He (Father God) made Him Who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him (the Messiah, Jesus Christ).
Isaiah 54:5-6 KJV    "Your Maker is your husband.  The Lord of hosts is His name and your redeemer the Holy One of Israel, the God of the whole earth shall He be called.  The Lord has called you as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, a wife of youth when you were refused," says your God.
Isaiah 54:7-8 KJVer    "For a small moment have I forsaken you, but with great mercies will I gather you.  In a little wrath I hid My face from you for a moment, but with everlasting kindness I will have mercy on you," says the Lord your Redeemer. (Spiritual insight = On the cross Jesus cried out, "Why have You Father God forsaken me."  While the sin and diseases of the world were on Jesus, God could not bear to look upon Him, our scapegoat.)
Isaiah 54:17 KJVer    No weapon formed against you shall prosper; every (lying/critical) tongue (voice in your mind) which rises against you in (false) judgment you shall condemn (judge/reject/evict/not accept/internalize). 
Isaiah 61:1-3 KJVer    He has sent me (Isaiah/Christ) to bind up the broken hearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to them that are bound, to proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all that mourn, to appoint to them that mourn in Zion, and to give to them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness, that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He might be glorified.
Isaiah 61:7 KJVer    For your shame, you shall have double.  For confusion, they shall rejoice in their portion.  Therefore, in their land they shall possess double.  Everlasting joy shall be theirs.
Isaiah 61:10 KJVer    I will greatly rejoice in the Lord.  My soul shall be joyful in my God, for He has clothed me with the garments of salvation.  He has covered me with the robe of righteousness (justifiction/judged not guilty/acquittal).
(Spiritual insight = As there is now no record of sin in heaven against you, Satan has no legal  ground on which to accuse you!  Therefore, reject any false accusation for sin which has been forgiven and forgotten by God! 
Our having/being terrorized/shamed by guilt for a confessed sin - is our accepting a lie of our enemy Satan.)
Isaiah 62:4 KJVer   You shall no more be termed Forsaken...for the Lord delights in you.

Jeremiah 30:16 KJVer   They that devour you shall be devoured.  All your adversaries, every one of them, shall go into captivity.  They that spoil you shall be a spoil.  All that prey upon you will I give for (to be) a prey. (Spiritual insight = Our real enemy is not man but an invisible evil spirit.)
Jeremiah 30:17 KJV    "I will restore health to you, and I will heal your wounds," says the Lord, "because they called you an Outcast, saying, 'This is Zion, who no man seeks after.'"
Jeremiah 31:12-14 NIV   "They will be like a well-watered garden and they will sorrow no more.  Then maidens will dance and be gland, young men and old as well"...declares the Lord.

Daniel 3:39-45 TNAB  (Lord,)39With contrite heart and humble spirit, let us be received; 40as though it were holocausts of rams and bullocks, or 1,000's of fat lambs, so let our sacrifice be in your presence today as we follow You unreservedly; for those who trust in You cannot be put to shame.  41And now we follow You with our whole heart.  We fear You and we pray to You.  42Do not let us be put to shame, but deal with us in Your kindness and great mercy.  43Deliver us by Your wonders, and bring glory to Your name, O Lord.  44Let all those (individuals and demons) be routed who inflict evils on Your servants; let them be shamed and powerless, and let their strength (be) broken; 45let them know that You alone are the Lord God, glorious over the whole world.  

Jonah 3:10 KJV    God saw their (citizens and king of the city of Nineveh) works, that they turned from their evil way (repented); God repented of the evil (harm/punishment) that He had said He would do to them.  He did not do it.
Jonah 4:1-4 NIV    Jonah was greatly displeased and became angry.  He prayed to the Lord, O Lord, is this not what I said when I was still at home?  That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish.  I knew that You are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God Who  relents from sending calamity.  3Now, O Lord, take away my life;  for it is better for me to die than to live."  4The Lord replied, "Have you any right to be angry?"  (Spiritual insight = Here we see self pity, anger of man against the mercy and forgiveness of God.  We even see a spirit of suicide!)

Zephaniah 3:17-20 KJV    The Lord your God in the midst of you is mighty.  He will save.  He will rejoice over you with joy.  You will rest in His love.  He will joy over you with singing. "I will gather them, that are sorrowful, for the solemn assembly, those, to whom the reproach of it was a burden.  Behold, at that time I will undo all who afflict you.  I will save her who halts (limps), and gather her that was driven out.  I will get them praise and fame in every place where they have been put to shame. At that time I will bring you again, at the time I gather you.  I will make you a name and a praise among all people of the earth, when I turn back your captivity before your eyes," says the Lord.

New Testament

Matthew 5:4 KJVer    Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Matthew 27:18 TPNT    He had known that they (high priests and synagogue elders) gave Him over (to be crucified by Pilot the governor) because of jealousy.

Luke 4:18 Amplified    The spirit of the Lord (is) upon Me (the Messiah), because He has anointed Me...to send forth delivered those who are oppressed, down trodden, bruised, crushed and broken down by calamity.
Luke 13:1-5 NIV    There were some present at that time who told Jesus about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mixed with their sacrifices.  Jesus answered, "Do you think these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans because they suffered this way?  I tell you, no!  Unless you repent, you too will all perish.  Do you thing those 18 who died when the tower in Siloam fell on them were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem?  I tell you, no!  Unless you repent, you too will all perish."

John 5:30 NIV    "I (Jesus) judge only as I hear (God the Father), and My judgment is just, for I seek not to please Myself, but Him Who sent Me."  (Spiritual insight = Jesus/God sees the heart.  Likewise, we are NOT to judge or to condemn.  That is God's job.  A critical spirit is an evil spirit, a demon!)
John 8:15 NIV    "You judge by human standards.  I (Jesus) pass judgment on no one." 
(Spiritual insight = It is our sins, our trespasses against the law in scripture, + Satan that condemn us.  The 1st brings us to repentance.  The 2nd brings false condemnation, especially to those who have repented.)
John 9:3-7 NIV    "Who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?" 
"Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus.  "This happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life."
John 14:1-3 NIV    "Do not Let  your hearts be troubled.  Trust in God.  Trust also in Me.  In My Father's house are many rooms (mansions).  If it were not so, I would have told you.  I am going there to prepare a place for you.  If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with Me, that you  also may be  where I am.   You know the way to the place where I am going."  Thomas said to Him, "Lord, we do not know where You are going, so how can we know the way?"  Jesus answered, "I am the way, the truth and the life.  No one comes to the Father except through Me.  If you really knew Me, you would know My Father as well.  From now on, you do know Him and have seen Him." 
John 14:15-18 NIV    "If you love Me, you will obey what I command.  I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Counselor (Comforter) to be with you forever, the (Holy) Spirit of Truth.  The world cannot accept Him, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him, but you know Him, for He lives with you and will be in(side) you. O will not leave you (comfortless) as orphans.  I will come to you."

Romans 8:1 KJVer    There is therefore now NO condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus
Romans 9:33 KJVer    It is written, "Behold, I lay in Zion a stumbling stone and rock of offense.  Whosoever believes on Him shall not be ashamed."
Romans 10:11 KJVer    Scripture says, "Whosoever believes on Him shall not be ashamed."
Romans 12:2 KJVer    Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

1st Corinthians 1:27-31 NIV    God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.  He chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things (and the things that are not to nullify the things that are) so that no one may boast before Him.  It is because of Him that you are in Christ Jesus, Who has become for us Wisdom from God (that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption.)  Therefore, as it is written, "Let him, who boasts, boast in the Lord." (See Jeremiah 9:24)
1st Corinthians 4:9,13    We have been made a spectacle to the whole universe, to angels as well as to men...Up to this moment we have become the scum of the earth, the refuse of the world.

2nd Corinthians 1:3-7 NIV    Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, Who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.  Just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows.  If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation.  If we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we  suffer. Our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.
2nd Corinthians 12:9 NIV    He (the Lord) said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness."  (Spiritual insight = Pride makes us self sufficient.  Pride is the root sin that caused Satin to fall.  When we seek God with all out might, He will rescue us.  We are never able to rescue ourselves alone, apart from Him.)
2nd Corinthians 12:10 NIV    For Christ's sake, I delight in  weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions (and) difficulties, for when I am weak, then I am strong (able to rely on God's ambulance/green beret/supernatural intervention).

Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV    Get rid of ALL bitterness, rage, anger, brawling, slander, along with every form of malice.  Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ forgave you.

Philippians 4:8-9 NIV    Brothers, think about such things (whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy), and the God of peace will be with you.

2nd Thessalonians 2:16-17 NIV    May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, Who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.

Hebrews 9:14 KJV    If the blood of bull and goats and the ashes of an heifer sprinkling the unclean sanctify the flesh, how much more shall the blood of Christ (Who through the eternal Spirit offered Himself without spot to God) purge your conscience (from any acts of sin when you repent).   
Hebrews 11:1 NIV    Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do NOT see.
Hebrews 12:2-3 NIV    2Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, Who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. endured the cross, despising the shame.  3Consider Him Who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
Hebrews 12:15 TEV/Deuteronomy 29:18    A bitter plant that grows up.
Hebrews 12:15 NIV    Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy.  See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root (bitterness) grows up to cause trouble and defile many.  (Spiritual insight = Defiled in the Greek is miaino meaning to be stained with demonic processes.  Thus we give demons a legal right to aggravate when we do not forgive and instead allow bitterness to grow. Bromiley's Theological Dictionary of the New Testament)
Hebrews 13:5 Amplified    He (God) Himself has said, "I will not in any way fail you, give you up, nor leave you without support.  (I will) not, (I will) not in any degree leave you helpless, nor forsake nor let (you) down, (relax My hold on you).-Assuredly not!"

James 5:9 NIV    Don't grumble against each other,  brothers, or you will be judged.  The Judge is standing at the door.
James 5:12 NIV    Above all, my brothers, do not swear - not by heaven or by earth or by anything else.  Let your "Yes" be yes and your "No" (be) no, or you will be condemned.

1st John 14:16-18 KJV    I will ask the Father and He shall give you another comforter (My Holy Spirit), that He may abide with you fore ever...I will not leave you comfortless.  I will come to you.

Revelation 12:10 KJVer    The power of His Christ has come, for the accuser of our brethren, who accused them before our God day and NIGHT (through nightmares), has been cast down.
Revelation 12:11 KJVer    They (God's people) overcame him (Satan) by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony (of God's salvation in their lives/of what God did for them on the cross and not what they did personally/of God's overcoming Satan and his power by the sacrifice of Jesus Christ).

HEALING PUBLICATIONS

Amen, Daniel G MD                  Change Your Brain.  Change Your Life   
The Breakthrough Program for conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Anger and Impulsiveness

Baars, Dr Conrad W                  Feeling and Healing Your Emotions           www.lhla.org
Baars, Dr Conrad & Terruwe, Anna             Healing the Unaffirmed           www.lhla.org
Subtitle = Recognizing Emotional Deprivation Disorder

Banks, Bill                                Shame Free                                       www.thechildrensbread.net
Banks, Bill                                Deliverance for Children & Teens          www.goodnews.netministries.org
"Some children stop growing emotionally when their parents decide to divorce...until they receive ministry or until someone understands their problem and lovingly brings them out of childhood."  Divorce can be a root of  "adults who manifest childlike behavior."

Bennett, Georg - When the Mental Patient Comes Home - Westminster Press  a Christian Care book 1980
Chapter 3 Dealing with Guilt 
"Guilt means experiencing a(n ongoing/exaggerated/oppressive/excessive) feeling...not liking one's self, either because of what one has done or not done, or because of what one is or is not [or perceives as such, often because of not having asked for forgiveness or not receiving/accepting forgiveness, such as from God, or not forgiving oneself, or believing the lie that one is unforgivable or has committed an/the unforgivable sin]...
False guilt...does not lead to redemption, but leads to deepening self-torture and depression...over not being perfect...leads to...(isolation)...emotional pain and loneliness...
The accompanying depression can even lead to suicidal thoughts and attempts based on the (guilt) feeling:...'Everyone will probably be better off if I am dead'...
If the child's performance, good for a child's age, is compared to the superior ability of adults (or siblings), the child will develop self-doubt, self-contempt, and guilt that may last a lifetime...
Sick guilt is one (root) cause of mental illness...
'Shame on you,' or 'You ought to be ashamed of yourself' phrases'" need to be confessed, apologized for and restitution made to remedy emotional damage to family relationships.  Additionally, "Getting rid of one's own unhealthy guilt inspires recovering patients to get rid of theirs."
Chapter 4 Relating to Persons and Feelings
"A recovering...patient may feel that she is bad for having gotten sick."  A healthy response to a hospitalization (as a psychiatric patient) and subsequent return might be, "We missed you very much during your hospitalization.  You are important to us, sick or well, and I'm glad you are well enough to be back home...Being ill and hospitalized is not a sin or a crime...I am glad you are able to talk...with me...of how you feel."
The majority of humans do "have suicidal thoughts but do...not recognize them as such.  The self-destructive urges are (typically) 'unconscious,' to use the term of psychoanalysts.  (Be reminded that thoughts originate from 3 sources: self, God, Satan! God says in scripture to filter each thought)...
Communication difficulty in relating to persons and feelings rather than to problems and facts...is (sometimes) caused by (perfectionism, embarrassment/shame, attempted preservation of family reputation, not wanting to be vulnerable, incomprehension the rude intrusion of mental illness, pl us) fear of one's own unrecognized self-destrucitve impulses" like suicide.
"Mental patients are ordinarily taught by their (secular/conventional) doctors and counselors (to recognize and) to accept (all) their thoughts and feelings, both positive and negative...to help...(defuse) cope more effectively, less destructively, with their impulses, thoughts, and feelings...to be masters of their emotions, rather than slaves to them...Family and friends are NOT prepared to deal with such strong, sometimes fearful (nightmares,) feelings and thoughts (including rage, the urge to kill, self-destruction, and lust)...by changing the subject, focusing on problems and facts.  This makes the convalescent patient feel wrong, isolated, different."
Chapter 5 Focusing on Problems and Facts
"Do NOT 'help' depressed persons to 'get in touch with' their feelings.  They may then feed on further negative feelings in a downward spiral toward self-destructive behavior...When suspicious people feel that others are getting emotionally close, they become suspicious of those people, wondering what their motives are.  They feel that their privacy is being invaded.  They become more secretive and increasingly fearful.  They need emotional distance to feel secure.  When their (imaginary/paranoid) suspicions are given attention, either positively or negatively, those suspicions are supported (reinforced)...Don't reward misery...Do not listen to lengthy (repetitious) accounts of the patient's guilt, remorse, and low self-worth...You only help...patient talk themselves further into despair (,relapse, harm to self or others.  Change the subject, just as you would with a toddler or geriatric person)...Changing the subject from feelings...is difficult...because the aftermath of their illness hangs on strongly...as if the illness does NOT ant the patient to be well....Getting 'hooked' into the mire of suspicions or depressive talk does NOT help."
Chapter 6 Tolerating Silence
Some individuals may have been cautioned "'not to have such thoughts.'  A typical example was young Thomas Edison, who...became an 'introverted' person who spent lonely hours in his laboratories...often quiet and withdrawn, isolated and non-communicative.  At other times, he was dogmatic and intimidating, refusing to cooperate."  Some "former mental patients...temporarily have problems judging when speaking is all right and when it is not all right.  This temporary lack of judgment, which results in 'trouble.' may cause the patient to decide that silence at all times is the only sure solution to avoid trouble." 
(Be reminded that some aspects of psychosis and/or medication cause patients to regress into nonfunctioning behavior that keeps them bedridden, sometimes for months at a time, even toileting in the bed, like an infant.  In the schizophrenic, this can be one of the aspects/symptoms of "negative" behavior)
...Avoid pushing the patient to speak...Speaking may be a major effort (especially if the person is heavily medicated)."  Your company and prayers are both extremely important.
Chapter 7 Forget What Lies Behind
Purposely with your will, "forget the past when the past consists of temporary symptoms of (mental) illness that have upset, hurt, angered, or embarrassed you and others."  Sometimes "forgetting the past is made possible by telling professional helpers (,clergy and/or God) all the hurts, angers, confusions, and shame, fully and with feelings...Forgive literally means 'to let go'...'Forgetting' the past is done by draining the feelings; hence, letting go of the hurt, resentment, fear, pain and shame." 
Chapter 8 Remember the Past "Perhaps nothing in the care of the convalescent mental patient is as important as knowing when to remember (recount) the personal past...(victories/nostalgia)...Memories of pleasant past experiences do have feelings (and aromas, sounds, tastes, beauty) attached to them...The fact that there is already an emotional attachment enables the convalescent to slip from the 'sick' (incapacitating/detrimental) preoccupation...Remembering together is a kind of sharing (comradery/ communication)...Mention a specific memory...Helping patients to remember something pleasant is throwing a lifeline to which they are already attached.  Emotionally they will pull themselves toward you and away from sickness...Do it by asking or reminding of the past."  Do NOT try "to arouses interest in something to which there is NO prior emotional attachment."
Chapter 10 Discerning the Sense in Nonsense
Patient (silence,) talking or acting "'nonsense' (often) interferes with communication...(and) is highly frustrating." Author shares the testimony of a fellow psychiatrist who had success treating a severe schizophrenic "because of the simple observation of an untrained recovering patient (the doctor enlisted)...Listen to the words, notice the actions, and then ask a recovering patient what you think she or he might be communicating."  [Even "inappropriate or crazy laughter' typically has a valid reason.  See if there is a pattern of this.  Are highly emotional issues being inappropriately being discussed (or aired on TV/radio) in front of patient?  Is volume inappropriate?  Is extra loud noise or rhythm needed to block out voices in his/her head?  Are pictures/content pornographic/lustful/too stimulating/shameful/triggering personal struggles?]  "To comprehend the sense in the nonsense of convalescing mental patients, notice not so much what is said or done, but when the nonsense occurs....not attempt to 'analyze' the symbolic meaning of actions and words."  Allow for odd behavior and future communication when patient is ready.
Chapter 11 Don't Keep Secrets
Do NOT whisper in front of patient nor have secret meetings with medical providers.  Patients should NOT be the last to know; many laws support this concept.  Obviously, sensitivity to timing is helpful.  "The response of the convalescent patient will clue the family as to how to proceed...Patients will never feel they are 'back again' until they have been allowed to share in all of life - the good and the bad...
(Barring temporary postponements,) most of the time...patients have a legal and moral right to know the truth, especially as it affects them.  Keeping secrets does NOT foster trust and confidence."

Bennett, Rita    How to Pray for Inner Healing for Yourself and Others    Creation House publication

Bentley, Todd                         The Reality of the Supernatural World           www.soundoffire.com
Subtitle = Exploring Heavenly Realms and Prophetic Experiences
Chapter 6 Third Heaven shares Bentley's 3rd heaven experience where God's rays of light and music healed the broken places in his heart.  God's heavenly choir sang lullabies, "I love you; you are accepted; you are beautiful; you are worthy."

Burt, Arthur                            Around the World in 88 Years                        www.arthurburt.com
Chapter 4 Pastor Burt  "The Lord spoke to me, 'You believe I have left you out because you are unspiritual.  If I put you in, then you will think you are spiritual, but this revival is a sovereign act of My grace.  Until you can say Amen to Me for leaving you out, you are not in a position to be taken in.  If you are hurt because I have left you out, you would be puffed up in your pride if you were taken in.  Therefore I'll leave you out until you lose your hurt feeling.'"

Care Notes - www.caregiving.org - Lots of booklets for lots of issues.

Carothers, Merlin - You Can Be Happy Now - http://www.foundationofpraise.org/

Chervin, Ronda - Taming the Lion Within - www.rondachervin.com - Autobiographical book dealing with anger.
Chervin, Ronda - En Route to Eternity - www.rondachervin.com - Autobiography of Catholic religious woman.

Cousens, Gabriel - Depression-Free for Life - A Physician's All-Natural 5 Step Plan

Colbert, Dr Don                       Deadly Emotions           www.drdoncolbert.com    www.joycemeyer.org

Copeland, Kenneth                  Turn Your Hurts into Harvests    booklet #K08020   www.kcm.org

Dickow, Gregory                      Taking Charge of Your Emotions          www.changinglives.org
Dickow, Gregory                      Winning the Battle of Your Mind           www.changinglives.org

Dobson, Dr Richard                  Your Feelings, Friend or Foe                      http://www.drdobbins.com
"Formal education teaches you how to 'think'...(Naples, Florida, USA psychiatrist Dr.) Dobbins teaches you how to 'feel.' The way you have chosen to deal with your feelings in the past is reflected in your countenance. All of us go through times when we are sad, depressed, angry, guilty, anxious, or confused, but if you have not learned practical ways of dealing with these emotions you are missing out on the joy of life. Dr. Dobbins teaches you how to make your feelings your 'friends.'" 
Read editorials at  http://www.drdobbins.com/guidelines.asp

Evans, David G                         Healed Without Scars                                          www.amazon.org

                                                Healing Is a Choice  - Nemrick Meyer Life Clinic book

Ferrell, Ana Mendez    Regions of Captivity    www.voiceofthelight.com
Introduction "That part of your life where you feel that you do not live in victory or there is a blockage you can't seem to get around, has to do with captivity."
Chapter 6 The Different Regions of Captivity "Spiritual prisons are divided into different zones inside of the kingdom of evil. 
The fragmented soul is brought to these regions, so the designs of the devil can be manifested in this person's life...
A soul may belong to God...but nevertheless fragments held captive.  This produces illness...and breakdowns - that WILL respond to prayer."
Chapter 7 Setting the Captives Free.  "'Oppressed' in the original Hebrew means those with their souls torn apart." (Their souls are broken, cracked, like Humpty Dumpty.)
Chapter 11 My Father's Resurrection by Pastor Joan Manuel Reyes Acosta, Oaxaca, Mexico - The Lord took him (my father) out of the Captivity of Death (a spiritual demonic place). "God said, 'Death...has the legal rights...Now...begin to bind it...Break the decrees that the enemy has in his hands and that gives him the right over your father...since 1945, when he cursed his parents'...She said to the devil, 'I command Satan and the spirit of death, in the name of Jesus...that you will not take my father...I declare life to my father and I break the designs, covenants and decrees that my father made. (He was a Mason)...The Lord added, 'Now take him from the captivity of death'...I saw my father as a child...Jesus continued, 'That is a part of his soul that was wounded.  Open the door of that prison of death'...The angel that was with me said, 'This is why the son of Man came, to rescue those who are lost.  Now the Son of God is glorified, because He descended to hell to take from Satan the keys of death and captivity'...God gave me the victory over death."
Ferrell, L Emerson      The Supernatural Believing the Consciousness of Christ    www.voiceofthelight.com
Chapter 2 Sin Consciousness Versus Christ Consciousness  "The Holy Spirit is translated Ruah Hakodesh, which is the feminine word from Kadosh, meaning holy.  This is a picture of the tenderness of a mother, the sweet tender Holy Spirit...
The exchange of the earthly family (1st loves/reliances/self/priorities) for our heavenly one will for us to go beyond our soul (intellect) and depend on our spirits (which have been wed to Christ)."

Fife, Dr Dale              The Secret Place (#1) and The Hidden Kingdom (#2) www.whitakerhouse.com
shares with us that God has a secret salve to heal spiritual wounds and emotional scars. 
One must ask God for His eye balm and then apply it to their spiritual eyes via prayer. 
See Revelation 3:18.

Floyd, Gregory                    A Grief Profound - Losing Your Child               www.lhla.org
Book, DVD or video about the loss of a son
Floyd, Gregory                     A Grief Unveiled                                             www.lhla.org

Flynn, Mike & Gregg, Doug  Inner Healing                                          InterVarsity Press

Fogle, Bruce (veterinarian)    The Cat's Mind
Fogle, Bruce (veterinarian)    The Dog's Mind
Some readers say that these books give an insight into unspoken human emotions.

Graham, Ruth    In Every Pew Sits a Broken Heart   autobiography    www.ruthgrahamministries.com
Ruth, daughter of Billy Graham, struggles with depression and shares many of her wrong choices.

Goleman, Daniel                Emotional Intelligence (EI)  +  Working with Emotional Intelligence
Goleman, Daniel; Boyatzis, Richard; McKee, Annie    Primal Leadership - Realizing the Power of Emotional Intelligence   audio
"Authors argue that a leader's emotions are contagious.  If a leader resonates energy and enthusiasm, an organization thrives...negativity and dissonance, it flounders."  (One may want to refer to Dobbins, Dr Richard  Invisible Imprint  http://www.drdobbins.com .)

Hammond, Frank                Comfort for the Wounded Spirit                  www.thechildrensbread.net
When one immediately forgives his enemy, unclean spirits are not able to enter and do damage.  Licking our wounds, like a dog, allows spiritual infection or gangrene to set in.  If forgiveness has not been immediately applied to a wounded spirit, then one needs to forgive, next receive deliverance, and finally receive inner healing. ANY wound causing sorrow and distress has the potential to cause a wounded spirit.  Rejection is frequently the culprit, especially in schizophrenia.
Wounded spirits in scripture =
Asaph       Psalm 77:1-12
David       Psalm 55:4-23
Hannah    Samuel 1:1-28
Jacob       Genesis 37:33-35 + Genesis 45:25-27
Jesus        Isaiah 53:3-5
Rachael    Jeremiah 31:15-17
To obtain true permanent comfort, one must cease all attempts to comfort himself, especially refuse to seek revenge or retaliation, and refuse to suppress or escape from emotional trauma. Refuse to hold on to  the wounds which Christ bore for me through His own suffering on the cross! Instead, (1) confess any complicity, (2) forgive and (3) pray for the offender, (4) forgive self and God, (5) ask for God's comforter, the Holy Spirit to minister healing, (6) in the name of Jesus refuse all the tricks of Satan (including anger, rage, unforgiveness, bitterness, self-righteousness, self-pity, arrogance, wounded spirit, broken heart), (7) in the name of Jesus take back all the enemy has stolen including (peace, joy, self-worth, laughter), (8) and thank God for His ability and willingness to comfort me. 
Hammond, Frank                Pigs in the Parlor                                www.thechildrensbread.net
Subtitle = A Practical Guide to Deliverance
The "evil spirit of rejection" may prevent one from both receiving and giving love.  Rejection has the opportunity to enter a child when a he/she feels he/she is not loved.

Hayford, Jack W                 Taking Hold of Tomorrow
Living Way Ministries, Van Nuys, California, USA
Jack reminds us that the past is a dead issue; we cannot gain any momentum moving toward tomorrow, if we are dragging the past behind us.

Heflin, Ruth Ward                Glory                                                     www.revivalglory.org
Heflin, Ruth Ward                Revival Glory                                         www.revivalglory.org
Ruth shares that when one is under the power of the Holy Spirit in the glory cloud, when one is laughing in the Spirit, great emotional healing often occurs.

Hegstrom, Paul                   Broken Children, Grown-Up Pain              www.lifeskillsintl.org
Subtitle - Understanding the Effects of Your Wounded Past
At the age of 8 Paul was sexually abused by a man.  His mom further traumatized him by washing his mouth out with soap and condemning any sexual curiosity/questions/conversation as shameful/evil/forbidden/etc, resulting in a lifestyle of verbal, physical and sexual abuse with those Paul dated or married.  When Paul became teachable 40 years later, God revealed how to rewire the brain.  One  significant method is to read the Bible out LOUD.
Hegstrom, Paul            Sid Roth's Messianic Vision Webcast  4/16-22/2007 
Watch    Real Player    Windows Media Player               Download  Real Player    Windows Media
Hegstrom, Paul    www.lifeskillsintl.org                         TV Special Offers   including 
DVD Set - The Brain - a 2-disc set with research on how the brain reacts to trauma
CD Set - Guilt and Shame - Telling the difference: tools to help us respond to God
CD Set - Rejection - Teaching on the most damaging of emotional wounds.
DVD Series - The New You, God's Way TV show.  13-disc set of the first 13 episodes.

Hinson, Michael - To Heal the Heart  -  www.hinsonministries.com
Subtitle = Live Life to the Fullest                                                     www.tohealtheheart.com
Throughout the book Hinson uses a technique of looking for the entry door/root cause of a problem. 
He tends to ask, "What at was happening in your life when this problem started?"  Hinson calls many of these roots, strongholds, and seldom considers them to be demons. Rather he tends to classify roots as sin/choices that contradict God's will/mind/heart.  For instance, he classifies one frequent root cause of anorexia and/or bulimia as rebellion.  He classifies "consequences of attitude/actions as symptoms" of rebellion.  He bases his anorexia/bulimia theory on Psalm 107:17-18 NIV  Some become fools through their rebellious ways and suffered affliction because of their iniquities.  They loathed all food and drew near the gates of death.
The ideas contrary to God's ideas/spoken words under duress/vows may trigger a problem/disease.  Once we discover a lie, a belief that contradicts God, then we can verbally renounce, repent of, and reject it. 
If we become ill after participating in any of the forbidden acts listed in Deuteronomy, then we may have a clue to the root issue of our problem.  If we look closely, scripture frequently spells out what common consequence will result from what violation, as is illustrated in Psalm 107 above.  Thus, scripture is a superior medical diagnostic tool.
Finally, if in fact, the root problem is demonic (oppression/possession) then the individual will need to insist, "In the name of Jesus Christ, I command any unclean thing to leave me now and never return!" 
Better still, say it 3x. (#2) In the name of the Holy Spirit," I command any unclean thing to leave me now and never return!"   
(#3) In the name of the Father," I command any unclean thing to leave me now and never return!"  Amen.  Thank You.

Hunt, June    How to Handle Your Emotions - Anger, Depression, Fear, Grief, Rejection, Self-Worth 
We recommend this book.  Chapter REJECTION - Healing a Wounded Heart -
[Remember, rebellion and/or rejection are 2 (evil spirits and/or) medical causes of psychiatric illnesses such as schizophrenia! www.thechildrensbread.net ]
Psalm 34:18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.  Matthew 21:42 The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone.  Jeremiah 8:9 The wise will  be put to shame; they will be dismayed and trapped.  Since they have rejected the word of the Lord.  Psalm 94:14 The Lord will not reject His people; He will never forsake His inheritance.  Romans 8:1 There is now NO condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.  Deuteronomy 31:8 The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.  Do NOT be afraid; do NOT be discouraged. Psalm 66:20  Praise be to God, Who has not rejected my prayer nor withheld His love from me.
Overt Causes of Feeling Rejected can be abandonment, adoption, cast away, childhood sexual abuse, disapproval, divorce, domestic/gang/genocide/terrorism/wartime violence, excessive punishment, favoritism, greed, hostility, humiliation, indifference, infidelity, jilted, prejudice, rape/incest, and/or verbal abuse.  Covert Causes of Feeling Rejected can be the absence of nurturing, abuse/neglect due to addictions/death/critical illness, broken promises, comparison, cliques/bullying, critical spirit, discounted discrimination, handicaps, lack of support, loss of a pet, over-controlling, overindulgence, performance based acceptance, sarcasm, and/or silent treatment. 
WRITE IT DOWN.  Write down every remembrance of rejection, especially any FIRST rejection occurrence/trauma/hurt.  Write down the resulting emotion/feeling.  Speak, "I will NOT let the pain of my past control my present or my future."  "Release each painful rejection to the Lord, saying, 'Lord Jesus, I release this pain and my fear of future pain into Your hands.  Thank You that You will never reject me.'"   If this hurt is a secret, then you may need to share this with one individual (of the same sex) you can trust, so Jesus inside human flesh can begin to walk with you in this area of emotional healing.
If one mentally rehearses negative thoughts (self talk), they can lead to negative feelings; negative feelings repeated/rehearsed can lead to negative vows, which can sabotage one's character/personality.
(Be aware that demons continually SPEAK, "Satan, Satan, may your will  be done on earth as it is done in hell; where as Jesus told us to pray (SPEAK) continually, "Our Father Who art in Heaven...May Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven."  Remember.  God's method of doing things is by SPEAKING.  He spoke the earth, plus you and me into existence.  That is a spiritual law.  So speak/think correctly. 
Secondly, be reminded that what we speak/think is drawn/woven onto our brains.  All negativity sabotages our brains. Our brains can be rewired, but it does take time, per Dr. Caroline Leaf Who Switched Off My Brain?  http://www.lifetoday.org)
Repent for any sin, your contribution to any situation.  At the very least is the buying into of Satan's lie that you are nobody, nothing, valueless, manure, rejected, especially by God.  Repent.  Ask God to forgive you.  Ask Jesus to come/come back into your heart; ask Jesus to baptize you with His Holy Spirit.  ACCEPT God's forgiveness provided by Jesus His Son.  Forgive yourself.  Forgive the offense/offender, not because he/she deserves it, but because Jesus in You demands that and makes that possible.  Never rely on feelings, but only on the Word of God.
Next comes the brain-washing/reprogramming of your mind/heart/emotions/feelings!  Get a Bible and a concordance.  Find, speak, and memorize scripture that contradicts the wrong tapes you have continually played in your brain.  Over time your brain will be reformatted with God's thoughts/mind.  Focus on God's positive Truths, not on negative facts/feelings.

Hunt, June    How to Forgive When You Don't Feel Like It    www.hopefortheheart.org
Hunt, June    Counseling through Your Bible Handbook        www.hopefortheheart.org

Hunter, Joan - Healed at the Root - Joan Hunter - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2433009/
Hunter, Joan - False Responsibility - Joan Hunter - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2433044/
Hunter, Joan - Joan Hunter - The Heart of the Matter - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2687106/
Hunter, Joan - Joan Hunter - The Heart of the Matter - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2687133/
Hunter, Joan - Joan Hunter - Health and Healing - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2749150/
Hunter, Joan - Interview with Joan Hunter - Part 1 - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2338490/
Hunter, Joan - Interview with Joan Hunter - Part 2 - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2338553/
Hunter, Joan - Joan Hunter - Part 3 - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2911177/
Hunter, Joan - Joan Hunter - Part 4 - http://twmas.blip.tv/file/2911200/
Interviews with Marilyn and Sarah Hickey, esp. regarding trauma.

Jones, Doug            Mastering The Silence (of your thought life)            www.dougjones.siteblast.com 
Jones, Doug            Positioning Yourself to Receive Healing                  www.dougjones.siteblast.com 
Jones, Doug            Understanding the Healing Power of God                www.dougjones.siteblast.com  

Kendall, RT                         Does Jesus Care?                      www.rtkendallministries.com
Do you feel abandoned?
Kendall, RT                         God Meant It For Good             www.rtkendallministries.com
Does does NOT intend for us to vindicate ourselves.  That is HIS work.
Kendall, RT                         Thorn in the Flesh                     www.rtkendallministreis.com
What the enemy intends for evil, God will use for good.
Kendall, RT                         Pure Joy                                   www.rtkendallministreis.com
Book shares ways to break the betrayal barrier.  One can dignify our trials and count them all joy.

Kraft, Charles H   Deep Wounds, Deep Healing   ckraft@fuller.edu   www.fuller.edu/provost/faculty
Subtitle = Discovering the Vital Link Between Spiritual Warfare and Inner Healing
Kraft, Charles H                        Defeating Dark Angels                                 www.regalbooks.com
Subtitle = Breaking Demonic Oppression in the Believer's Life   
Kraft says that for him, the healing of memories is more important than deliverance of demons.  Healing/eliminating the emotional garbage that demons feed on weakens any existing demons, makes it easier to evict demons, reduces the likelihood that demons will move back in, and reduces the subsequent work needed for healing of memories/emotions/wounds/trauma.
Kraft cites popular groupings of emotions with demons by the same name, which attach themselves to our unresolved smoldering emotions/traumas/hurts.  Demons have a hierarchy.  Each highlighted demon listed below may be a boss of each group relating to emotions, per Kraft.
(Demons are assigned same name as emotion to which they, like a parasite, attach themselves.)
Adultery, seduction
Blasphemy, cursing, mockery
Competition, insecurity, pride
Confusion, frustration, forgetfulness
Criticism, condemnation, judgmentalism, faultfinding
Darkness, deceit, lying.
Death,  suicide, murder.
Depression, anger, defeat
Doubt, unbelief, skepticism
Guilt, shame, embarrassment, sensitivity
Hate, revenge, murder
Infirmity, sickness
Nervousness
Rape, violence
Rebellion, stubbornness
Rejection, self-rejection, inadequacy, unworthiness, perfection
Sensitivity, fear, terror, torment
Unforgiveness, anger,  bitterness, resentment
Worry, anxiety

Krementz, Jill                           How It Feels to Fight for Your Life
Illnesses covered include cancer, epilepsy, spina bifida, diabetes, cystic fibrosis, and severe burns.
Krementz, Jill                           How It Feels when a Parent Dies
Krementz, Jill                           How It Feels to Be Adopted
Krementz, Jill                           How It Feels When Parents Divorce
Each book is a compilation of interviews with children.  Includes photo of each child.

Lozano, Neal - The Older Brothers Returns                         www.heartofthefather.com 
Most of us really want to be strong enough to NOT need Jesus or God anymore, to be self sufficient.  That thought is really a lie from our enemy Satan.  It will be the downfall of most; the Achilles' heel.  It is in His strength that we are enabled to defeat the enemy fear, terror, self-condemnation, inferiority, rejection, etc.  Book is excellent, especially for any religious community.
Lozano, Neal - Unbound - www.heartofthefather.com 
Subtitle = A Practical Guide To Deliverance From Evil Spirits
The Lozano's concentrate on uprooting lies of Satan, rather than deliverance or evil spirits.  The subtitle is a misnomer, for they disavow traditional deliverance.  Regardless, their methods work profoundly well with those with emotional traumas. Recommended reading for Catholics.
Lozano, Neal - Resisting the Devil - a Catholic Perspective on Deliverance - www.heartofthefather.com
Lorenzo contends, "that the 1st line of (demonic) attack is usually on the emotions.  We are wounded and hurt by someone.  Then the mind is open to the lie...We expose them (the lies projected into our minds by evil spirits) to the light of God, naming the lies and renouncing them aloud...A word spoken aloud releases what it represents." 

MacNutt, Francis                      Deliverance from Evil Spirits                      www.christianhealingmin.org
Chapter 7 Falling Under a Curse shares the testimony of a woman whose anger root problem was an English black mass 100's of years ago when her family was consecrated to Satan.  This is revealed by spiritual discernment; prayer rooted out the problem.
Chapter 12 How the Demonized Person Prepares for Deliverance discusses how our emotions attach to our unforgiven/unhealded wounds, attracting files (demons) to our compost/manure pile (rotting/smoldering/infected feelings/ thoughts/memories).  We need to identify why/when/where the problem started.  This will help to identify and evict the troubling spirits.  Who is to blame.  Not the patient.  Not the other person.  The evil spirit is the real opportunist and the real villain/enemy!  Take war.  The true enemy is neither side, for both can also be victims.  The true enemy is hate, unforgiveness, etc.  Evil spirits like a leech can latch onto negative circumstances/emotions and try to take over at the expense of the host!
Chapter 14 Freeing a Person from Spirits of Trauma discusses praying for your unborn child, for inner healing of emotions and for healing of a wounded spirit as opposed to the need to repent for one's own personal sin.  Section How to Pray for Freedom from a Spirit of Trauma lists 4 prayer steps - protection, binding, extending forgiveness, inner healing (which consists of Jesus' removing all poison in the specific memory which is negatively influencing the individual).  This is a ministry to the wounded soul (will/emotions/mind/memories) and not to an evil spirit, at least, not yet until the hurt is remedied.
MacNutt, Francis and Judith       Praying for Your Unborn Child                  www.christianhealingmin.org
A fetus can recognize if he is wanted.  If not, a spirit of rejection can hook in.
Infant baptism can fill a child with the Holy Spirit (as perhaps John the Baptist was in the womb), but also to provide protection from the evil one.  The Roman Catholic church's infant baptism includes the rite of exorcism, just in case the infant has picked up demonic influences from others, recognizing that an innocent person can be invaded by an evil spirit.

Marchiano, Bruce                     Jesus Wept                                             www.howardpublishing.com
Subtitle - How Wide and Long and Deep Is the Love of Christ.  This Love   that Surpasses Knowledge.

Meyer, Joyce                             Approval Addiction                                   www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce                             Beauty For Ashes                                     www.joycemeyer.org
Subtitle = Receiving Emotional Healing   "Isaiah 61 reveals that the Lord came to heal the brokenhearted...victims of abuse and emotional wounding."
Meyer, Joyce                             Battlefield of the Mind for adults                www.joycemeyer.org
Subtitle = Winning the Battle in Your Mind
Meyer, Joyce                             Battlefield of the Mind for Kids                  www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce                             Battlefield of the Mind for Teens                www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce    Beauty for Ashes editorial  in 7/05 Enjoying Everyday Life        www.joycemeyer.org
Allow the Holy Spirit to reveal to you (at the right time) each root problem.
Also available cassette and CD audio series.
Meyer, Joyce                             Emotional Healing kit                                  www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce                             In Pursuit of Peace                                     www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce                             Managing Your Emotions                            www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce                             Straight Talk                                              www.joycemeyer.org
Help to combat 7 emotions: depression, discouragement, fear, insecurity, loneliness, stress, worry
Meyer, Joyce                            Victory over Depression "kit"                       www.joycemeyer.org

Minirth, Frank; Meier, Paul; Meier, Richard & Hawkins, Don    The Healthy Christian Life
Subtitle = The Minirth-Meier Clinic Bible Study Guide    Includes some workbook pages.
Chapter 8 Scripture Meditation and Memorization notes that daily/lifelong Scripture meditation and meditation may indicate/contribute to/maintain sound mental health/maturity.

Mullen, Dr Grant - Emotionally Free                                    www.drgrantmullen.com

Oats, Kathi with Lamb, Robert Paul  Open My Heart, Lord - Healing for the Broken Hearted book + CD
www.garyoates.com Appendix A & C section Alters as defined in (conventional psychiatric diagnosis) DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder or Multiple Personality Disorder) If a person is unable to come up with a solution for coping or if pain is too traumatic, God provides the ability to mentally disconnect/dissociate/forget until such time that we can work in conjunction with the Holy Spirit to recall and heal.  This isolated memory/trauma is inaccessible to the conscious memory and often is referred to as "a little one, authentic child, or inner child" and is considered to be "a fragmented sliver, or part of the person's soul.  The wounded child is the actual child who went through the original traumatic event...and will remain at the (emotional) age of the traumatic event...
The wounded child is held captive" outside the memory in a system of alters.  "Alters are fragmentations of the subconscious inner mind" keeping "the memory from the conscious outer mind...Alters are commonly called multiple (or alternative) personalities."
"We cannot" obey Matthew 22:36-40 and "love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind as long as there are fragments of our inner being that continue to be held in captivity."
There can be healthy or unhealthy walls that separate the broken fragments from the rest of the mind.
One method of ministering has the patient/client repeat something like this.  "I've come with Jesus today to rescue you (wounded inner child) (name of person at time of trauma) from this painful existence (in this locked prison).  I don't want to live with a divided heart and I need you to be with me in a (safe) place where you can be free from all the past pain, hurt, fear, and trauma, where you will be free to be whole, healthy and happy, free to grow with Jesus."
(Note, many consider "alters" to be demons or demonic in nature.  Nonetheless, many are coming into agreement that pieces of the mind/soul can become fragmented and taken into captivity by trauma and/or Satan and thus need to be rescued by self, others, therapy, and/or God.)

Paretti, Frank                            The Wounded Spirit   
Christian novelist, Paretti has dealt with years of battling the illness cystic hygroma.   

Pert, Candace B, PhD                  Molecules of Emotion                  publisher     www.simonsays.com
Pert is a neuroscientist in Washington DC

Prince, Derek    Derek Prince on Experiencing God's Power  (includes 9 books)  www.derekprince.org
1 - The Holy Spirit and You
2 - God's Medicine Bottle  Speaking Scripture aloud with each meal is medicine to mind, body, and spirit.
3 - God's Remedy for Rejection "Recognize the nature of your problem and call it by its right name - rejection."
"Forgiveness is NOT an emotion; it is a decision."  Decide "to get rid of the bad fruit that rejection has produced...bitterness, resentment, hatred, and rebellion...are poison...Receive and believe what God has already done for you.  [God] has made us accepted in the Beloved. Ephesians 1:6 NKJV...Never criticize yourself...Praise God out loud...Thanking God sets the seal on your release."
4 - The Marriage Covenant
5 - God's Plan for Your Money
6 - Does Your Tongue Need Healing?  God creates with His mouth and we are His mouthpiece.
7 - How to Fast Successfully
8 - Shaping History through Prayer and Fasting
9 - Spiritual Warfare

Robertson, Dave - The Walk of the Spirit - The Walk of Power  http://www.daveroberson.org/
[PDF] The Walk of the Spirit — The Walk of Power   www.daveroberson.org/Portals/0/WOSWOP.pdf   
Printer Friendly Version    Book is for personal NOT commercial use.  Is copyrighted.        
6/12-16/2006 radio broadcast - www.sidroth.org
Dave Robertson Ministries, Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA 
Chapter 1 The Holy Spirit's Work Within tells us that God predestined each human's purpose in life and purpose in heaven.  We choose whether we want to discover and accept His plans for us. 
Dave shares that praying in tongues is not only a key to mental health, but is, in fact, a master key! Praying often in tongues allows our private tutor the Holy Spirit to minister to our human spirit, to remove our old nature, to remove the enemy's nature, and to impart His nature into us. 
(Actually what a wonderful thing to do in a mental hospital.  Any patient can cry or sing  aloud in holy tongues
and accomplish more healing in one week than the doctors can accomplish in one year.  Praying in tongues is not like medication to be taken once a day/week/month.  Rather it is like air to be consumed continually, as often as a cup of coffee, a trip to the bathroom, a ride in the car/elevator, a walk down the hall or in the park - anywhere you can be alone with God.  The apostle Paul said he would be a fool for Christ.  The apostle Luke was a physician, but his superior was Doctor Jesus.)
Chapter 7 Praying Out the Mysteries of God's Plan encourages us to pray, "Take over, Holy Ghost (Spirit).  My soul (thoughts/emotions/mind) has been sabotaging me lately, but I don't mind spending a day (time) with You (praying in tongues)."  As we in determination, disregarding our negative feelings/thoughts, implement our daily practice of praying out loud (or under our breath) in tongues unknown to us, "the voice of the Holy Spirit" will become "louder than the" voice of "the enemy".  In fact, by praying in tongues, we terrorize the terrorizer; this is the beginning of the end for our enemy/disease/infirmity!  If attacks come against us now, we know we have the enemy on the run. 1st John 4:4 Greater is He Who is in you than he who is in the world.
Chapter 12 Purged to Stand in the Gap gives us a heads up on the roadblocks Satan will use to derail us from praying in tongues.  Praying in tongues allows the Holy Spirit to spotlight character flaws that interfere with our maturity in God.  Like cream in milk, these personality issues will from time to time arise, as the Holy Spirit exposes them, as we are able to deal with them with God's help.  When they come to our attention, we must immediately repent and place them under the blood of Christ.  Later when the enemy comes back to accuse us we can retort that they/it is forgiven and under Christ's blood, nailed to His cross. Remember.  Never, never, never omit praying in tongues.

Rushness, Squire                                When God Winks at Love     Read Excerpts   http://www.whengodwinks.com/ 
Especially for those who are divorced.

Sanford, Agnes                         The Healing Gifts of the Spirit                          Harper & Row

Sanford, John & Paula               Healing the Wounded Spirit                              Victory House

Seamands                                Healing for Damaged Emotions
Seamands                                Healing of Memories                                        Victor Books

Shlemon, Barbara                     Healing the Hidden Self                                Ave Maria Press

Shields, Brooke                          Down Came the Rain                                          www.amazon.com
Subtitle = My Journey Through Postpartum Depression    secular autobiography

Swindoll, Charles R                    Dropping Your Guard     workbook   
Insight for Living Ministries, Fullerton, California, USA - Reformation theology

Tapscott, Betty                          Healing through Healing of Memories    Hunter Books

Walls, Jeanette                            The Glass Castle  http://www.allreaders.com/Topics/Info_32472.asp
Secular autobiography recommended by Ophra Winphrey.   Tale of rags to riches.

Walters, Kathie                           Health Related Mindsets              www.goodnews.netministries.org/kathie  Booklet shares many potential mindsets that may trigger diseases plus some unique demonic spirits that may be root causes. "We have believed may lies which the Devil has thrown our way."
"Heartache can also be caused by a spirit that 'sits' on someone and keeps them from receiving healing.  Grief, anger, jealousy, control etc., can all be caused by spirits (of the same name).  So to pray for someone to be healed is NOT enough; you have to get rid of the demonic spirit."
Walters, Kathie                         The Spirit of False Judgment        http://www.goodnews.netministries.org
Chapter 12 The Button  "As regards personal hurts and wounds, we individually have a responsibility to get healed...
In my experience, healing is linked to forgiveness.  We have to forgive and then healing will come.  Forgiveness is NOT a feeling, its an act we make by faith.  Don't afterwards let the devil tempt you to receive those negative feelings of unforgiveness back again...Take authority over them (negative feelings) in the name of Jesus, and command them to leave."
"'Diseases' in our hearts, resentment, unforgiveness, anger, bitterness, etc. quench the abiding presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives...If we are not moving in the (Holy) Spirit, he (Satan) is not a bit afraid of us."  Rather Satan's goal is for us to be afraid/out of sorts/discontent/a hindrance to the workings of the Holy Spirit/deaf to the voice of God.

White, Joe                                  Over the Edge and Back
Subtitle = True Stories of 40 Teens Who Became Winners in Life's Toughest Battles - Questar Publishers

Wommack, Andrew - Harnessing Your Emotions - www.awmi.net
Chapter 4 The 2 Fold Failure of Psychology - "Psychology...as (well as) Christianity...tries to change people's emotions and action by changing the way they think...Psychology may diagnose the situation (symptoms) properly...(However) psychology actually leads people away from dependence upon God and into (doctor/drug/and) self-dependence...God did NOT intend for man to operate independently of Him and His supernatural ability."  A high "percent of all emotional problems are guilt-driven."  (Replacing the Rabbi, the Catholic priest in the confessional, the sacraments of communion, and Jesus Christ our forgiver, intercessor and Savior) the psychologist often: tries "to absolve the patient of guilt" or tries to transfer the blame onto another individual or situation (the way the goat took one's sins away in the Old Testament).
John 15:5  Jesus said, 'Without Me ye can do NO thing.' that is good or pleasing to God.
Chapter 5 A New Person - "If we can take a pill to numb ourselves and get rid of our depression and discouragement, something's wrong.  We either need to get our bodies healed or our thinking straight."
Conclusion - The bottom line according to Wommack is for us to repent to God for our (venial and mortal) sins and ask His son Jesus to be our Savior (plus to ask Jesus to baptize us with His Holy Spirit, Who once He is inside of us, can begin to mend us head to toe).

Wright, Henry - A More Excellent Way  - www.pleasantvalleychurch.net

                                                                   Articles - Periodicals

Care Notes               Learning to Cope in These Anxious Times               www.carenotes.com
Patrice J Tuohy gives Symptoms of Inner Peace
Spontaneity, ability to enjoy each moment, less tendency to interpret/judge others/self, less reverting to conflict/worry, frequent episodes of joy/appreciation/smiling/love, less controlling.

Editorial by Mitch Albom The painful secret that millions hide: I Cannot Read www.parade.com
Jacques Demers won the Stanley cup in 1993, but still held a secret, that he could not read.  His autobiography in French is in Mario Leclerc's Jacques Demers en Toutes Lettres Jacques both experienced and witnessed family violence which contributed to his inability to read. He daily attempts to learn 5 new words a day and is making good progress towards his goal of reading his recent autobiography. 2/12/06  

Ferrell, Ana Mendez and Emerson www.voiceofthelight.com 9/2010 Ministry Letter book excerpt Immersed in Him "Desire is the most addictive emotion in our bodies...Images or imaginations are chemical sensations stored in the mind's frontal lobe." Important editorial on internet 10/2010 recommended read

PRINCE HANDLEY - http://www.injesus.com/message-archives/prophetic/realmiracles/healing-of-emotional-wounds

Matthias, Art    Anchorage, Alaska    http://www.akwellspring.com/emotional_healing.html    

Fiction

Rivers, Francine    Redeeming Love     (allegory of Christ)     www.francinerivers.com
Abused woman is loved back to self worth.

                                                          Audio Visual Resources

Allen, Sharon     has editorial in Sid Roth's book  They Thought for Themselves               http://www.sidroth.org/radio.htm
She is on  6/19-23/2006 radio broadcast.  Tuesday's 6/20/2006 broadcast shares that the original Hebrew meaning of the English translation of the word PEACE is psychological wholeness. Listen (Real Player) Tue or (Media Player) Tue  Download (mp3 file)  Tue

Carothers, Merlin                   How Not to be Irritated     cassette/CD    www.foundtionofpraise.org

DeGrandis-Sudol, Dorothea    Opening to Inner Healing   cassette              www.catholicfocus.com 

DeSilva, Dawna + Liebscher, Teresa     Sozo Ministry          4 CD's (intimacy+deliverance)                   www.ibethel.org
DeSilva, Dawna + Liebscher, Teresa     Sozo Ministry          8/2005 radio broadcast audio                     www.sidroth.org
The women  believe that there is a "spirit of isolationism".   If it is operating in our lives, it is interfering with our calling, given to us since the day of conception.  For instance, if God's 1st choice for us was to be a pastor/teacher/friend, then a spirit of isolation would interfere with that calling.
They believe that for every emotional wound there is a lie of Satan that contradicts scripture.  They look for the wound and then identify the lie.  They expose the lie and replace it with God's truth.  Then the captive is freed.  Their Healing of Memories ministry is actually a healing of perception ministry, the same way a pair of new glasses fixes the vision problem.  People begin to view circumstances from God's viewpoint rather than from Satan's viewpoint or from a child's viewpoint.
There is safety and guidance in reading/knowing personally the Bible from Genesis to Revelation.  It is imperative that we do NOT change what scripture says based on our experience.  Truth is ALWAYS based on scripture and NOT on experience.  Experience can lie.  Feelings can lie.  Perception can lie.  Scripture never lies.

Dickow, Gregory                         Mastering Your Emotions   audio tape    www.changinglives.org

Ferrell, Emerson & Ana Mendez  Experiences in Heaven   2 CD set     www.voiceofthelight.com
Ana shares with us that God's heart is like a temple with an inner court and outer courts.  There are places of varying degrees of woundings as well as a place of healing.  Betrayal and separation between mates/siblings/relatives is especially hurtful, and in essence hurts God more than it hurts us.  We need to confess both to Him and to others.  We need to reconcile both to Him and to others.  He NEEDS us to reconcile.  This is a requirement of love.  (This CD does not address rape/butchery/murder/and the like, but forgiveness, even without reconciliation, is a must.  Forgiveness    Offenses)

Hampsch, Father John H              Healing of Memories    video    www.claretiantapeministry.org 

Harfouche, Robin                        Healing of the Female Spirit          www.globalrevival.com
Presentation works well as a daily devotional.  Ministry to rape victims.  IMI ministry offers spiritual empowerment in-residence training, correspondence course or online program from Pensacola, Florida, USA.

Hegstrom, Paul http://www.familyskillscenter.com/index.html  The Brain 2 DVDs
Dopamine, seratonin, and norepinephrine chemicals begin to be released around puberty (age 13), enabling children to begin to become autonomous and mature.  Trauma (especially in childhood) can fixate/freeze/stop/slow/retard/arrest/lock-up emotional development, resulting in the need for one to create a dual personality [pretend (people pleasing) and real.  Hegstrom says this phenomena is not multiple personality where/when one may not be aware of the manifestation of various alters.]  
Rejection and physical, emotional or sexual abuse are major traumatizers.  Before 13 a child may assume false guilt/responsibility for another's violation/sin against him/her.  Children may be unable to discern the difference between feelings and fact and typically act on feelings.

Hinn, Benny                                Breaking Free   audio tape/CD                   www.bennyhinn.org
Benny Hinn teaches that there are 3 (a trinity of) healings/deliverances
(1) body - from disease.
(2) soul (mind encasing our spirit) - from emotional wounds.
(3) spirit - from sin. (Salvation)
Isaiah 53:5 (KJV)   
He (His body) was wounded for our transgressions.
He (His soul) was bruised for our iniquities. 
The chastisement of our peace was upon Him and with His stripes we (body & soul) ARE healed.
Also 3 soul deliverances
(1) inner healing of memories
(2) deliverance of bruised, hurting, grieving, sorrowful soul
(3) elimination of generational curses

Jakes, Bishop T - He-motions    Audio, CD, VHS, DVD - www.thepotterstouch.org - www.tdjakes.org
(Healing men's emotions)                                                                                                                                               
Jakes, Bishop T - I'm Better Than This  series - www.thepotterstouch.org
Including  Living Through Dying Places    He (Satan) did not bury me.  Rather, he planted me. 
Scripture says that Satan meant it for evil, but God meant it for good!

Leaf, Dr. Caroline - Who Switched Off My Brain?  - http://www.lifetoday.org
Secular text.  Many illnesses plaguing us today may result from our thought life! What we think about affects us physically and emotionally.

Lozano, Neal and Janet - Freedom in Christ Conference - www.heartofthefather.com
6 CD instructional program on identifying the root lie of Satan and thus eliminating the root problem.
1- The Truth Will Set You Free + autobiography
2 - Closing the Door to the Influence of Evil Spirits
3 - The Power of Forgiveness
4 - Helping a Friend + testimonies
5 - The Father's Blessing + testimony
6 - Renewing Your Mind workshop by Ann Stevens                                               
Lozano, Neal - Overcoming Obstacles to Healing and Deliverance    Heart of the Father Ministries
2 CD's of Lozano's Freedom Conference given at a Catholic Charismatic Conference
[The Lozano ministry technique is a gentle, kind, plus short (goes quickly to the root  problem).  Is excellent for those with emotional issues.  Is NOT currently (2005) for those with a "label", such as mental illness, as the Lozano's leave that ministry to the "professionals".]

MacNutt, Judith                     Love and Healing                 audio               www.christianhealingmin.org
MacNutt, Francis & Judith      Inner Healing (5 speakers)    audio               www.christianhealingmin.org

Meyer, Joyce                         Attitudes of the Mind                                  audio  www.joycemeyer.org  
Meyer, Joyce                         Believer's Number One Enemy is Emotions  audio  www.joycemeyer.org
Meyer, Joyce                         It's Time to Grow Up                     video or audio  www.joycemeyer.org
Growing old does NOT  guarantee our growing up.
Meyer, Joyce                         Mind, Mouth, Moods, and Attitudes             audio  www.joycemeyer.org  
Meyer, Joyce                         The Fear That I'm Not Pleasing God                          www.joycemeyer.org
9/2005 TV broadcast regarding being addicted to guilt and carrying an invisible burden of guilt
Some of us do not feel right if we do not feel wrong! 
Meyer, Joyce                         Pressing into a New Beginning                    audio  www.joycemeyer.org 

Miller, John                            Communion                                              audio      www.sidroth.org
Miller is a chiropractor in Tampa, Florida. 
He shares that God may heal instantly or gradually through daily communion. 4/05 

Morrison, Randy  - Dealing with a Victim Mentality      audio    www.stwc.com/
Randy Morrison - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
A victim mentality keeps you paralyzed with negativity, distorted perceptions, a feeling that God isn’t interested in you, development of clingy or bad relationships, negative labels for yourself, and a need for affirmation from others in order to feel good about yourself.   We begin to be free from this mindset, when we no longer think/react as a victim, and when we see ourselves through God’s eyes.

Oats, Kathi   Healing the Broken Hearted  2CDs &/or 9/2005 radio broadcast   www.sidroth.org/radio
Kathi implies that part of the personality (human spirit/heart/soul) can break off, when the heart is wounded (broken/chipped).  Not only that, Satan has a legal right to any person due to trauma (known or unrecognized, such as conception out of wedlock), until such time that the wound is covered with the blood of Christ.  That means that the Holy Spirit has to intervene on our behalf with insight, mercy, supernatural revelation, power, healing, and deliverance.  When self image is affected, it seems to create disease, which often disappears when healing of the heart occurs. Her ADD disappeared when her emotions were healed.

Pennington, Mary and Don    6 Big, Big, Big Angels    http://www.6bigangels.com/bigbigangelslinks.html
book #DB6BB and/or 5/22-26/2006 radio broadcast #1488  www.sidroth.org/radio   www.6bigangels.com
Grandmother relates stories of 4 year old granddaughter Victoria due to a pool accident and subsequent visitations to heaven.  One particular heavenly visit was to the nursery of aborted babies where she met her aborted uncle.  Book shares that each miscarriage/aborted fetus is transported to heaven by angels.  Each has a soul at conception.  Each knows, loves, and forgives mother and father.

Roberson, Dave                   The Walk of the Spirit - The Walk of Power  www.daveroberson.org
Subtitle = The Vital Role of Praying in Tongues
Chapter 11 Overcoming Impasses in Prayer encourages us in that the moment we begin to pray in tongues is the moment the enemy begins to lose control; we become unmanageable to the enemy.

Prince, Derek  God's Remedy for Rejection   www.derekprince.org 
Chapter 2 The Causes of Rejection  "Every negative emotion, reaction, and attitude has associated with it a corresponding spirit...This does NOT mean that every person who experiences fear, for instance, has a spirit of fear.   However, a person who fails to exercise self-control and habitually or unrestrainedly gives in to fear will probably open the way for a spirit of fear to enter.  After that, the person is no longer in full control."  If one's emotional behavior "is vicious and unreasonable" to the point of being out of control, then "this is a spirit" manifesting.
Chapter 4 The Results of Rejection  Unrestrained negative emotions tend to spiral dangerously downward.
"Rejection - loneliness - self-pity - misery - depression - despair or hopelessness - death or suicide."  Saying, "'I'd be better off dead,' or 'What's the use of living'...is a very dangerous way to speak.  It is an invitation to the spirit of death to enter...It may well be that you are not just struggling with your own negative attitudes.  A demonic influence may be at work, exploiting  those attitudes."
Chapter 5 The Ultimate Rejection  "For some, the simple declaration (out loud) of acceptance in Christ and the fatherhood of God resolves the problem of  rejection."
Chapter 6 How to Apply the Remedy  "Jesus prayed...'Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing' (Luke 23:34)...Why do I need to forgive...?  Whether he is dead or alive is NOT important.  It is for your sake that you are forgiving, not for the other person...The failure to forgive is one of the most common barriers to God's blessing...Forgiveness is NOT an emotion; it is a decision."
"Accept yourself.  Sometimes this is the hardest step of all.  I tell Christians, 'Never belittle yourself.  Never criticize yourself.  You did not make yourself.  God made you'...You can no longer evaluate yourself on the basis of the way you lived before...As you repeatedly declare who you are in Christ according to God's Word, you will begin to override the old negative self-talk and learn to accept yourself."
"It is time now for you to claim your release and pray a prayer that will set the seal...
'Lord Jesus Christ, I believe that You are the Son of God and the only way to God. 
You died on the cross for my sins, and You rose again from the dead. 
I repent of all my sins, and I forgive every other person as I would have God forgive me. 
I forgive all those who have rejected me, hurt me and failed to show me love, Lord, and I trust You to forgive  me. 
I believe, Lord, that You do accept me...
Now Lord, I proclaim my release from any dark, evil spirit that has taken advantage of the wounds in my life. 
I release my spirit to rejoice in You.  In Your precious name, Amen.'"
(Ignore any and all negative feelings/manifestations that the enemy may exhibit.)
Thanking God (out loud) sets the seal on your release."
Prince, Derek  Derek Prince on Experiencing God's Power   www.derekprince.org 
Chapter 3 God's Remedy for Rejection  Emotions can descend down like dominoes in the following sequence, if there is no Godly intervention: rejection to loneliness to self-pity to misery to depression to despair or hopelessness to suicide or death.  Suggested prayer to speak aloud, "Father God, I thank You that You love me; that You gave Jesus, Your son, to die on my behalf; that He bore my sin; that He took my rejection; that He paid my penalty.  Because I come to You through Him, I am NOT rejected; I am not unwanted: I am not excluded.  You really love me.  I am really Your child.  You are really my Father.  I belong in Your family.  I belong to the best family in the universe.  Heaven is my home.  I really belong.  Oh, God, thank You.  Thank You."  In Jesus name I pray.  Amen.

Rutland, Mark - Dealing With Life's Issues - Dealing With Rejection (mp3) - https://store.globalservants.org

Sanford, Doris                      I Can't Talk About It
Children's book and cassette about incest.
Heart to Heart, 2105 SE Adams, Milwaukie, Oregon 97222

Wright, Henry                      11/2005 Sid Roth radio broadcast discussion on female bitterness     www.pleasantvalleychurch.net

Prayers

Father John Hampsch's bedtime prayer
 www.claretiantapeministry.org 

Jesus, through the power of the Holy Spirit, go back into my memory as I sleep. 
Every hurt that has ever been done to me, heal that hurt.  Every hurt that I have ever caused to another person, heal that hurt.  All relationships that have been damaged in my whole life, that I'm not aware of, heal...
Lord, if there is anything that I need to do, if I need to go to a person (to make amends), because he is still suffering from my hand, bring to my awareness that person.
I choose to forgive; I ask to be forgiven.  Remove whatever bitterness may be in my heart Lord, and fill the empty spaces with Your love. 
Thank You, Jesus.  Amen

When praying in the name of Jesus, one can address/speak to the amygdala (neurons of limbic system in medial temporal brain lobes, believed to perform primary role in processing and memory of emotional reactions).

Internet

Balizet, Carol          Total Emotional Healing         http://www.homeinzion.com/healing.html   
Carol is heavily into home-birthing.   After reading her book, followers have witnessed deaths, seemingly due to their reliance on God rather than man.  Apparently, as with Christian Science, there is no room for medical science.  Carol practiced as an emergency nurse before entering her Zion ministry (Tampa, Florida, USA).  However, we know that medicine generally does not cure;  rather it fixes symptoms, in large part. Psychiatry and psychology is a good example of this.  God on the other hand exposes and eliminates root problems.

Bevere, John and Lisa http://www.messengerinternational.org/Display.asp?Page=toolsanddownloadsoverview
Bevere, John  http://www.extraordinaryonline.org/

Caine, Chris  of Australia    www.chriscaine.com     Healing Root Issues    Healing Root Issues

Cox, Paul L    Prayer for Rapid Inner Healing - of fetus   http://www.openheaven.com/forums/printer_friendly_posts.asp?TID=4063
http://www.openheaven.com/forums/forum_posts.asp?TID=4063   www.OpenHeaven.com  
Emotional/attitudinal rejection of fetus can affect one's (physical/emotional/mental/spiritual) health as an adult. 
(Prenatal ministry to adults is also an important focus of Francis and Judith MacNutt. www.christianhealingmin.org  )
In a safe ministry setting, pray the following -
"Lord I ask that you would bless the sperm and the egg as they are joined together.
I ask that you would bless the zygote and all the multiplication of cells through the first month.
I ask you Lord to remove all evil, all rejection and the roots of rejection...
I ask you Lord to bless through the second month...third month...forth month...fifth month...sixth month...seventh month...eighth month...eight month...
Lord I ask that you would carry me through age 2 and remove all evil.
Lord I ask that you would carry me through age 3 and remove all evil.
(Repeat this until you get to age 20.)
Lord I ask that you would carry me through my adult years...
Lord I ask you to remove the trauma off of me...
Cause everything coming off of me to go to Your feet to be sent where You want it to go.
Lord I ask that you would seal all that has been done here today.
Lord...blessing...me at this time." Thank You, in Jesus name I pray.  Amen.
Cox, Paul L         http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/Kellyque777/83611/
PRAYER of Release from Chronic Physical, Mental, and Spiritual Disorders
Lord, I repent and renounce, and I ask You to forgive me and my generational line for coming into agreement with gossip, slander, critical judgment, envy, strife, holding offenses, accusation, and jealousy.
Lord, I repent for myself and those in my generational line who came against You by lying, denying You, speaking accusations against You, conceiving and uttering falsehoods from the heart, speaking oppression and revolt, and entering into witchcraft.
Lord, I ask You to break the generational curse and agreement when accusations came into the generational line.
Lord, I break and renounce assignments and agreements with any lying spirit and the generational curse resulting from that.
I ask Your forgiveness Lord, and I repent on behalf of myself and my forefathers. I ask You to break the generational curse and loose a blessing. I choose to bring my spirit, soul, and body into agreement with the Spirit of Truth.
Lord, would You make null and void and cancel any reinforcement of curses and their assignments in their allotted time.
Lord, would you disconnect me from all ungodly heavenly places. Lord, will You now seat me in Your heavenly places.
Lord, I repent and ask forgiveness for operating in an independent spirit when I came into agreement with gossip, slander, accusation, and when I walked away from You and the Body of Christ, causing disunity and isolation in the Body of Christ.
Today, I choose-by Your mercy-to be reconciled and to be restored into the unity of Your Body.
Lord, I repent for coming into agreement with slander that has been spoken against me and receiving the offenses
and not blessing my enemy.
Lord, I ask that I not conceive trouble. Please destroy the viper and spider eggs that have been placed into me:
slander, hatred, self-rejection, and gossip. May no adders or spiders be allowed to come forth from this generation forward.
Lord, would You remove all cobwebs of false clothing and nesting places that may be covering my body. Lord, will you also remove the cobwebs of false identity from my body and soul, and remove all deception that clouds my perception of my true identity. And where my past generations and I have allowed the enemy to weave within me a web of false identity, coming into agreement with this illness as who I am, forgive me for gaining my identity from diseases and not from You. Release me, for You wove me in my mother’s womb, and I agree that I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Lord, give me Your revelation of my true identity in Christ, which I now receive.
Lord, would You completely restore my ability to receive all that I need from You, including healing, revelation, and restoration of my spirit, soul, and body.
Lord, I forgive the Body of Christ for reacting in judgment and rejection against those who are being wounded by witchcraft and curses that are being empowered and reinforced over time. Lord, forgive me for making bitter root judgments against those who have harmed me in any way. I forgive the Body of Christ for not accepting, understanding, and protecting me.
For those who have rejected me and in doing so have further empowered the curses already against me,
Lord, I choose to forgive them.
Lord, forgive me and my generational line for not having the strength to resist the enemy’s assault on my mind, day and night, and therefore, accepting the feeling of helplessness in stopping this demonic flow. Lord, would You renew my mind so that I can have Your mind, and know that I can take every thought captive to the Lord Jesus Christ. [Lord, would You renew my mind] to know that You are my sure defense, and that I am safe in the shelter of Your wings.
Lord, I ask You to raise up a standard, based upon Ephesians 4:31; remove all effects of bitterness, rage, anger, brawling, and slander, along with every form of malice. Lord, break off all generational curses, the reinforcement of curses in their allotted times in all heavenly places, and all spiritual, mental, and physical retribution.
Lord, please protect those who repent and turn from their generational sin, witchcraft, and idolatry.
Lord, would You realign me with Your purpose and heal the receptors of the cells that make up my being,
so my divine calling and destiny will be fulfilled.
I receive the promise that I am no longer a prey of the enemy. You are my shepherd. You feed me, and I receive Your covenant of peace that I may dwell safely. I choose to be a blessing around Your Holy hill and receive the showers of blessings You promise in season that there would be fruitfulness and increase in my life. I know that the bands of the yoke are broken, and I am delivered from the hands and words of those who have made me a prey. I know that I belong to You and that You are with me.
I embrace my restoration within the Body of Christ and the restoration of receptor sites of my own body.
Lord, thank You for considering my cause and my affliction and delivering me and my generations-past, present, and future-for I do not forget Your law. Lord, thank You for pleading my cause through the generations and reviving me and my family line according to Your Word. Because I trust You, Lord, I am like Mt. Zion which cannot be moved, but abides forever. So I thank You, Lord, for delivering me and my [family's generations]-past, present, and future. Thank You for redeeming me and reviving me and my family line throughout the generations, according to Your Word. For as the mountains surround Jerusalem, so You, Lord, surround me and my [family generations]--past, present, and future from this time forth and forever.
Thank You, Lord, that the scepter of wickedness shall not rest on the land allotted to the righteous because the entirety of Your Word is Truth and every one of Your righteous judgments endures forever. Lord, thank You for restoring the Scepter of Righteousness.
Lord, will You forgive me and my generational line for (former) closing (of) the doors of Your anointing and blessing.
Lord, will You now bless me and open the doors of Your anointing and blessing and release the generational blessings, gifts, callings, and goodness that my generational line did not receive. 
(Thanks Lord.  We, on both sides of our family line, NOW receive all your forgiveness and blessings.) 
Scripture references for this word:
Isaiah 59; Proverbs 18:21 (tongue); Isaiah 54:17 (tongue);
Genesis 15:11; Ezekiel 34:22-28; Psalm 139 (similar to Ezekiel one);  Job 8:14 (spider's web); Psalm 119:153-160; Psalm 125:1-3 (Mt. Zion, scepters of the wicked); Psalm 89:28-29 (covenant of love, establish His line forever); Ephesians 1:3, 17-19; 4:29; 4:31 (inheritance, blessing, unwholesome talk, one body & one spirit, get rid of all bitterness and rage);
Isaiah 55:6-13; II Chronicles 7:14-16 (turning from wicked ways, humbling); James 3 (evil parts of the  body, tongue praising God..)

Demonology - Loneliness - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zgu6duaCFR0&feature=related - Doug - www.fellowshipofthemartyrs.com

Doctor Dobson's - Focus on the Family - radio archives      http://feeds2.feedburner.com/FocusOnTheFamilyDailyBroadcast 

Graham, Ruth - www.ruthgrahamandfriends.org  Waynesboro, Virginia, USA

Hegstrom, Paul - Watch Sid Roth's Messianic Vision archived webcast  4/16-22/2007    www.sidroth.org
Paul shares how the Limbic system's thalmus only obeys your own voice.  Beware what you speak! 
When Paul became teachable, God revealed how to rewire the brain. 
One significant method is to read the Bible out LOUD (especially the red lettered words of God/Jesus.)
The brain's amygdale has a major role in one's emotional development.  It can be rewired. 
Power of the Subconscious  sermon on tape  http://www.lifeskillsintl.org
The subconscious affects every aspect of our lives, including perceptions...
Ongoing conferences at Tower Community Fellowship, Aurora, Colorado, USA http://www.lifeskillsintl.org/shop/seminars.html
Hegstrom, Paul http://www.familyskillscenter.com/index.html  
2/12-16/07  Healing Adults from Childhood Hurts   2/15/2007 Thursday Sid Roth's Messianic Vision radio broadcast shares marvelous hope for those with damaged brains. 
Hegstrom contends that even if part of the brain nerves are damaged (Hegstrom lost 40% of his brain due to a stroke.), new brain cells can be activated/wired to the rest of the brain, so that brain damage can be reversed (as was true of his brain). 
The key to doing this is to speak/read aloud especially the Word of God!
Listen (Real Player) Mon Tue We Th Fri (Media Player) Mon Tue We Th Fri Download (mp3 file) Mon Tue We Th Fri  Cassette #DC1526  CD #DD1526  http://www.sidroth.org/radio.htm  Broken Children, Grown-Up Pain book #1064

   Heijstek, Kees    South Africa    Biblical Steps to Inner Healing    5/18/2009
http://www.aliveministries-sa.org/downloads/innerhealing.pdf
http://www.aliveministries-sa.org/freedownloads/completelistofdownloads.html

Hontz, Marilyn       Book: Shame Lifter: Replacing Your Fears and Tears with Forgiveness, Truth and Hope     6-CD Set: Finding Wholeness and Healing
6/22/2009 radio broadcast    Overcoming the Shame of the Past 1   http://fotf.cdnetworks.net/fotf/mp3/fof_daily_broadcast/ffd_2009/2_april_may_june/ffd_20090622.mp3
When Marilyn revisits her hurts each time, God takes her deeper into insight and healing.  One time involves forgiveness.  Another time involves seeing Jesus there in the hurt. 
Her mom mentored her in that she prayed for her future mate and her future children.

Jakes, TD     TV  current/archived broadcasts       http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/the_potters_house/
http://www.bennyhinn.org/media/2008-9-5.asx 9/5/2008

Jewish bereavement - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bereavement_in_Judaism   http://www.aish.com/literacy/lifecycle/The_Stages_of_Jewish_Mourning.asp
Stages of mourning     1st First stage - aninut     2nd Second stage - avelut   3rd Third stage - shiv'ah 
                                  4th Fourth stage - shloshim     5th Fifth stage - shanah a year of mourning

Lassiter, Ruth - Boston area ministry based on Henry Wright's Pleasant Valley church, Georgia ministry.
Weekly classes begin each fall and last approximately 9 months for a free will offering.  Preregistration required.  recomminded only for those who are desperate  ruthlassiter@gmail.com

LeDoux, Joseph            www.cns.nyu.edu/home/ledoux/synapticself/index.html
LeDoux, Joseph            books            The Emotional Brain or Synaptic Self
Ledoux theorizes that our emotions are stored in the brain's lateral amygdala which is part of the limbic system.
[LeDoux (The Emotional Brain), professor at New York University's Center for Neural Sciences, has come up with a theory: it's the neural pathways the synaptic relationships in our brains that make us who we are. Starting with a description of basic neural anatomy (including how neurons communicate, the brain's embryological development and some of the key neural pathways), LeDoux reviews experiments and research, arguing that the brain's synaptic connections provide the biological base for memory, which makes possible the sense of continuity and permanence fundamental to a "normal" conception of self. Writing for a general audience, he succeeds in making his subject accessible to the dedicated nonspecialist. He offers absorbing descriptions of some of the most fascinating case studies in his field, provides insight into the shortcomings of psychopharmacology and suggests new directions for research on the biology of mental illness. Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.]

Jonah Lehrer    http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/  2/28/2009
The rational/mental/intellectual choices/decisions we make more often than not are influenced greatly by our emotional reactions/feelings.
"Behavioral economists set up 3 distinct choice environments, which allowed them to subtly bias the decision-making approach of the subjects. For instance, in condition two the volunteers were forced to memorize a long random string of numbers, which took up valuable cognitive space in working memory. There's a large body of evidence that such random digits make it harder to engage in "rational" thought, and thus make it more likely for people to rely on their emotional system. The researchers then had subjects choose between a series of paired objects. For instance, people were given a choice between a 'Quick Release Micro-Light Keychain' and a 'Voice Recording Keychain with LED'.
What did they find? In all 3 conditions, subjects who relied more on their emotional system made a more consistent set of decisions. In other words, the property of transitivity - which, along with 'completeness' is one of the basic assumptions of rational preference relations in economic theory - seems to depend not on rational thought processes but on those subtle emotional signals emanating from the limbic system. Here's the irony: In order to behave like a 'rational agent' one needs to rely on the emotional brain."

Linn, Dennis & Matthew - Healing of Memories - Prayer an Confession Steps to Inner Healing - http://www.linnministries.org/

Malone, Henry    http://www.visionlife.org/about_henry.htm Texas

Mendez-Ferrell, Ana       God's  Weeping Room    mp3  wma  rm  from http://www.elijahlist.com/words/display_word/3664
http://music.elijahlist.com/Jill%20Austin/Visitations-The%20Epic%20of%20God's%20Heart/Jill%20Austin%20-%20Visitations.mp3   "The Epic of God's Heart is presented as a 2-disc set. The 1st CD is Jill Austin,
Heidi Baker, and Ana Mendez-Ferrell describing their personal, radical encounters with Christ."

Meyer, Joyce          Radio Broadcast 3/21/2007  Pressing Past The Pain Of Feelings - Part III 
                              Radio Broadcast 3/22/2007  Pressing Past The Pain Of Feelings - Part IV
  http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/Radio/Archive/   
Meyer, Joyce - home - http://www.joycemeyer.org/
TV I-Pod Archives http://itunes.apple.com/podcast/joyce-meyer-tv-podcast/id152445231
Meyer, Joyce - TV Archives http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/joyce-meyer-ministries/ or
Meyer, Joyce - TV Archives http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/tv/Archive/
6/08/2010 Mental Health #1 http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/TV/Archive/20100608.htm
6/09/2010 Mental Health #2 http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/TV/Archive/20100609.htm
6/10/2010 Emotional Health http://www.joycemeyer.org/OurMinistries/Broadcast/TV/Archive/20100610.htm
6/10/2010 Emotional Health http://itunes.apple.com/podcast/joyce-meyer-tv-podcast/id152445231#
8/6/2010 - Emotional Health - http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/joyce-meyer-ministries/20100806/

Moore, Beth - Wednesdays with Beth     http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/life-today/
10/7/2009 http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/life_today/20091007/  Being Sorry for Hurting Others
10/8/2009 http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/life_today/archives.asp?bcd=2009-10-8 
Archives - http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/life-today/listen/broadcast-archives.html James & Betty Robison

Oats, Kathi     Kathi Oates 2008    http://www.sidroth.org/site/News2?abbr=rad_&page=NewsArticle&id=7793&security=1042&news_iv_ctrl=1121
Radio broadcast#1620 12/1-5/2008     12/4/2008 is especially good regarding asking God to minister to the broken parts of our hearts and removing/healing the walls/partitions/divisions in our fractured selves/personalities.  (Even reuniting our formerly fractured now healed parts.)
[Numerous Catholic ministries major on this approach and minor on the deliverance approach. 
2 that come to mind are Neal Lozano's Heart of the Father Ministries, Ardmore, Pennsylvania, USA  www.heartofthefather.com + the Francis MacNutt ministry in Florida  www.christianhealingmin.org .]
Other Sid Roth archived radio broadcasts = http://www.sidroth.org/site/PageServer?pagename=rad_archives

Roberson, Dave    ministry newsletter on emotions and how speaking in tongues helps  
July 2006 Letter

SALTS  - Open Hearts Ministry, Kalamazoo, Michigan, USA        www.ohmin.org
Survivors of Abuse Leadership Training weekly Seminars
Based on therapist Dr Dan Allender's The Wounded Heart 
The Wounded Heart Workbook   The Wounded Heart CD Seminar
Discusses "soul deadening form of abuse...Book reaches deep into the wounded heart...
exploring the secret lament of the soul damaged by sexual abuse -
and laying hold of the hope buried there by the One" Who is healer/doctor/husband/lover.
Other Allender books =  Bold Love   The Cry of the Soul   http://www.thepathlesschosen.com/main.html

Harvard psychiatrist Fredric Schiffer's special eye glasses alter mood/emotional outlook
Those with post traumatic stress reduce anxiety when looking only out of extreme left side of his glasses.  Those with major depression felt better when looking only out of the extreme right side of his eye glasses.  Glasses seem to work best during time of crisis. Scientific basis for this is that regions affected are on the reverse side of the brain.  Right eye vision interacts with left side of brain and vice versa.  Of Two Minds: The Revolutionary Science of Dual-Brain Psychology Excerpt (12/11/1997  http://www.hno.harvard.edu/science/archives/health/glasses121197.html ) 
Beware of any spiritual chapters; this book is on websites endorsing reincarnation and other realities.

Silvoso, Ed - of Harvest Evangelism - Swatting the Fly as revealed by God - from Paul Cox's   http://aslansplace.com/articles/
"The pastor found that the life cycle of the adult fly is 21 days in the summer. The larva stage of the fly is a few days and the pupa stage is 3 to 7 days. The truth then became clear. If you can get rid of a fly and its offspring, then the cycle of the fly’s generation is broken and you will be rid of all flies.  The Lord the told him to proclaim truth for 40 days. Specifically He told the pastor to take an area of your life in which you want freedom. Find 40 key biblical verses in that area and proclaim them as truth for 40 days."
Swatting the Fly of Anger
Swatting the Fly of Curses
Swatting the Fly of Depression
Swatting the Fly of Doubt
Swatting the Fly of Fear
Swatting the Fly of Lust
Swatting the Fly of Pride
Swatting the Fly of Rejection
Swatting the Fly of Shame
Swatting the Fly of Waste

Katie Souza - Healing School - Messianic Radio 10/18-22/2010 - excellent

Theophostic Models of Inner Healing 
http://www.healmylife.com/articles/counselling/theophostic%20counselling.html

This I Believe - Morning Edition radio broadcast  9/26/2005 transcript  Cecilia Munoz: Getting Angry Can Be a Good Thing   http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=4859208

http://www.woundedheart.org/con_40.htm   www.bibleteacher.org   Exposing the Wicca link 
a. cult techniques of manipulation
b. 12  forbidden practices - according to the KJV Bible
c. 12 rules for raising gang members or drug addicts

TEST ALWAYS - EACH SPIRIT

Walker, Norman Wardhaugh (1867-1985 = 118 yrs) http://www.riemschneider.org/index.php?page=nummer-2   http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norman_W._Walker   http://www.answers.com/topic/norman-w-walker  http://www.detoxlife.com/normanwalker.htm  
Beware to ask God's Holy Spirit if some of Norman's teachings are demonic or holy, as some reek with the aroma of idol worship and other far east flavors/practices/religious practices/beliefs.  Ask Him to show you each root/origin. 
For instance, Tune Your Mind and Body - Become Younger - chapter 16 Your Nerves states, "Every organ, limb and part of the body has 3 important nerve endings, 1 is in the iris of the eyes (iridology/rainbow goddess?), 1 is in the walls of the colon, and 1 is in the sole of the feet (reflexology?)...Various parts of the body...can be helped and relaxed by pressing on the (foot) parts indicated."
"The main distributing nerve center of the body is located at the base of the brain in a structure know as the Medulla  Oblongata, just above the nape of the neck.  From here it spreads out to every part of the anatomy.  It is divided into 2 main sections or divisions.  One is the abdominal, or sympathetic nervous system...The other is the central nervous system consisting of the brain and the spinal cord wit its many branches."

RESILIENCY

Jesus was alive in heaven before the foundation of the earth, came to earth clothed in flesh, died once, was resurrected, and now lives forever. 
Cats are said in jest to have 9 lives.  Eveready batteries are portrayed as rabbits, forever reproducing and hopping about.  Superman is said in advertising to swoop in and rescue in a single bound.    Balls are able to bounce.  Kangaroos and frog leap.  We humans joined to the Holy Spirit of God can also do mighty feats, but never alone.  God created us this way, to be a joint venture with Him.  Marriage is God's illustration of 2 becoming one - in Him.  Me + He (God) = We.  Human spirit + Holy Spirit = unity.  Sperm + egg = zygote/fetus/baby.

I Am Potential    Patrick Henry Hughes    autobiography    10/2/2008
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcZEV5PgtUs&feature=channel   
“Patrick Henry Hughes was born with a rare genetic disorder that left him without eyes and physically disabled. But he was also blessed with exceptional musical talent—able to play the piano as a toddler and ...at age 19, a nationally known pianist, singer, and trumpeter who has performed at the Grand Ole Opry and the Kennedy Center. Currently he’s a member of his college marching band, playing while his devoted father pushes him in his wheelchair...Now, for the first time, Hughes and his father share the full account of his extraordinary journey. In I Am Potential, Hughes recounts the 8 critical lessons he has learned that are at the heart of his success, including When Life Gives You Lemons, Accept Them and Be Grateful and Do All You Can to Change What You Can.” 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCCym0Rf__E&feature=related At age 20.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xBSCAVEzmCM&feature=related 
- cool theme of being "blessed" by God with a special needs child -
However, the bottom line is that in most cases, the root cause of family "curses" is one or more demons, unforgiven/unconfessed ancestral/family iniquity/sin, and/or unbroken evil spells/ proclamations by/from occult practitioners. 

Pankalia, Carolyn Goad - www.carolynpankalia.com - Rely on faith NOT feelings! 
http://www.cornerstone-northcentralflorida.com/cover.php?archive_issue=103

Vujicic, Nick    Life Without Limbs    http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/       watch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tl58qufXfYk  - excellent
http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/media-video-results.php?mediaID=61  or watch
http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/media/lwl08-colombia-modelo-prison/lwl08-cd3-modeloprison-300.mov
Many other wonderful internet links !

INNER HEALING MINISTRY

Inner Healing Prayer Ministry - equipping the team
http://www.communitycovenant.net/media/Documents/Prayer_Ministry_Prep_ResourceNov08.pdf

Linn, Dennis and Matthew (Catholic)- Healing of memories - Prayer and Confession Steps to Inner Healing
1.Thank God.  2.Ask God What He Wants to Heal.  3.Share a painful Memory with Christ. (Ask the Holy Spirit to root out any hurt and to replace with/plant God's forgiving love.  Christ can help us to forgive ourselves and whoever hurt us, as He unveils what good can come from the hurt.)  We are to "confess and expose for healing, not only the scars, but also what (initial incident/habitual pattern) caused them!"  We "pick up the (broken) bits and pieces" (of our heart/soul) and bring them to Him to put "back together" and "to refashion" into a masterpiece that He envisioned from the foundation of the earth.  As we thank God for His blessings (for us and others) that will sprout from the mended wound, healing will accelerate.  A spiritual (blood) transfusion will occur as we exchange our negative feelings for God's holy feelings. 
Authors noticed that trauma can bring some to psychiatric hospital and some to God.  Perception and handing of a memory was a giant key.  Allow your tragedy to become your open door to healing, blessing and God.  Your misery can become your ministry, if you allow God's Holy Spirit to remold like clay that hurt
APPENDIX - Scripture and Confession pg.91, Spiritual Exercises for Healing pg.97 = Circle of God's Love pg.97, Triangle of Offering God's Love pg.98 Healing of Memories Square pg.99, Healing of Memories Diamond pg.101 (web links to pages)
Linn, Dennis and Matthew - Healing life's hurts: healing memories through five stages of ... - Google
Linn, Dennis and Matthew - http://www.linnministries.org/ - http://www.linnministries.org/about_linn_ministries.htm  Healing our Image of God - http://www.actheals.org/Publications/Articles%20on%20Healing/JCHF97-19-3%20Linn.pdf
Linn, Dennis and Matthew - Sleeping with bread: holding what gives you life - Google for children -
relates to the imprisoned Jews who slept with bread.
Linn, Matthew & Dennis - Healing Life's Hurts - Paulist Press
Linn, Matthew & Dennis - Deliverance Prayer - http://www.linnministries.org/   
"90% of those having evil spirits have an open door due to deep hurts in life, making it difficult to get close to Jesus.  Often they (clergy) counsel those seeking deliverance to 1st attend the (morning) Eucharist daily for a month and (stay in church) after the Eucharist to spend a half hour adoring Jesus.  This weeds out those coming only for relief and unwilling to make a deep commitment to Jesus...Those returning are often free of all spirits, because they have grown closer to Jesus...The evil one will leave easily and for good only when all wounds (invitations/incentives/legal grounds for) inviting him (the evil spirit) back are healed (gone)...Be (not) so concerned about whether or not they have (one has) an evil spirit, but rather (more importantly) whether they are (one is) growing closer to Jesus Christ."
(Remember, Jesus counseled the disciples to be joyful that their names were written in heaven, rather than joyful because demons had fled during their ministry to demonized individuals.)

Lozano, Neal - Especially for Catholics and Episcopals - www.heartofthefather.com 

Papal thoughts on repenting for sins of past generations - http://www.koed.hu/sw249/adam.pdf

MacNutt, Francis and Judith - especially for Catholics and Episcopals - www.christianhealingmin.org

Sanford, John Loren and Mark - Elijah House Ministries, Spokane Valley, Washington state, USA
Deliverance and Inner Healing - #1 Relationship between Deliverance and Inner Healing
1.5 A Christian Can Be Demonized
1.7 Do's and Don'ts of Deliverance
1.8 a Balanced Approach toward Mental Illness and Disorders
#2 Deliverance and Healing from Types and function of Demons
2.10 Delivering Places
2.11 Delivering Animals and Objects
2.12 demonic Specialists
2.13 Strongholds: Individual and Corporate
Not binding decoys (distractions) delay (prevent) the root cause from being exposed/evicted.
#3 Relationship of Occultism, Spiritualism and Cults to Demons, Deliverance and Inner Healing
Appendix 5 - Scripture References about Prenatal Wounds and Sins
Appendix 6 Clues for Identification of in Utero Wounds

Scanlon  Encouragement  http://www.tangle.com/view_video?viewkey=a4acc05f852a4b3ce110
Scanlon    Nine Ways to Open Up God’s Will for You by Fr. Michael Scanlan, T.O.R.    
http://catholicfaith.wordpress.com%2F2009%2F08%2F10%2Fnine-ways-to-open-up-god%25E2%2580%2599s-will-for-you-by-fr-michael-scanlan-t-o-r%2F&section=blog&wrt_id=262

TRAUMA reversal prayer -
When trauma happens to the heart or mind, the soul can break or fracture.  Sometimes the broken parts go into hiding for the purpose of self-defense.  However, when the person is older, the broken off part is still hiding (under a bed, in a closet, in a fox hole, in a memory) and frozen in time (never maturing with the rest of the person). 
The Holy Spirit will help re-unite the broken-off part back into its former place.  The broken-off part will never be happy until it is home (in its own bed, in its own place, just like a missing piece of a puzzle that was lost and now is found)…
Because of free will, I need to give my consent to those who want to help me.
I need to say yes to God, to Jesus, to the Holy Spirit, to my guardian angel, and to anyone now doing this ministry with me, to allow them to take the hand (of my spirit man), to pull my broken/fragmented soul piece out of my mental prison of torment, to ascend with them, to sit on Father God’s lap, to be established in Him, to proceed from there back into my home (my healthy whole mind, which is my soul) the part of me that (with my born-again spirit) fellowships with the Trinity when I pray and when I go to heaven. 
Holy Spirit please gently reveal to me the root reason why I was hurt, so that I will recognize and quickly refuse it when it tries to recapture me after I am free.
I say YES now as I visualize my brokenness ascending into Your lap Papa God, being hugged by You, and when fully healed, descending into my body where I am now restored and beginning the destiny for which I was created from the foundation of the earth.  Awesome!
As the Jews are being re-established in Israel, so are You God through Your son re-establishing me with a sound mind, heart, emotions, body, plus a future designed just for me.
I do NOT need to be afraid.  Father in heaven, You love me and desire my safety, peace, and joy.  Scripture says that God has not given me a spirit of fear, but instead has given me power, love, and a sound mind.  With Your help, Holy Spirit, I forgive my perpetrator, I forgive You God, and I forgive myself, because Jesus Your Son forgave me first through His sacrifice on the cross.    Amen.  My mountain has become my ministry.  Thank You Lord.

Jonathan Welton 12/13-18/2009 http://www.sidroth.org/site/PageServer?pagename=rad_archives
author of The School of the Seers
Wed 15th & 16th Sid Roth's Messianic radio program gives insight to one having spiritual swords/spears/arrows piercing an individual and needing removal, often by another.

Woodley, Julie - Restoring the Heart Ministries - Setauket, New York, USA - www.rthm.cc
http://threevillagepeople.com/showcase.php?mId=119    http://www.restoringtheheartministries.com
In the Wildflowers - 10 DVD documentary series of 6 women - identity of sexually abused traded for identity in Christ - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3mPj4MrETA   
Julie Woodley: A Clean Slate - www.CBN.com - 700 club -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLrL22pRx2k&feature=related
Resume - http://www.thechristianjournal.org/jwoodley.htm
Wildflower retreat training for counselors -
3/7/2010 RADIO - Episode # 84- Ex-Prostitute, Trauma Counselor, Julie Woodley of Restoring the Heart Ministries  or
http://www.restoringtheheartministries.com/wildflowers/wildflowers-training-events.asp
http://divineintervention.typepad.com/divine_intervention/2010/03/episode-84-exprostitute-trauma-counselor-julie-woodley-of-restoring-the-heart-ministries.html  from http://divineintervention.typepad.com/divine_intervention/radio/
Radio - Download DI # 84 Julie Woodley pt 1 - http://divineintervention.typepad.com/files/di-84-julie-woodley-pt-1.mp3
Radio - Download DI # 84 Julie Woodley pt 2  - http://divineintervention.typepad.com/files/di-84-julie-woodley-pt-2.mp3

Conception to Birth
Healing Issues

John A. Speyrer -  Intrauterine Memories of Twins -
http://www.twinlesstwins.org/GRIEF/ProfessionalResearch/IntrauterineMemories.aspx or http://primal-page.com/twiner.htm

SATAN'S SPIRITUAL ARROWS

Bubeck, Mark I.    The Adversary      www.deeperwalkinternational.org   Chapter 5 Facing Satan's Kingdom
"Eagerly, Lord, I lift up the shield of faith against all the blazing missiles that Satan and his hosts fire at me.  I recognize You are my shield and that in Your incarnation and crucifixion You took the arrows of Satan which I deserved.  By faith I count upon You to shield me from above and beneath; on my right and my left; in front of me and behind me, that I might be protected, walled in, encapsulated by You that Satan may gain no way to hurt or destroy me."
Father God in Jesus name, I depend on You and Your angels to remove all demonic arrows which pierce and wound my heart.  I depend on You to heal and make me (like bones) stronger in formerly broken places.
Glory.  I can depend on your mercy and kindness.  I fall into Your arms of love.  Thanks, Lord.  Amen.

Stone, Perry - Children in the Devil's Playhouse - Demonic Spirits Entering the Home 
Chapter #2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cjv7w1a0A3o&feature=related - There are 5 emotional soul holes. 
1. Shame over secrets
Chapter #3 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFArftKlzk8&feature=related 2. Confusion due to sexual molestation - incest, rape, homosexuality, lesbianism, a parent or clergy representing God.  3. Verbal/emotional abuse  4. Addiction 5. Divorce which can trigger hate and rebellion.

MEDICAL SCIENCE

http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/brainfunction.htm
Chemical Baths, Neural Pathways, Monkey and Lizard Brains 
"The Neo-cortex controls rational thought, speaking and other higher brain functions.
The limbic system controls emotions and a whole lot more.
The Cerebellum controls movement, action and body functions."

http://www.counseling.org/Publications/CounselingTodayArticles.aspx?AGuid=1ddd9bc8-2e8f-45f0-b384-444c6059bf83
Empathy and mirror neurons "Empathy is not just an abstract idea; it is identifiable and measurable in the physical brain...Decety comments, 'The basic building blocks (of empathy) are hardwired into the brain and await development through interaction with others. ... Empathy (is) an intentional capacity.'
Let us 'unpack' the meaning of that complex sentence and its implications. Mirror neurons are neurons that fire when we behave, think or feel, and they also fire when we see others behave, think or feel. Mirror neurons enable you to sense and understand what the client is saying and feeling. These neurons even impact your internal bodily responses when you are empathically experiencing the world of the client...
As clients restory their issues, new neural connections are born. Your empathic behavior and the relationship are central to change, further emphasizing the importance of a positive approach to change. If we listen and selectively attend only to problems as counselors, this will reinforce negative patterns in the brain and make the change process slow and clumsy.
What we learn here is that the empathic person's brain responds to another person's experience, even though he or she does not actually experience that person's world...For example, around their 2nd year, children indicate concern for others cognitively, emotionally and behaviorally by comprehending others' difficulties and trying to help. Perhaps you have seen 2 young children playing together. One falls and starts crying. Even though the 2nd child has not been hurt, he or she also cries. This ability to observe the feelings of others could be considered the developmental roots of empathic understanding.

CNVC - http://www.cnvc.org/en/Training/feelings-inventory  http://www.cnvc.org/en/Training/needs-inventory
http://www.cnvc.org/en/Training/nvc-chapter-1
"NVC guides us in reframing how we express ourselves and hear others. Instead of being habitual, automatic reactions, our (spoken) words become conscious responses based firmly on an awareness of what we are perceiving, feeling, and wanting. We are led to express ourselves with honesty and clarity, while simultaneously paying others a respectful and empathic attention. In any exchange, we come to hear our own deeper needs and those of others. NVC trains us to observe carefully, and to be able to specify behaviors and conditions that are affecting us. We learn to identify and clearly articulate what we are concretely wanting in a given situation. The form is simple, yet powerfully transformative."
As we recognize our feelings/emotions and our needs, we can connect the dots between feelings and needs plus be able to communicate/translate them (to others and ourselves), rather than to act out inappropriately, according to Dr. Christine Northrop.  Northrop also stresses the importance of healthy self-talk, especially to extend longevity.

Hormann, Aiko - http://www.aikohormann.org - Unmet Needs and Damaged Emotions - New York

Leaf, Dr. Caroline - Who Switched Off My Brain - controlling toxic thoughts and emotions
www.drleaf.net  or purchased at www.mhmin.org   
chapter 11 Toxic Emotions  "Thoughts you build have emotions attached to them...Describe...focus on the emotions...Put them into words...Your feelings are the emotions attached to the thoughts...Pour out your thoughts onto paper...Journal...Notice any patterns...Allow your cluttered emotions to pour out...rather than at the next...party...Are there signs of imbalance between emotion and reason in your life or a situation you are facing...Adopt a policy of: admit it, quit it and beat it...Ask yourself (and God) specific ways you can reach (step) beyond what is holding you back...(to) prayerfully put these steps into action. "
(Do it afraid.  Better still is to expose, bind, repent, renounce, refuse, reject, and/or remove, in the name of Jesus, each specific personal sin, family iniquity or hindering/besetting problem cited in journal.)
CD - Who Switched off My Husband's Brain - Does Her Battery Ever Run Dry 
www.drleaf.net  or  www.mhmin.org 
CD - 2004 #TV011110 Today with Marilyn & Sarah interview with Dr. Leaf  www.mhmin.org excellent

This Emotional Life - 3 part PBS series - http://video.pbs.org/program/1142148877/

Broken/Fractured Hearts/Relationships

Dickow, Gregory - Healing the Father Fracture (audio CDs)